First-Time Duo – Any Advice

jason.t · Feb 11, 2026

I’m considering booking a duo for the first time (Alpha. Hush, or Paradise) and would love to hear from those who’ve experienced one before. Any tips on how to get the most out of it and make it a great experience for everyone involved?

I’d definitely talk everything through with the MAs beforehand and only book if they’re genuinely into it. Just wondering if there’s anything else I should keep in mind or any lessons learned you’d be willing to share.

NadiaLovechanko · Feb 11, 2026

jason.t said:
I’m considering booking a duo for the first time (Alpha. Hush, or Paradise) and would love to hear from those who’ve experienced one before. Any tips on how to get the most out of it and make it a great experience for everyone involved?

I’d definitely talk everything through with the MAs beforehand and only book if they’re genuinely into it. Just wondering if there’s anything else I should keep in mind or any lessons learned you’d be willing to share.

Let the ladies run the show

duos are amazing but to feel organic let them decide the flow, trying to push a fantasy/ porn style session can lead to awkwardness

also make sure they want to actually be in the room with eachother, ask one of them who they want to do a duo with

also you need to figure out if you want them to be interactive or not

but my suggestion, reach out to your dream girl see if she does duos & who with. Book an hour at least, talk a bit and break the ice (snacks or drinks can help) then start with a shower & go from there

I also think seeing both solo first to make sure you like them helps A LOT

jason.t · Feb 11, 2026

NadiaLovechanko said:
Let the ladies run the show

duos are amazing but to feel organic let them decide the flow, trying to push a fantasy/ porn style session can lead to awkwardness

also make sure they want to actually be in the room with eachother, ask one of them who they want to do a duo with

also you need to figure out if you want them to be interactive or not

but my suggestion, reach out to your dream girl see if she does duos & who with. Book an hour at least, talk a bit and break the ice (snacks or drinks can help) then start with a shower & go from there

I also think seeing both solo first to make sure you like them helps A LOT

Thanks Nadia!

fortunately, I’ve already discussed with them to make sure they would be into the idea and based on who they have a connection with and who I’ve already spent time with solo a few times.

So at this point, I’m mainly at the precipice of actually booking which is what got my nerves up about how to approach it so that I’m not too awkward.

Your advice to let them lead is really helpful. And it’s reassuring to hear from you other guidance that I’ve mostly sorted out. Thank you!!

Assblaster · Feb 11, 2026

Don't do it lol. I've tried duos a few times and I always left feeling like it was a solo session lol. I've been searching for a good duo session for years so I'm also interested on everyone perspectives on this thred too

honeybear69 · Feb 12, 2026

Assblaster said:
Don't do it lol. I've tried duos a few times and I always left feeling like it was a solo session lol. I've been searching for a good duo session for years so I'm also interested on everyone perspectives on this thred too

I have tried only once, but it was SP not MA. It matters not who with, but it was not as it was planned or suppose to be. Naida is 1000% correct, also suggest that the individual Ladies know each other, not just know of each other. Members on here have had successful Duos......I might still do one again, just need to make the right connects with the right Ladies. My problem is that it would need to be at least 2 hour session (possibly 3 hours) and that my friends ......(insert dramatic pause)....... becomes a little pricy, but do-able if I take a break for a few months in between seeing others Ladies. Oh and then throw in that I have a type sorta that I really like....
HB69.....was here?!?!?! Threesome might still happen again for this Bear

Nickfun33 · Feb 12, 2026

Very rare that they're interactive like the movies etc... I've had 10 duos but only 1 amazing and interactive etc... since then I just back to back for 1 hour each and get the best of both worlds

highplainsdrifter · Feb 12, 2026

I've had some amazing duos and some not so great duos. Definitely make sure that both girls have done duos together before, and are comfortable getting interactive with each other. See them both first before, solo. Have a fairly direct conversation before starting to make sure everyone is comfortable with the various activities that are planned, and what everyone's boundaries are. Nadia pretty much summed it up best above. The best duos I've had is where I've just let the women run the show. In my opinion, a Nuru duo is off the charts, and should be experienced by everyone at least once in life. With the right ladies, things can get pretty hot and creative. Hands everywhere, bodies sliding everywhere, not sure who is doing what, all happening naturally. I'm pretty sure one girl accidentally ended up sliding off onto the floor at one point. Hilarious, fun, and sensual. All that being said, I find duos to be almost overwhelming. Too much going on, and my poor brain can't process things fast enough. Not something the budget allows for often, but worth every penny.

