Fingering: The basics
- Thread starter LC18
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ok ok ok, I'll bite. What's in the advanced thread? The "come hither" crooked finger motion?
Thank you so much for posting this.
My website clearly states to be gentle while using fingers and to have trimmed nails and clean hands.
I did say no fingers for about a month and had two TERB members complain and refuse to see me because of it, like they were telling me this to pressure me, so I went back to fingers allowed with the requirements above.
Other than my regulars, nobody who uses fingers seems to listen to the requirements, so I will be going back to no fingers at all (yes your thumb counts and I say this for a reason, not that I should have to).
Ramming fingers or thumbs into me while I'm dry, being rough with fingers, trying to basically fist me with multiple fingers that obviously won't fit, using fingers with untrimmed nails, etc... have all caused me injury that prevents me from working the next day, or next few days.
Once I had someone being so rough, fast and hard that their fingers and nails would ram onto my clit or lips multiple times instead of going back inside me and I bled... They had caused small cuts.
Some need to realize that our internal vaginal walls are sensitive with very thin "skin" and that they need to work up to fingers, get us wet before ramming them in there.
Another thing I personally hate is when a client bends or crooks their finger and twists it around and around. It hurts! A lot!
The finger should only be slightly bent in a come hither motion where the g spot is, not in the opposite direction facing my asshole.
Sorry guys, rant over.
That’s horrible, I’m sorry. No one should feel pressured to offer a service they’re not comfortable with.
Valid Rant .
I can't even imagine a fellow human being so out of touch with the reality of touching. And with the fucking gross, dirty nails and hands I see on a lot of men. Imagine those assholes having a guy like themselves doing that to their ass hole?!?! And those are likely the type of guys who would whine and (figuratively) be butt hurt if you tried to tell them how to touch a pussy correctly. On the hands of the right man, fingers are more versatile and pleasure inducing than anything short of a Hitachi Magic Wand!
Sorry you have experienced this.
