Havent participated in the hobby for a bit of time now as Ive been trying to find a girlfriend. This weekend Im gonna go out with a girl im interested for the first time, as just the 2 of us. To be clear she said it herself that she wants to go on a date too, kinda. Wondering if anyone here has any unique ideas for things to do, and how to handle this lol
First Date Advice
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You want to take a girl on an real date and the first place you look is here? Does that make sense?
Yeah. Most people on this forum ask if it's OK to Cum on Face. Hahaha
Sooner or later, someone's going to ask how to use a condom
So you are going on a date, and you are not giving her cash?
I understand each individual word you are using but you have combined them in a way that is nonsensical to me.
I understand each individual word you are using but you have combined them in a way that is nonsensical to me.
For starters I think you've been on this site for too long.
bring cash in an envelope
1. Take her to dinner. Give her options on where. Avoid movies!!!!!
2. a little alcohol is good, but ask her first. If she says no, follow her lead.
3. Eye contact is good, but too much is creepy
4. Try to find what interests her, but avoid an interrogation
5. If you’re having fun (or even if the date seems stalled), suggest another place to go. Maybe a small live music dance club like the reservoir
lounge.
6. If she’s sending you positive signals, touch her hand. If she responds relax and enjoy what may come next.
7. Assume this date may go nowhere and try to enjoy the conversation and company of another human being.
(Maybe this should have been number 1)
2. a little alcohol is good, but ask her first. If she says no, follow her lead.
3. Eye contact is good, but too much is creepy
4. Try to find what interests her, but avoid an interrogation
5. If you’re having fun (or even if the date seems stalled), suggest another place to go. Maybe a small live music dance club like the reservoir
lounge.
6. If she’s sending you positive signals, touch her hand. If she responds relax and enjoy what may come next.
7. Assume this date may go nowhere and try to enjoy the conversation and company of another human being.
(Maybe this should have been number 1)
Be mindful of what you say... Don't say: "I haven't been on a date in ages!" and then when asked when you last had sex: "I had sex last week!". It might raise questions. 
My advice that seems to work well as a first date ice-breaker (for me) -
- Keep it casual.
- Ask her if she has any food preferences.
- Keep the conversation light but focus on her interests, favorite places to visit, etc.
- Find a common interest and milk it.
- I don't not talk much about myself unless asked and I stay away from conversations regarding former girlfriends or her boyfriends.
- If a former girlfriend topic surfaced, take the high road and 'we drifted apart' rather than a 20 minute rant on what a selfish, cheating bitch she was.
- If I would like a second date, I usually find out if she likes art, any movies she hasn't seen, parts of the city she would like to see, etc.
- We usually have the framework for the second date in place before the first date is finished.
Sounds like you might have first hand experience ehBe mindful of what you say... Don't say: "I haven't been on a date in ages!" and then when asked when you last had sex: "I had sex last week!". It might raise questions.
Are you always so helpful? Or are you just a cynic? OP Is asked tor help/advice. Either be helpful or say something funny.
I think this film is useful. Especially if going to dinner and a movie, although the no smoking rule keeps a person from lighting a cigarette with the table candle - which actually discouraged in the more serious second part of the film.
