The wife beater's defence.
She knew that if dinner was cold you'd break her face ergo she expected her face to be broken and approved having her face broken.
Failed logic.
You are describing a scenario where only 2 parties are involved and that is not the case with what we are discussing. There are 3 parties involved once you include the Gazans. They are the ones getting punished.
A proper analogy would be if she knew that he'd be angry if dinner was cold and she also knew that he'd take it out on the kids. So if she (Hamas) intentionally and provokingly let her husband's (Israel) dinner get cold and the kids (Gazans) subsequently suffered, yeah sure, she'd be deserving of plenty of blame for the children's suffering. And by the way, it doesn't have to be with violence. Maybe they had to go to bed hungry.
Sorry pal. You need to try again. You need an appropriately analogous situation. The dynamic is very different when 3 parties are involved instead of just 2.
But let's really complete the scene. Let's add a 4th party. You, frank, knew the family and you knew how the husband would take things out on the kids. But seeing as you wanted to bang the wife and wanted a wedge driven between husband and wife, you were happy that she left his dinner cold and it didn't bother you at all that the kids had to go to bed hungry for something that they had no control of. That's the kind of person you are. That's the sum of your morality.
Thanks you so much for providing that partial analogy for me. It made it so easy for me to paint you into a corner and you can't use your political false narratives and rewritten history to dip and dodge because it's a domestic situation, not a geopolitical one. You can't outlogic me. All you can do is gaslight.