Reminders On How To Be A Wonderful SP...

Kusa said:

• Extend a warm welcome using both verbal and non-verbal cues, such as a friendly smile or a welcoming hug. As the host, make a conscious effort to ensure that your clients feel welcomed.
• Curious what the expectation is when it is an outcall, since we are not the host at that point
  
  
• Respond promptly to requests for your time either way by yes or no respectfully. Utilize an auto-response function in your emails to acknowledge receipt, as no response may prompt repeated attempts at contact you.
• Define promptly
  
  
• Yes, I will book a few providers to increase my chances of success. Don't be offended if I choose the first to respond, I need to restore blood to my head as soon as possible.
• This is why I rarely respond to last minute requests, they are 9/10 a waste of my time, so you screw yourself over with this behaviour.
  
  
• Avoid keeping clients waiting outside, especially in unfavorable weather conditions and/or when finding a parking area is a challenge. Plan ample time between sessions to prevent a rush and potential time conflicts.
• If you're early, you're waiting. We plan enough time, some clients screw that up and that is out of our control, clients need to ensure they arrive and leave on time. But then, if we try to engage in time management we get called clock watchers, you can't have it both ways.
  
  
• If canceling on the same day or at the last minute, consider offering credits as a gesture of goodwill, similar to the cancellation fees we (clients) incur.
• This is ridiculous, when a client doesn't show up we lost hundreds of dollars, when I cancel you lose, maybe gas. This expectation will cause providers to work when they are not feeling well, physically or mentally, and this will lead to a not great session for you. You should appreciate when we cancel, we are actually saving you money by not having you spend money on what might be a not perfect experience.
  
  
• Practice discretion when using the bathroom, particularly when it comes to loud peeing, do it quietly to avoid potential misinterpretation of manhood.
• If a woman peeing bothers you, you shouldn't be allowed anywhere near a vagina, this is ridiculous.
  
  
• Be mindful of dietary choices, especially a day before intimate encounters involving oral activities, by avoiding foods that may increase odour and acid levels.
• So providers who work multiple days a week should rearrange their whole diet for you? This is a ridiculous expectation. This is only reasonable in there is going to be anal, and while I personally do not offer it currently, when I did you get what you get, you're putting a dick in someones ass, if you are not mature enough to handle what that might entail, you shouldn't be fucking people in the ass.
  
  
• Allow a brief period of 2-3 days after your menstrual cycle before resuming work to avoid any residual discharge smells that may cause regurgitation.
• So you want us to take 6-8 days off a month, would you be cool with our rates increasing by 30% to compensate for this loss of earnings? Again, if a little RESIDUAL discharge or blood, on the tip of your condom bothers you, you are not mature enough to be touching vaginas. At most, I would say if you are really concerned and you're into daty, you can get her know in your communication that if she has had her period in the last 2-3 days to let you know during the appointment so you do not go down on her, but it should not effect you going forward with the appointment, this is childish.
  
  
• Actively participate in the agreed intimate activities to ensure enjoyment, preventing any misunderstandings about consent.
• I think the misunderstanding of consent here is yours, consent cannot be 100% given in advance as it is ongoing, if I agreed to DFK but then your oral hygiene is horrendous, I am fully allowed to withdraw consent. If you show up with sores on your dick, I am allowed to withdraw consent. If you make me uncomfortable, I am allowed to withdraw consent. If I am just not in the mood to do that particular things today, I am allowed to withdraw consent (but obviously if I was not in the mood to kiss, suck dick or have sex, I would cancel the appointment before hand, this is more so for the more YMMV things like CIM, COF, rimming etc) No services are guaranteed, and consent is based on many factors.

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Vera.Reis said:

• Avoid keeping clients waiting outside, especially in unfavorable weather conditions and/or when finding a parking area is a challenge. Plan ample time between sessions to prevent a rush and potential time conflicts.
• If you're early, you're waiting. We plan enough time, some clients screw that up and that is out of our control, clients need to ensure they arrive and leave on time. But then, if we try to engage in time management we get called clock watchers, you can't have it both ways.