Mandalorian · Feb 14, 2026

I love good duos. The financial risk is high, but the rewards (if it’s a good duo) are epic. It it turns out to be a dud, the post nut clarity can be quite harsh. Nadia’s advice is bang on. Get everything expected out in the open and make sure the ladies are aware and fine with it. Nothing gets weirder than awkwardness in the middle of the session.

Peter485 · Feb 14, 2026

I've heard lots of guys on here say they had a bad duo. Honestly not really sure how that's possible.

With minor exceptions, I only do duos. Find a girl your really like, and tell her to bring a friend. Communicate only with her, but the other girl. This Maya it clear who your main is, and whose client you are.

Book 2 hours. The first hour is all about you and girl#1, with #2 helping. The second hour is all about you and girl #2, with #1 helping. Yes it's expensive, that's okay. This is something special.

In terms of acronyms, be upfront and specific about what you want, but be flexible on who does it. In a duo it's l much much easier to get exactly what you want, because even if one girl has restrictions, the other may not. If you want rimming and she didn't do running, no problem, she finds another girl that does. She had no issues swallowing for you, but the other girl does, no problem, they just switch up at the last minute. You get the idea.

If you really want it to go well, send them each an extra $100 before the date, and ask them to buy something special for your date. It might be a new thong, some massage oils, etc. it just makes for a nicer connection when you get there.

KittyCaterina · Sunday at 12:24 AM

Peter485 said:
I've heard lots of guys on here say they had a bad duo. Honestly not really sure how that's possible.

With minor exceptions, I only do duos. Find a girl your really like, and tell her to bring a friend. Communicate only with her, but the other girl. This Maya it clear who your main is, and whose client you are.

Book 2 hours. The first hour is all about you and girl#1, with #2 helping. The second hour is all about you and girl #2, with #1 helping. Yes it's expensive, that's okay. This is something special.

In terms of acronyms, be upfront and specific about what you want, but be flexible on who does it. In a duo it's l much much easier to get exactly what you want, because even if one girl has restrictions, the other may not. If you want rimming and she didn't do running, no problem, she finds another girl that does. She had no issues swallowing for you, but the other girl does, no problem, they just switch up at the last minute. You get the idea.

If you really want it to go well, send them each an extra $100 before the date, and ask them to buy something special for your date. It might be a new thong, some massage oils, etc. it just makes for a nicer connection when you get there.

Duos are so much fun!

To touch on your last point, I love this idea!

I've had this happen twice and it is so much fun using the extra money to surprise the client with new tools, massage oils and even outfits.

Once, my partner and I bought matching cheerleader outfits, a new all-natural edible massage oil and a head scratcher for a head tickling request.

The second time we bought French maid outfits with feather dusters.

Not only is it fun for the two partners to use the extra money for toys, outfits or supplies, it adds mysterious anticipation for the client who can wonder what the SWs have in store for him while he waits for the special date.

pinkpanther800506 · Sunday at 6:21 AM

If I wanted to disappoint 2 people at the same time I’d have dinner with my parents!

jason.t · Sunday at 10:57 AM

Peter485 said:
I've heard lots of guys on here say they had a bad duo. Honestly not really sure how that's possible.

With minor exceptions, I only do duos. Find a girl your really like, and tell her to bring a friend. Communicate only with her, but the other girl. This Maya it clear who your main is, and whose client you are.

Book 2 hours. The first hour is all about you and girl#1, with #2 helping. The second hour is all about you and girl #2, with #1 helping. Yes it's expensive, that's okay. This is something special.

In terms of acronyms, be upfront and specific about what you want, but be flexible on who does it. In a duo it's l much much easier to get exactly what you want, because even if one girl has restrictions, the other may not. If you want rimming and she didn't do running, no problem, she finds another girl that does. She had no issues swallowing for you, but the other girl does, no problem, they just switch up at the last minute. You get the idea.

If you really want it to go well, send them each an extra $100 before the date, and ask them to buy something special for your date. It might be a new thong, some massage oils, etc. it just makes for a nicer connection when you get there.

thanks Peter, that’a a really interesting approach.

