My ATF’s blocked me after years of not seeing them

[black booty lover]

move on and seek help

You post plane rides and weather reports on an escort review board, maybe you should join him?

 

[explorerzip]

And that is your problem. Not saying they are not people, but they are not your friends and probably wouldn't care if you lived or died. Also you don't know them, you know their work persona.

You have been on terb long enough to know better and to not expect a better reaction from us.

The thing is that texting friends and family randomly can get really annoying too. You can only reply to "what's up" so many times.

 

[NotADcotor]

The thing is that texting friends and family randomly can get really annoying too. You can only reply to "what's up" so many times.

 

[Jenesis]

The thing is that texting friends and family randomly can get really annoying too. You can only reply to "what's up" so many times.

But this is not family and I suspect these are personal Instagram accounts as many SPs don’t use the platform for advertising. So contacting an SP personally gets you blocked.

Contacting after retirement-block.

It is crossing boundaries. If that is the disruption he messages under.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

But this is not family and I suspect these are personal Instagram accounts as many SPs don’t use the platform for advertising. So contacting an SP personally gets you blocked.

Contacting after retirement-block.

It is crossing boundaries. If that is the disruption he messages under.

Not wishing to hijack, but I went to see a lady last week out of curiosity because of rave reviews. She is busy. However, after one session she has taken to contacting me on a spamming level. Unfortunately she asked me for my number and I don't have my burner number memorized, so I gave her my real number, which is also a work phone. Now I realize I am all that..... but, for somebody who I know is that busy, it is an unwelcome surprise, which has never happened before. If I had given her my burner number I wouldn't be concerned. Fuck.

 

[Jenesis]

Not wishing to hijack, but I went to see a lady last week out of curiosity because of rave reviews. She is busy. However, after one session she has taken to contacting me on a spamming level. Unfortunately she asked me for my number and I don't have my burner number memorized, so I gave her my real number, which is also a work phone. Now I realize I am all that..... but, for somebody who I know is that busy, it is an unwelcome surprise, which has never happened before. If I had given her my burner number I wouldn't be concerned. Fuck.

Instant block and I would warn others. That is totally not right at all.

 

[LiveInTorontoPartyInMontreal]

It was purely transactional. A $ illusion. Initiate it, and delete from your end then you can start living in the real world.

 

[explorerzip]

But this is not family and I suspect these are personal Instagram accounts as many SPs don’t use the platform for advertising. So contacting an SP personally gets you blocked.

Contacting after retirement-block.

It is crossing boundaries. If that is the disruption he messages under.

Obviously, he isn't contacting friends or family. Fact remains that you can annoy just about anyone by frequently sending random texts that have no purpose. I find it very annoying when my friends say that "we should get together", but can never find time to do it. Why even have friends if you never have time to spend time together?

 

[FrankenStrat]

Not wishing to hijack, but I went to see a lady last week out of curiosity because of rave reviews. She is busy. However, after one session she has taken to contacting me on a spamming level. Unfortunately she asked me for my number and I don't have my burner number memorized, so I gave her my real number, which is also a work phone. Now I realize I am all that..... but, for somebody who I know is that busy, it is an unwelcome surprise, which has never happened before. If I had given her my burner number I wouldn't be concerned. Fuck.

ARE YOU OK?!?!
YOU'RE WORK PHONE?!
Who the fuck do you think your are?! Trump?!
Why would you EVER do ANY of this with a WORK PHONE?!
You obviously already had her number, so why didn't you say I will call you and give you my number that I use for 'FUN TIMES' later?

 

[IM469]

I like to keep their contact information as a way to remind me of the amazing memories I had with them or to possibly reach out and see how they’re doing.

As years go by, The blocking slowly occurs from my ATF’s. My phone numbers as well as my social media gets blocked by them. It honestly makes sad because I loved those women as people.

This is one of the reasons why I’ve been trying to make a shift from seeing SWs to dating because I never get blocked by women I took out on dates even when they found a partner after the fact.

I think you need to realize that as an adult entertainer moves on in life, get a new family life, etc, they might not share your nostalgia of the past. While it not your intention, she could feel her past has come back to haunt her.

As for reaching out to revive distant memories I will quote my favorite verse from the Paul Simon song Kodachrome:

If you took all the girls I knew when I was single
And brought 'em all together for one night
I know they'd never match my sweet imagination
Everything looks worse in black and white

Regarding dating girlfriends who eventually move on - I take it that you have never been 'ghosted' when the change occurred ? That's usually my first hint that the wind has changed direction.