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Paprika said:

1. Be on time.

2. Don't kick me out early.

3. Don't hustle me for more tips.

4. No negative energy: Don't raise your voice, ask awkward questions, or badmouth others.

5. Don't deny me second shot when there's still 15 minutes left of the 1 hour session.

6. Drop the entitled attitude during subsequent visits. Just because I like you doesn't mean I deserve worse service.

7. Be open-minded.

8. Eye contact during BJ.

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Vera.Reis said:

If you're early, you're waiting. We plan enough time, some clients screw that up and that is out of our control, clients need to ensure they arrive and leave on time. But then, if we try to engage in time management we get called clock watchers, you can't have it both ways.

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Jenesis said:

If you can’t handle hearing a girl take a pee - don’t be around women. We pee a lot.

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Kusa said:

• Extend a warm welcome using both verbal and non-verbal cues, such as a friendly smile or a welcoming hug. As the host, make a conscious effort to ensure that your clients feel welcomed.
  
  
• Engage in icebreaker conversations to establish a sense of comfort for all involved. Avoid limiting interactions to one-sided responses, as this tends to resemble an interview rather than a shared experience.
  
  
• Respond promptly to requests for your time either way by yes or no respectfully. Utilize an auto-response function in your emails to acknowledge receipt, as no response may prompt repeated attempts at contact you.
  
  
• Yes, I will book a few providers to increase my chances of success. Don't be offended if I choose the first to respond, I need to restore blood to my head as soon as possible.
  
  
• During agreed-upon times, refrain from diverting attention to your phone. Both parties should be fully all hands-on deck.
  
  
• Maintain oral hygiene after CIM/BBBJ encounters, using mouthwash to ensure a clean and comfortable experience for both parties involved. I am not interest in tasting some else’ cream.
  
  
• After each encounter, take a shower or use water and wipes if a shower is not immediately possible. Freshness gives an impression of not being the “one after”.
  
  
• Avoid keeping clients waiting outside, especially in unfavorable weather conditions and/or when finding a parking area is a challenge. Plan ample time between sessions to prevent a rush and potential time conflicts.
  
  
• Demonstrate genuine interest during interactions, recognizing that clients contribute to your income. If uninterested, gracefully conclude a session to prevent further awkwardness.
  
  
• Clearly communicate your type of client preferences if any, lest you create false hope and waste time. Whoever complains, remind them that its not their entitlement.
  
  
• If canceling on the same day or at the last minute, consider offering credits as a gesture of goodwill, similar to the cancellation fees we (clients) incur.
  
  
• If compensated as per the agreed amount, don't anticipate tips; leave the decision to tip up to us. Express appreciation if a tip is given, as silence may be misinterpreted as entitlement.
  
  
• Practice discretion when using the bathroom, particularly when it comes to loud peeing, do it quietly to avoid potential misinterpretation of manhood.
  
  
• Be mindful of dietary choices, especially a day before intimate encounters involving oral activities, by avoiding foods that may increase odour and acid levels.
  
  
• Allow a brief period of 2-3 days after your menstrual cycle before resuming work to avoid any residual discharge smells that may cause regurgitation.
  
  
• Actively participate in the agreed intimate activities to ensure enjoyment, preventing any misunderstandings about consent.

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Kusa said:

• Extend a warm welcome using both verbal and non-verbal cues, such as a friendly smile or a welcoming hug. As the host, make a conscious effort to ensure that your clients feel welcomed.
  
  
• Engage in icebreaker conversations to establish a sense of comfort for all involved. Avoid limiting interactions to one-sided responses, as this tends to resemble an interview rather than a shared experience.
  
  
• Respond promptly to requests for your time either way by yes or no respectfully. Utilize an auto-response function in your emails to acknowledge receipt, as no response may prompt repeated attempts at contact you.
  
