I wouldn't blow whatever credibility on TERB you might have on some fanciful revisionism.There is no expenses that NATO countries are required to pay.
It is merely a commitment to spend on defence.
But what is fair is relative and the US's criticisms are not valid.
The US is the primary beneficiary of NATO activities.
They chose to create a military that was bigger than what they need for their national defence.
They chose to create over 750 military bases the world over.
It was their choice to do so because they wanted the military, political and economic clout.
So they have to pay for it by carrying NATO on their shoulders.
But I do agree that Canada has to spend on its defence chiefly to defend itself from threats the US poses.
There have been times when even Americans have questioned the size of our military. It certainly needs a a major rationalization. However, we have seen in recent years why American military might is necessary. Where are most of the Ukraine's most advanced weapons sourced? Who is protecting global shipping lanes in the Persian Gulf and the Red Sea? Who is trying to keep the Iranians in check?
We can go on about how Europe was and is defended to this day against Russian aggression. How Eastern Europe was wrested from Soviet control. The South Koreans and the Japanese might also have something to say.
You can question some of the U.S.' military decisions but you can't support broad statements that the U.S. chose to create a military that was bigger than they need for their national defense. The truth is more complicated and you just dream some natural global peace and security would have manifested itself in a world without the U.S military.
PS- You've become quite the storyteller since your emergence on TERB. I insist you sound like a reincarnation of some other members. Anyway, most of us had progressive and Marxist professors who tried to sell us their stories of the failures of American and Western dominance. The healthy thing is not to regurgitate all of this but formulate dynamic views to deal with a far more complicated and changing world.