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Why does it seem some women become more promiscuous as they grow older?(Single mom's in particular)

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In 1984-85, (I was 23-24), I had a FWB relationship with a then 36 year-old divorcee with two kids. She was a friend of one of my sisters whom I met at a house party.

The second time i met her, she said "You're cute. let's go back to your place". For about eight months, until my job moved me out of town, I spent about three of every four Saturday nights at her place. Never once were we out together in public, and I think my sister is still none the wiser.

In between the first two times we met, she dumped a short-term commonlaw. She had no time or interest in dating, but she wanted some casual sex every so often.

I would phone around 6 PM on Saturday nights, and say "Are we on tonight?", and the majority of the time she said yes, then she arranged for her two young daughters to be babysat at one of her friend's houses overnight.

This was an ideal relationship for both of us at that time. Much like when repeat booking an Escort for extended hours, we both knew what was in store for Saturday night and early Sunday morning before I arrived. I'd usually show up around 9 PM, and leave about twelve hours later. We'd chat, flirt, drink some wine and smoke some weed, then retire to the bedroom after about ninety minutes. She was a former hippie who had had many partners in the late 60's/ early 70's. She was Jewish, however, which might explain why I never got a blowjob from her.
 
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Its a hard thing to address but I know some really grimey single mom's. I feel like that's not the norm though.

Raising kids makes you care less about stuff that doesn't matter and you lose your filter.

I lost my ability to be patient and to sugar coat things because there was just no time for those things when you're managing everything for everybody all the time.

I think sometimes that reflects in single moms. They don't have time or the energy.
They want to get right down to business because their free time is limited.

They want to get right down to fucking and chucking. Most men are not partner material let alone father material and they already made that mistake once or twice... sometimes 7 times (I knew a lady with 8 kids and 7 fathers). so most men are good for a good time and not much else.

When I was a single mom I had a stable of guys ready to fuck. They were good looking, good in bed but not good for anything else. They had nothing to offer and could barely take care of themselves or they were too self absorbed but they were "good for now". All my single mom friends had the same thing.

Most men can't handle taking a back seat to children that aren't theirs and women don't want to baby another man that needs his life managed for him and needs to be coddled.

Aside from prostitution, having sex with an independent single mom might be the most honest interaction you'll ever have.

My single mom friends, myself included act more like men because we had to be the man. Some of them drink like men, talk like men, fight like men, fuck like men and they don't care. Lol

We talked about anything and everything and nothing was off limits. Again, because our time was limited and we get straight to the point.

As soon as we meet a real man though all that changes.
I don't have first hand experience nor empirical data to support this, just antidotal information from fiends who are divorced and were back in the dating pool.

What you are saying here Sinnamon is generally backed up by what these guys were telling me about their experiences.

They ended up having way more casual sex than ever with other divorced (possibly some never married) women and it was "wilder" than they had experienced before their marriages.
 

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Its a hard thing to address but I know some really grimey single mom's. I feel like that's not the norm though.

Raising kids makes you care less about stuff that doesn't matter and you lose your filter.

I lost my ability to be patient and to sugar coat things because there was just no time for those things when you're managing everything for everybody all the time.

I think sometimes that reflects in single moms. They don't have time or the energy.
They want to get right down to business because their free time is limited.

They want to get right down to fucking and chucking. Most men are not partner material let alone father material and they already made that mistake once or twice... sometimes 7 times (I knew a lady with 8 kids and 7 fathers). so most men are good for a good time and not much else.

When I was a single mom I had a stable of guys ready to fuck. They were good looking, good in bed but not good for anything else. They had nothing to offer and could barely take care of themselves or they were too self absorbed but they were "good for now". All my single mom friends had the same thing.

Most men can't handle taking a back seat to children that aren't theirs and women don't want to baby another man that needs his life managed for him and needs to be coddled.

Aside from prostitution, having sex with an independent single mom might be the most honest interaction you'll ever have.

My single mom friends, myself included act more like men because we had to be the man. Some of them drink like men, talk like men, fight like men, fuck like men and they don't care. Lol

We talked about anything and everything and nothing was off limits. Again, because our time was limited and we get straight to the point.

As soon as we meet a real man though all that changes.
It's certainly reads like a really bad circle of men you and these women have come to know and that is terribly sad.

The "most men" comments you made are absolutely contrary to most men I know. Fortunately, most of the men I know are decent, honourable, responsible people that have always put the needs of their family first.

While I have certainly met the kind if man you describe, I would never give them a moment of my time let alone be in my circle of friends. Same can be said for the women I know, with an exception of a handful that feel entitled to run their men ragged. In each case, those men wiped the dust off their balls and moved on in their life while still providing for their kids...even though those kids were weaponized against him. And in each of those cases, as the kids grew older, came to realize how decent their fathers really are.

It's sadly unfortunate that your generizations are considered the norm.
 
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