To be candid, I don’t think it works for me but I can see the benefit for many. I’m looking to set this up with two of my “mains” as you put it, rather than one and a bonus guest. Options become limited where that is true plus they have a good rapport between them are genuinely into duos together. Without getting into details and names, I’ve a few such fortunate triangles to pursue. But all to say it’s important to me I have a pre-existing and meaningful relationship to each 1:1 before indulging.

as for the pre-gift idea, im not big on special outfits or other in room novelties, and wouldn’t want to start with a burden of them needing to use funds ahead of time to set the stage. I save my outside-of-spa “tips” for things I know to carry meaning for them outside those walls. I don’t feel comfortable gifting things that are about me in the end. That’s just personal preference though, and cool to hear how that’s worked out well for you (and Kitty too!)

i will report back eventually when I take the plunge (presumably with a smile that can’t be wiped off my face

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Hardwood69 · Monday at 11:37 AM

Is there an extra charge for duos or the going hourly rate?

jason.t · Monday at 12:20 PM

Hardwood69 said:
Is there an extra charge for duos or the going hourly rate?

duo fees are different (higher, obviously). See club websites for specifics.

KittyCaterina · Monday at 9:47 PM

jason.t said:
thanks Peter, that’a a really interesting approach.

To be candid, I don’t think it works for me but I can see the benefit for many. I’m looking to set this up with two of my “mains” as you put it, rather than one and a bonus guest. Options become limited where that is true plus they have a good rapport between them are genuinely into duos together. Without getting into details and names, I’ve a few such fortunate triangles to pursue. But all to say it’s important to me I have a pre-existing and meaningful relationship to each 1:1 before indulging.

as for the pre-gift idea, im not big on special outfits or other in room novelties, and wouldn’t want to start with a burden of them needing to use funds ahead of time to set the stage. I save my outside-of-spa “tips” for things I know to carry meaning for them outside those walls. I don’t feel comfortable gifting things that are about me in the end. That’s just personal preference though, and cool to hear how that’s worked out well for you (and Kitty too!)

i will report back eventually when I take the plunge (presumably with a smile that can’t be wiped off my face )

In my case, the extra money for outfits and supplies was not given to be considered a gift or tip, there was still a tip in my envelope.
It was just extra money to plan a surprise for the client, mind you, these were three hour and eight hour duos.
And I get to keep my outfit and supplies for future use, which is a bonus.

joepark30117 · Tuesday at 10:56 AM

Since this is a "first time" thread - are condoms changed between switching with the girls? I assume they are changed with when partners are changed but are some okay with the guy just keeping the same condom on thru the session?

NadiaLovechanko · Tuesday at 12:07 PM

joepark30117 said:
Since this is a "first time" thread - are condoms changed between switching with the girls? I assume they are changed with when partners are changed but are some okay with the guy just keeping the same condom on thru the session?

Condoms should be switched for oral but not a must and a must for vaginal sex IMO

Everyone has different comfort levels, but I believe condoms should be switched out between acts & parties preforming each act

Osaab · Tuesday at 12:48 PM

joepark30117 said:
Since this is a "first time" thread - are condoms changed between switching with the girls? I assume they are changed with when partners are changed but are some okay with the guy just keeping the same condom on thru the session?

I would not worry about it too much. You will be aware that the change is happening but chances are pretty good that the other lady will be occupying most of your attention during the swap.

KittyCaterina · Tuesday at 7:38 PM

joepark30117 said:
Since this is a "first time" thread - are condoms changed between switching with the girls? I assume they are changed with when partners are changed but are some okay with the guy just keeping the same condom on thru the session?

In any duo I've ever done, we change the condom for full sex partner switches.

My partners and I offer BBBJ, so there are no condoms used during oral.
Sometimes a client will have both my partner and I giving them oral at the same time, it is not always just one or the other.

Also, if fingers or hands are used on our bits, we all require that the client use one hand for each SW.

johnnyonthespot · Tuesday at 10:25 PM

KittyCaterina said:
In any duo I've ever done, we change the condom for full sex partner switches.

My partners and I offer BBBJ, so there are no condoms used during oral.
Sometimes a client will have both my partner and I giving them oral at the same time, it is not always just one or the other.

Also, if fingers or hands are used on our bits, we all require that the client use one hand for each SW.

It pays to be ambidextrous.

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