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Im a first time client, and new to this forum so pardon my poor search skills if this has been answered already.

im looking to book an hour with an independent worker. Id like for it to be a relaxing time and Im curious to know if there's anything you all do in particular for hour long sessions apart from the obvious.

do you bring drinks/snacks? do you listen to music or watch a show? it will be an incall so not totally up to me to take control of our time and offer things to do.

let me know if you have any ideas. thanks!
 
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sofargone said:
Im a first time client, and new to this forum so pardon my poor search skills if this has been answered already.

im looking to book an hour with an independent worker. Id like for it to be a relaxing time and Im curious to know if there's anything you all do in particular for hour long sessions apart from the obvious.

do you bring drinks/snacks? do you listen to music or watch a show? it will be an incall so not totally up to me to take control of our time and offer things to do.

let me know if you have any ideas. thanks!
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An hour goes by A LOT FASTER than you think

I feel like snacks / drinks would be the 90min -2hour mark depending on the girl & watching a show is on a multi hour / overnight date
 
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I've just generally tried to be polite (I'm kinda shy anyway) and go with the flow. I figure.. she knows what's up.

My perfect hour: Intros and we pretty much get right to it and while I dont rush, I let the first finish happen. Usually doesn't take too long when its been a while and she knows what shes doing. Then we have a nice opportunity for cuddles, mutual massage, talking, etc. Usually shes pretty attuned to the situation and gets round 2 started with 20-30 minutes left. Plenty of time to take it a little slower, enjoy the ride and the views, and have a nice finish.
 
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Ive mainly done hh ir 15-20 minutes sessions based on not the best 1hr appointments in the past

By reading responses I think I've been doing it all wrong. My idea for a hr appointment is about 15_25 minutes of bj and 30-40 minutes of sex and maybe receive a little massage at the end.

Thanks guys I've learned some new ideas for my next hr appointment session
 
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A professional SP should lead you through the encounter and fill the time appropriately considering your input and any specific requests you have.

I’m sure many pace their dates faster than me but I agree with the beautiful Nadia, an hour goes quickly and is fairly action-packed!! IMHO, and speaking from experience with both quick and protracted encounters, it’s not the best option for everyone, especially if you’re looking for an organic encounter that doesn’t feel transactional or to tick a lot of activity boxes. Unless you just mean a sip or two of wine, there’s time for a unrushed drink with 90 min+ and snacks with 2-3hrs. I rarely watch TV with clients, we get distracted with other things 😉
 
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I’m older so 1SOG is typical. For an hour, that’s about perfect for me as it allows a lot of intro time, drinks, small talk while she gets ready (this is for outcalls), then the action, post nut clarity with quick cleanup and farewells. For incalls, 45 mins is about perfect.
 
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NadiaLovechanko said:
An hour goes by A LOT FASTER than you think

I feel like snacks / drinks would be the 90min -2hour mark depending on the girl & watching a show is on a multi hour / overnight date
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Depends... While your mouth may be busy mine is not :ROFLMAO:
 
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Many of us were in your position once OP. There have been some good comments about how she will take the lead, but the goal is to avoid a mechanical experience that follows a script. She's in control, but she will still enjoy or not enjoy the hour based on your chemistry.

My suggestion is to break the ice early. A hug at the start, not a handshake ;) Then the hard part, forget about the clock - that part you can safely let her keep track of. Sit down and talk about your hobbies, exciting moments coming up, like a trip or big purchase. Do not bother with a fake (or even real) backstory of why you're there. Focus on positives and you'll enjoy the hour a lot more. She's there to make you feel amazing and want to repeat, not to be a therapist. That opening talk lets her get a sense of you, relax and will lead to an hour that will breeze by without snacks, distractions or awkward pauses. There's other posts on etiquette, but the main two I'd recommend not forgetting about are that right after the greeting, before going to another room, put the envelope on a nearby table and when she offers a shower don't say you've just taken one, just ask if she wants to join you and take a quick shower using the soap and think about what parts of you she'll be glad to see you put effort into cleaning.
 
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As an older dude, MSOG is a dream I could not realistically expect unless I take 90+ minutes. Plus, I tend to orgasm pretty quickly, so I tend to go for MA vs FS.

So, for me, an hour starts with a nice hug, some small talk/chit-chat, a quick shower/rinse of mouth before I get on the bed.

Some massage for about 30 minutes, then reverse massage for about 15 minutes, then the finish and a cleanup/shower.
 
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While we're talking about 60 mins
A huge pet peeve of mine is the huge upcharge some places have from 45 to 60 min, because they assume msog. Like some other older gentlemen have stated, us old guys take longer, but are usually easier on the ladies.
 
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SIRLOKI said:
While we're talking about 60 mins
A huge pet peeve of mine is the huge upcharge some places have from 45 to 60 min, because they assume msog. Like some other older gentlemen have stated, us old guys take longer, but are usually easier on the ladies.
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This is very specific to Asian agencies, not the case for the clubs in Ottawa. Sounds like you’re asking for a Seniors discount 😂

OP: I may be repeating much that has already been said. I would advise for your first few sessions to let it be known this is new and you’d like their help in guiding the time spent together. Over time, you’ll learn what you like more and like less and can become more forthcoming in setting the mood and direction.

Just go in clean, with fresh breath, and an open mind and things will fall into place. Being a decent human (and a decent tipper) will go much further than overthinking and sweating the details

It’s also a good idea to consider reviews here to point you towards ladies that may be warm and patient, so that your first experiences are positive and not feeling transactional.
 
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SIRLOKI said:
While we're talking about 60 mins
A huge pet peeve of mine is the huge upcharge some places have from 45 to 60 min, because they assume msog. Like some other older gentlemen have stated, us old guys take longer, but are usually easier on the ladies.
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I feel like MSOG should always be discussed and not just assumed (IMO)
 
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