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I just realized, a client can't shine amongst the other clients and "win over an escort", because an escort can get that in her civilian life too

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Many clients, even me, have / had this idea that if we put on our best face, show up in our best clothes, make wonderful conversation, give affection and cuddles, give good sex etc - that we would shine amongst the other clients.

The idea that we would be "that one client" who is on the escort's mind as soon as we leave. The idea that she would light up at our text. The idea that one day, the inevitable will occur, where she tells her star client (which we aspire to be); "Hey, I really like you. I don't feel right taking money from you anymore. Come here love", as her and the star client embrace each other with love.

I just realized that none of this would happen. There's no reserved spot for that one special and one-in-a-million client, that any client can reach. That spot probably doesn't even exist.

Everything a client does to reach that top spot can be given to an escort just in her personal life. An escort's struggle is not "having to go through 1000s of clients to find the one". Nor is this the only way she can meet men.

She can just making a dating app profile. And she will get the same amount of attention.

These days there doesn't even seem to be a need to balance pros and cons related to dating before becoming an escort. Whether a woman is an escort or not, she will still get virtually the same amount of attention on a dating app. It's actually a net positive for a woman to become an escort.
 
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This post is a good reminder that there are a wide range of people visiting SPs for a multitude of reasons.

If you are visiting SPs and have even an inkling of the aforementioned core notion, to any extent beyond the most random of fantasies, you are likely not doing this right and are setting yourself up for failure. This part of the world rewards simple fantasies/experiences, not deep meaningful feelings such as to “be seen” or “be unique” or “be loved as who you are”. Those are the realm of real life and are best obtained through effort not spending $$$.

My advice is to evaluate why you are here and expend your energies in a manner most likely to achieve what you are really looking for in life.
 
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I think it is better to treat the hobby as an adventure instead of a quest. You get different feelings and experiences with different people, and often you really do not know what you like until you find it. Put another way, if you want good or interesting experiences do not dictate outcomes, instead explore the landscape of unknown possibilities.
 
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Many clients, even me, have / had this idea that if we put on our best face, show up in our best clothes, make wonderful conversation, give affection and cuddles, give good sex etc - that we would shine amongst the other clients.

The idea that we would be "that one client" who is on the escort's mind as soon as we leave.
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Up to this point I agree with you. As someone who has been self employed for a very long time, I can say that there are some clients I look forward to working with, and others are in the "I need the money" category.
 
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reviewer_person said:
Many clients, even me, have / had this idea that if we put on our best face, show up in our best clothes, make wonderful conversation, give affection and cuddles, give good sex etc - that we would shine amongst the other clients.

The idea that we would be "that one client" who is on the escort's mind as soon as we leave. The idea that she would light up at our text. The idea that one day, the inevitable will occur, where she tells her star client (which we aspire to be); "Hey, I really like you. I don't feel right taking money from you anymore. Come here love", as her and the star client embrace each other with love.

I just realized that none of this would happen. There's no reserved spot for that one special and one-in-a-million client, that any client can reach. That spot probably doesn't even exist.

Everything a client does to reach that top spot can be given to an escort just in her personal life. An escort's struggle is not "having to go through 1000s of clients to find the one". Nor is this the only way she can meet men.

She can just making a dating app profile. And she will get the same amount of attention.

These days there doesn't even seem to be a need to balance pros and cons related to dating before becoming an escort. Whether a woman is an escort or not, she will still get virtually the same amount of attention on a dating app. It's actually a net positive for a woman to become an escort.
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Yeah, it's almost like we are just paying them to have sex............................. :unsure:
 
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Actually this isn't really fair, for every different client there's a different SP. when I was young, it was possible to just see an escort for dinner. Unbenownced to me, when I was young my co workers realized I haven't dated for a long time and pooled their money to buy me a dinner date. One day a stunning blonde showed up at work and we chatted, she asked me out. a few nights later we went out for dinner and at the end handed me a few hundred dollars... I was like wtf. then she explained she had been hired, but found she really liked me and would like to see me again, and asked that I return the money to my Co workers. needless to say we dated for several years and still remain friends to this day. she hooked up with a jet setting sugar daddy and taught me a lot about how a woman should be treated in between.
 
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Sometimes i feel like some guys on this forum never dated in their whole life.
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Many clients, even me, have / had this idea that if we put on our best face, show up in our best clothes, make wonderful conversation, give affection and cuddles, give good sex etc
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1. It doesn't mean you shouldn't put effort. And yes, i want to be the best client by looking the best, talking the best and fucking her the best.
2. You will do exactly the same with a girlfriend. So, why not always be the best of yourself?

For example, when i eat alone, i don't just slurp from my plate. I still eat like i am in a restaurant.
 
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DesRicardo said:
Yeah, it's almost like we are just paying them to have sex............................. :unsure:
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I know, but alot of us, including me, have the hope that we can stand out. By talking to the escort, showing affection. Essentially, seeing her for who she is. I guess most escorts are too jaded to be able to connect?
 
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So what you guys are saying is when my regular go to SP tells me I eat her out and fak her soo good that we should just sell our shit, live together and fak in the morning and afternoon is not true??? Damn it, I had such high hopes for the future... You guys are dream snatches...
 
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reviewer_person said:
Many clients, even me, have / had this idea that if we put on our best face, show up in our best clothes, make wonderful conversation, give affection and cuddles, give good sex etc - that we would shine amongst the other clients.

The idea that we would be "that one client" who is on the escort's mind as soon as we leave. The idea that she would light up at our text. The idea that one day, the inevitable will occur, where she tells her star client (which we aspire to be); "Hey, I really like you. I don't feel right taking money from you anymore. Come here love", as her and the star client embrace each other with love.

I just realized that none of this would happen. There's no reserved spot for that one special and one-in-a-million client, that any client can reach. That spot probably doesn't even exist.

Everything a client does to reach that top spot can be given to an escort just in her personal life. An escort's struggle is not "having to go through 1000s of clients to find the one". Nor is this the only way she can meet men.

She can just making a dating app profile. And she will get the same amount of attention.

These days there doesn't even seem to be a need to balance pros and cons related to dating before becoming an escort. Whether a woman is an escort or not, she will still get virtually the same amount of attention on a dating app. It's actually a net positive for a woman to become an escort.
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You *just* realized this? Please tell me you're young.

As for standing out, maybe you can do that by not being a total douche, and being clean, etc. But you're only going to stand out slightly from other clients, not, as you've correctly pointed out, from the civilian dating pool.
 
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reviewer_person said:
I know, but alot of us, including me, have the hope that we can stand out. By talking to the escort, showing affection. Essentially, seeing her for who she is. I guess most escorts are too jaded to be able to connect?
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You said "The idea that one day, the inevitable will occur, where she tells her star client (which we aspire to be); "Hey, I really like you. I don't feel right taking money from you anymore. Come here love", as her and the star client embrace each other with love."

Sounds like you're hoping that being your magnificent self will get you a freebie. Good luck.
 
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I always chuckle when I read posts where the client get's all excited saying I think I am in love because the provider treated them differently and they feel a connection. It seems to usually be the newer, young and inexperienced ones that have near nonexistent past experiences
 
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Why do you think women become escorts to get attention from men and to meet a partner? It's a really weird way of looking at things and I've noticed that a lot of clients share this view.
 
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