  
• Yes, I will book a few providers to increase my chances of success. Don't be offended if I choose the first to respond, I need to restore blood to my head as soon as possible.
  
  
• During agreed-upon times, refrain from diverting attention to your phone. Both parties should be fully all hands-on deck.
  
  
• Maintain oral hygiene after CIM/BBBJ encounters, using mouthwash to ensure a clean and comfortable experience for both parties involved. I am not interest in tasting some else’ cream.
  
  
• After each encounter, take a shower or use water and wipes if a shower is not immediately possible. Freshness gives an impression of not being the “one after”.
  
  
• Avoid keeping clients waiting outside, especially in unfavorable weather conditions and/or when finding a parking area is a challenge. Plan ample time between sessions to prevent a rush and potential time conflicts.
  
  
• Demonstrate genuine interest during interactions, recognizing that clients contribute to your income. If uninterested, gracefully conclude a session to prevent further awkwardness.
  
  
• Clearly communicate your type of client preferences if any, lest you create false hope and waste time. Whoever complains, remind them that its not their entitlement.
  
  
• If canceling on the same day or at the last minute, consider offering credits as a gesture of goodwill, similar to the cancellation fees we (clients) incur.
  
  
• If compensated as per the agreed amount, don't anticipate tips; leave the decision to tip up to us. Express appreciation if a tip is given, as silence may be misinterpreted as entitlement.
  
  
• Practice discretion when using the bathroom, particularly when it comes to loud peeing, do it quietly to avoid potential misinterpretation of manhood.
  
  
• Be mindful of dietary choices, especially a day before intimate encounters involving oral activities, by avoiding foods that may increase odour and acid levels.
  
  
• Allow a brief period of 2-3 days after your menstrual cycle before resuming work to avoid any residual discharge smells that may cause regurgitation.
  
  
• Actively participate in the agreed intimate activities to ensure enjoyment, preventing any misunderstandings about consent.

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Kautilya said:

It is appropriate for the client to wait, if they arrive early. I think what the OP was referring to, is for the provider to avoid making the client wait beyond, the start time of the date.

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Vera.Reis said:

Given his unreasonable requests, I don't why you think he meant something more reasonable. But since he didn't specify and hasn't been back, either interpretation could be correct.

And I've had clients show up early and give me attitude when I wasnt ready 15 minutes early. So what I said is relevant.

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Kautilya said:

Not all of his points were unreasonable. And he was quite clear with that specific point that he was talking about being let up on time.

Avoid keeping clients waiting outside, especially in unfavorable weather conditions and/or when finding a parking area is a challenge. Plan ample time between sessions to prevent a rush and potential time conflicts.

Also weren't you the one who complained that people assigned the worst possible meaning to something in the other thread? So wonder why you would do it here, even when the thought was expressed clearly, unless it is because you assume that providers are always right and clients are always wrong which is not the case.

So no, what you said wasn't the relevant response.

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Vera.Reis said:

1. I didn't say ALL his requests were unreasonable.

2. What you quoted can be interpreted either way. It could be leave ample time between calls so that if a client shows up a little early you aren't rushed trying to get things done to let him up asap.. or it can be interpreted how you did.

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Kautilya said:

I didn't say that you said that all his requests were unreasonable. I said that your interpretation that a reasonable point that he made, could have possibly been made unreasonably, was uncalled for. There was no ambiguity in what he stated. It was clear. There is no reason to interpret things otherwise.

He said, and I quote the OP - "Plan ample time between sessions to prevent a rush and potential time conflicts."

Given the clarity in his statement, the generally reported client experience of having to wait outside before being let up to the apartment beyond the start time of the session and the general rule that you are not allowed up early - his statement is clear in its meaning - which is dont make us wait beyond the start time of the session and leave time between sessions so we can start on time and end on time.

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