Is it so wrong to fall in love with a stripper?

[funtimeca]

I met a stripper and we had seen each other so often for almost half year. At first I was just kinda looking for a fun time after I broke up with my ex-gf. To be honest, this is my first time seeing a stripper. She told me that she didn't do this often and most of time she is dancing in the club. I believe her and start treating her like my GF with respect and care. I take care of her financially and send her 4k-6k a month. I really want her to settle down and focus on her study.

But later I find out that she is also an escort and doing it quite often. It makes me really sad. I must admit I've fallen for her. How I know I've fallen for her. I cry for her. I stay home a lot, I keep thinking about her and I'm always making plans for her and I - blowing heaps of cash for overnights. Sex is no more important to me when I see her. But I don't want this kind of relationship because I am still young( 20-something), not bad looking and don't want to be anybody's sugardaddy.

Is it possible to change her? is there a happy ending for us if we keep seeing each other? Why is it so hard for her to get out and to get a real job? I never believe in fairy tales but now I am begging to be in one.

 

[calloway]

Sorry man... but you were used.

You weren't the first... and you won't be the last.

 

[alexmst]

Which member are you trying to parody in this post?

 

[wantoplay]

Strippers, MP, SP, they all need, want, and deserve to be loved too. They are real people with real feelings, so yes, it is possible, but you should think of them as a woman, a person, and not what they do. Honestly, look past the job, and look at the person.

If I ever had feelings for an SP,MP, and it was mutual, I really would not care about their job.

Just my 2 kopeks.

 

[Adrianna]

haha!

(you better not be serious)

 

[ig-88]

The Scorpion and the Frog

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Scorpion_and_the_Frog

From wikipedia:

The Scorpion and the Frog is a fable of unknown author, though often mis-attributed to Aesop.[1] The story is about a scorpion asking a frog to carry him across a river. The frog is afraid of being stung, but the scorpion reassures him that if it stung the frog, the frog would sink and the scorpion would drown as well. The frog then agrees; nevertheless, in mid-river, the scorpion stings him, dooming the two of them. When asked why, the scorpion explains, "I'm a scorpion; it's my nature."

 

[wantoplay]

Sorry man... but you were used.

You weren't the first... and you won't be the last.

I would love to be used by her, your sig girl.

 

[Stokley]

Which member are you trying to parody in this post?

Just the men.

 

[kk56]

If you drop out, she will loose 4K-6K a month and has to rely more, even, on escorting.
Perhaps if you increase and send her 10K a month, wont do escorting---if she can get so much from one guy with little work and a little bull why to work hard with the agency for little money?

 

[seth gecko]

If loving a stripper is wrong, I don't wanna be right!

And luckily, she tells me that all the time. I'm never right about anything. Ever.

 

[Cinema Face]

Unfortunately, you learned the hard was just as I did that it's always a mistake to fall in love with a stripper.

Strippers have more isssues than National Geographic. They will break your heart and your wallet. Then they are on to the next guy.

Strippers are on this earth for one reason. They are a sexual Xbox.

Don't try to make a housewife out of a whore, man.

 

[seth gecko]

Don't get involved with a stripper who doesn't know the lyrics to "Tie a yellow ribbon". She'd better learn them before Dec 1st, or else someone will be hitchhiking!

 

[rafterman]

I'm just thinking you gotta be a troll buddy...sorry.

For your next trick how about.....?????

"I like it when she uses a strap-on up my ass...am I gay?"

 

[Cycleguy007]

Is there a contest going on at Anti-terb?

 

[genintoronto]

There's nothing wrong with falling in love with a stripper, or starting a relationship with one.

Where you are wrong in my opinion is 1) in believing that you can love someone into changing the way you want them to be; and 2) starting a relationship with someone in the sex industry expecting her to quit her job for you.

 

[funtimeca]

I'm just thinking you gotta be a troll buddy...sorry.

For your next trick how about.....?????

"I like it when she uses a strap-on up my ass...am I gay?"

Sorry...if you think that this is a troll... I just want to hear from the girls out there and hopefully I could get some advices. This is something that I can't really talk to my friends or family...

 

[jiiimmm]

4 to 6K a month! no wonder the poor girl is hooking on the side. A girl has got to eat. Don't be so cheap, your in your 20's you should be able to fork over 10k plus. Maybe then she'll treat you right.

 

[rafterman]

Okay man you're on the level....no you can't change this lady....some people are just wired as "users". This gal will use you as long as she has a use for you....the nanosecond she doesn't you're done. That's the truth. The absolute best thing you can do is break off all contact now. No phone calls, texts, emails, coffee, nothing. The upside here for you is nil.

 

[funtimeca]

Okay man you're on the level....no you can't change this lady....some people are just wired as "users". This gal will use you as long as she has a use for you....the nanosecond she doesn't you're done. That's the truth. The absolute best thing you can do is break off all contact now. No phone calls, texts, emails, coffee, nothing. The upside here for you is nil.

Thanks! Bro..Ya..Everytime I talk to her is making me even more depressed. She has so many excuses. I think there is no trust. People always say strippers are human. I respect them. That is why I try so hard to make something happen.

 

[Rono]

Are you this guy?

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=263259