 

[Terminator2000]

no.because they're dating other people. or maybe they're moving on or maybe they're leaving the industry.

just move on.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

ARE YOU OK?!?!
YOU'RE WORK PHONE?!
Who the fuck do you think your are?! Trump?!
Why would you EVER do ANY of this with a WORK PHONE?!
You obviously already had her number, so why didn't you say I will call you and give you my number that I use for 'FUN TIMES' later?

I fucked up. As I said. I don't have my burner number memorized. She caught me off guard.

 

[FrankenStrat]

I fucked up. As I said. I don't have my burner number memorized. She caught me off guard.

I hear that bro, but the fact that you're using your work phone to do this is INSANE. The 2 should NEVER meet! (Work/Hobbying). I spent umpteen years on-call and had work phones. I would NEVER even consider doing this. I'm NOT hating on you feller. I'm just looking for ya. Wouldn't want you go screwed (by the company, not by the SW. LOL)

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I that bro, but the fact that you're using your work phone to do this is INSANE. The 2 should NEVER meet! (Work/Hobbying). I spent umpteen years on-call and had work phones. I would NEVER even consider doing this. I'm NOT hating on you feller. I'm just looking for ya. Wouldn't want you go screwed (by the company, not by the SW. LOL)

I contacted the massage parlor by burner. Never thought I would get into a situation where the sp wanted to exchange numbers. I guess she thought I would feel "special" if she offered to contact me on her "private" phone. So when she asked me for my number I couldn't dig into my pocket and get out my little burner phone and try to locate the number on it. I am a dead man.... lol.
If she texts again, I will just ask her politely not to contact me on this phone. I will contact her when I want to see her again, (which is never).

 

[FrankenStrat]

I contacted the massage parlor by burner. Never thought I would get into a situation where the sp wanted to exchange numbers. I guess she thought I would feel "special" if she offered to contact me on her "private" phone. So when she asked me for my number I couldn't dig into my pocket and get out my little burner phone and try to locate the number on it. I am a dead man.... lol.
If she texts again, I will just ask her politely not to contact me on this phone. I will contact her when I want to see her again, (which is never).

Gimme her number. I'll "talk to her" for ya...

 

[jerbear15]

I fucked up. As I said. I don't have my burner number memorized. She caught me off guard.

I had this issue with a well known lady. She asked if she could text me once in a while and after a few text it turned into a nightmare. She was constantly texting me for a 3-4 days all day and I asked her politely to stop. I don't mind a text once in a while but I ended up blocking her.

 

[JohnnyWishbone]

I had this issue with a well known lady. She asked if she could text me once in a while and after a few text it turned into a nightmare. She was constantly texting me for a 3-4 days all day and I asked her politely to stop. I don't mind a text once in a while but I ended up blocking her.

What did she text you about? Asking for money and gifts or just trying to offload all of her problems on to you ?

 

[princekwekua]

I contacted the massage parlor by burner. Never thought I would get into a situation where the sp wanted to exchange numbers. I guess she thought I would feel "special" if she offered to contact me on her "private" phone. So when she asked me for my number I couldn't dig into my pocket and get out my little burner phone and try to locate the number on it. I am a dead man.... lol.
If she texts again, I will just ask her politely not to contact me on this phone. I will contact her when I want to see her again, (which is never).

You didnt think to block her. And even after @Jenesis gave you the obvious solution, you still cant bring yourself to block her. Wow

 

[Mr.lover]

With work phone, don't they monitor your usage? Wouldn't they be able to see who you are contacting ?

 

[Raynex]

I accumulated phone numbers and social media accounts of my favourite SWs over the years and whenever they would quit working at whatever adult entertainment establishment I met, I would either still have their phone number and/or have them on social media.

I like to keep their contact information as a way to remind me of the amazing memories I had with them or to possibly reach out and see how they’re doing.

As years go by, The blocking slowly occurs from my ATF’s. My phone numbers as well as my social media gets blocked by them. It honestly makes sad because I loved those women as people.

This is one of the reasons why I’ve been trying to make a shift from seeing SWs to dating because I never get blocked by women I took out on dates even when they found a partner after the fact.

I can see why they blocked you