What’s the longest you’ve seen a provider

Lovinthegame

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So, with some many amazing providers out there have you basically narrowed it down to anyone in particular?
With all the years in this hobby and seeing so many good and bad providers, do you choose just one or two ?
When I started off in this hobby in my much younger years, i would see different one’s constantly. I was more about just getting the thrill and beautiful women. As time went on, it was narrow it down to a particular type, nationality, look and ethnicity.
Then it was more of a compatibility issue/requirement. The sex was the priority but having something in common to talk about was moving up the list fast.
I got to a certain age were it became more intellectual and enjoying someone’s company. Crazy as it may seem, I enjoyed discussing events and having a good conversation.
For awhile I was seeming a delightful SP, younger but we had a lot in common from food, music and movies. It got to the point of a weekly visit , to exchanging text messages every other day. She did have some issues and unfortunately the demons got the best of her (RIP).
I was back to trying to find another person. I know that we are just a client and their motivation is financially driven but some do truly have a connection. It could be with multiple clients.
The last SP that I have been with , 7 + years seemed to be going well. We’d enjoy evening out, discuss family issues, go to the theatre and nice dinners. Some of the outings were her suggestions and no financial requirements. But like I said, she has other clients and has bills to pay.
When we are being intimate, you can’t help but wonder if it’s the same with others? So how do we handle this? Do we let the feelings take over .
And yes, I still occasionally see other SP when she is not available 😃.
Just my Monday rant.
 

Cbr20152012

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I haven’t been up to this for a long time, so the number of years with an SP won’t be significant. If I’ve been at this for 3 years, then I’m still seeing a few ladies that I saw 3 years ago.

When I started, Asian Nicole gave me excellent advice - have 3-5 regulars and enjoy all of them. I’ve followed that advice and have, for the most part had excellent experiences, i haven’t found myself too close to anyone, and yet I have still enjoyed the evolution of sex that comes when you are trusted/regular with someone.

Having a core rotation allowed me to avoid getting too close to anyone - which is a real risk in this aspect of life.
 

Sonic Temple

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I have a wonderful core rotation - will see new SPs in between when the Horsemen tempt me (they always do - who we kidding :D) but overall - adore the the SP's I see regularly throughout the year and longest for me is 2 years still a baby I guess :ROFLMAO: .
 
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Goodoer

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GTA & Thereabouts...
I’m still looking for a regular…. It’s sort of depressing when you repeat and the chick seems like a different person…. It’s even worse when they don’t remember you from last week and use literally the exact same routine and lines…. I thought I was going crazy.
 
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ExoticCharmer

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There's total time spent and total time elapsed on the connection..

Some SPs, I've known for many years but only seen them for 20 total hours..

Other SPs, I've known a short time but have been them for 100+hours..

Chemistry / compatibility matters a lot and then there's "too much of a good thing" vs "ages like fine wine"...

Some give signs of staying in the industry, so there's no urgency to spend time with them. Others are gone with the wind, so gotta see them while you can..
 

SexB

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I've been seeing one lady for coming up on 12 years.

Another lady for close to nine years, though she did take a couple hiatus where we didn't see each other for a while.
 

Robert Mugabe

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I’m still looking for a regular…. It’s sort of depressing when you repeat and the chick seems like a different person…. It’s even worse when they don’t remember you from last week and use literally the exact same routine and lines…. I thought I was going crazy.
 
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Robert Mugabe

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reminds me of the Rodney Dangerfield joke.....i get no respect, no respect even from hookers, one of them told me to say please
I can see Rodney and raise ya...One told me "I don't know why you keep coming here. Nobody forces you to. Why don't you go away and take some medicine and die?"
 
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dragoneyemp

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My first regular lasted roughly 3 years. Right when she started at an agency and followed her through when she went indy, up until she retired. It was a short stint but she was everything I was looking for. So much so that I took about a 6 year break before starting back up again. My current regular, I have been seeing for roughly 2 years now, and hopefully many more years to come.
 

Normscot

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Had 4 long term regs. Life was good. I find familiarity adds to the experience for both of us that’s why I pursue regs. It takes time to find one that works for me. They drop out of the biz over time. Im down to one now and she’s become sporadic. Started cold calling again. I know from experience it’s a 95% chance new encounters will be one and done. It’s a lotta work but somebody’s gotta do it.😉
 
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YoYoHoward

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I’ll see the good ones till the wheels fall off. Had a few scary moments of overly emotional language with my current ATF, but I think I’ve finally got her dating a “normal” guy and hoping it sticks this time.

Too many of these girls date drug dealers or DJs - it really can’t be that hard for a good looking girl who’s great in bed to land a decent guy.
 
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BiggerTitsTheBetter

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Too many of these girls date drug dealers or DJs - it really can’t be that hard for a good looking girl who’s great in bed to land a decent guy.
Depends on your definition of "decent" and "normal" and if you include "achiever" in it. I think it is very hard for a working lady to find a "decent" guy and have a "normal" relationship with someone that understands her work and supports her. So if she doesn't want to leave the industry, the dating pool will be coloured by this, with a higher percentage of losers in that pool unfortunately.
 

superman12

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The longest I have continually seen an sp is about 3 years. Things got stale and boring so stopped seeing her. I do have a tendency to get bored with women so I try to see new providers as often as I can. Keeps things fresh and exciting for me. I do keep a few regulars as a backup when I just want a guaranteed good time but there is a level of intrigue and excitement that you get with seeing something new that you just dont get with regulars after seeing them a few times.
 
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