Family courts overwhelmingly favour women in divorce.
They get the kids,house,car,child support,spousal support,etc.
Men are forced to move out and give most of his earnings to her.
And I know people who drank themselves to death as they got older.
Anecdotal evidence is useless.
Very few people change their behaviour as they age.
Women are incentivized to break marriages so men need to choose wisely or risk financial ruin.
If you are paying an sp why would you not choose the 40-50 year old over this particular sp.
Men can easily date 20 years younger.
Why would you stick to women your age?