An Hour with Serenity ................................................( I Think)

[SMILEY1]

Well I must admit, I had the strangest appointment I think I have ever had on Monday. I started out making arrangements for a Monday visit with Pink Sugar. As luck would have it Breanna said that she was free and a time was set. Monday morning things change a little and Breanna was called to other business and couldn't make our appointment time. No biggie things happen and life throws changes at us all the time so I totally understood.

She did point out that I could make arrangements for me to see Serenity if that was OK. I have never seen Serenity before but have heard lots so I thought she would be a great alternative. Showed up at the agreed upon time and was greeted at the door with a big hug and a playful smile from a pretty young lady.

We exchanged pleasantries and proceeded to the bedroom and got the business portion out of the way. We chatted for quite a while talking back and forth about music etc. when I finally asked if she would like a massage. She eagerly agreed and flipped over on to her tummy to reveal her firm behind. I continued to give her body the massage she deserved and asked if she would like me to do the front as well. She agreed and I continued on my merry way to complete the hardship (insert hint of sarcasm) of massaging her body from head to toe. I went down to start a little DATY ( which she seemed to enjoy) for a few minutes when she replies OK get up here.

She then proceeds to look at the clock and say OMG look at the time. We spent too much time talking and your time is up. I feel terrible as I feel that I got more out of this appointment then you did. I thought she was kidding but after a minute of awkward silence I realized that she wasn't and proceeded to put my clothes on and she saw me to the door.

So for all intensive purposes I received 40 minutes of talking, 15 minutes of massaging her, and 5 minutes of DATY for 160.00 and she didn't even touch me. I am not really complaining as I could have stopped the conversation if I really wanted to I guess, but, I thought that would be very rude. I am a conversationalist anyway and enjoy talking to people. But I have to admit, I think that is the first appointment that I have ever had where I left without even being touched.

Confusing!!!

 

[esoterica]

Similar things have happened to me - chatting with strangers is infectious and fun, but the lady has always made sure that the big bang happened nevertheless, and usually I have tipped well to compensate. I am surprised that this was not suggested.

 

[Warrior666]

I'm sure Serenity's next appointment had the time of his life after you doing all the preparation work, somebody should post the afternoon review ... lol ... Serenity is nice though, don't feel bad Smiley.

Pink Sugar's policy is that of getting to know you, until the meter runs out of course, I would like to see Lexy (Alexis) again, her conversation was very nice.

 

[Saskatchewan]

So for all intensive purposes I received 40 minutes of talking, 15 minutes of massaging her, and 5 minutes of DATY for 160.00 and she didn't even touch me. I am not really complaining as I could have stopped the conversation if I really wanted to I guess, but, I thought that would be very rude. I am a conversationalist anyway and enjoy talking to people. But I have to admit, I think that is the first appointment that I have ever had where I left without even being touched.

Its a missed opportunity on your part. Now that Tilissa and Jersey are retired, Serenity is probably the top SP in KW for the 18 to 21 age range. I am particularly fond of her non-brunette .... meow

 

[SMILEY1]

Its a missed opportunity on your part. Now that Tilissa and Jersey are retired, Serenity is probably the top SP in KW for the 18 to 21 age range. I am particularly fond of her non-brunette .... meow

I wouldn't call it a missed opportunity, only a non-aggressive at bat. If I decide its worth going back to the plate I will be swinging at the first 4 pitches. I need to decide whether its worth another trip to the plate.

 

[trinbal]

wow, you got to learn to multi-task next time..... you talk when her mouth is full, and vise versa.... anyhow better luck next time....

 

[purpledragon]

You must have had the serious case of blue balls during the drive home.

 

[SweetSerenity]

I am very sorry, I really did feel very bad about it. I think a disclaimer should go up on the PS site >.<
I like to talk, and I am extremely submissive in certain areas, one of which is starting anything. If allowed to, I'll talk forever, I need the person I'm with to stop me. Its a part of my nervous reaction to a new person.

 

[SMILEY1]

Hey Serenity, no worries on my part. You are a lovely young lady. Like I said. I could have stopped the conversation if I really wanted to. Next time I will find some way to keep lips busy.

 

[Ibeefat]

I sorry but I'm going to have to side with smiley in this one, this is bullshit.
Obviously the guy was trying to make her feel comfortable and relaxed. I have been with sp's in the same situation where we got into talking and massaging each other but the sp's always fullfilled there service. I guess that's what you get smiley for being with younger and inexperienced sp's sorry serernity but it could have played out 2 ways

If you are a clock watcher which most say they are not but really they are, you could have stopped him early and said" let's work on you Hun"

Or if you are truely not a clock watcher, then you should tried your best to help the dude out by going going over a bit, but since your working for an agency it might be hard because you would have to pay out your pocket.

It could have been handled better, hopefully you learn from this experience. I'm so glad this board is here, I have been saved a lot of money

 

[tweeter]

There is enough blame here to go around. You both are responsible to keep track of the time, and I don't mean by constant clock watching. I just find it hard to believe either of you didn't realize the amount of time that had passed. Even on a half hour session, I tend to realize that time is passing and to get to the finish. Lesson learned for all, I think.

 

[D-Blue]

I sorry but I'm going to have to side with smiley in this one, this is bullshit.

I wouldn't side with Smiley. We pay for time and anything else that happens is a matter between 2 consenting adults blah blah blah. Smiley consented to what happened and if he has no comprehension of the passage of time that is not Serenity's fault. He admitted himself that he could have stopped the conversation but chose not to, he then made the decision to offer a massage and presumably continued to talk and he chose to allow 55 minutes to run off the clock.

Sorry Smiley but as a member since Nov 2004 you have no one else to blame but yourself and maybe next time you'll book longer or ask if it's possible to extend the visit. Your post does serve as a reminder to the rest of us that we have to play our part in the management of the appointment. Maybe chat for a few minutes then ask to take a shower, that's usually a good signal of your intentions.

 

[futurelegend]

I think that everyone else's opinion on who's fault it is is mute.

He really doesn't seem angry and she has apologized to him (privately and publicly). Nobody else's opinion on whether he/she is at fault matters. He seems to have had a good session since he enjoyed the chat, massage and daty. I think that he originally posted because he felt a bit silly coming out of there and having lost track of time and likely wanted to put it out as a reminder to the rest of us to be aware and get out of a session what you're hoping for.

 

[Bopper43]

Sorry Smiley but its kind of tough to generate too much sympathy on this one. As the age old adage goes " money exchanged is for my time only." just don't take that literally.

These ladies aren't baby sitters and I usually arrive ready to play and start as soon as the door opens.

In any case full points for admitting what happened and better fun next time.

 

[enigman51]

Of all the reviews I have ever read, and I am not a fan of them; this has to be the strangest and most original I have ever seen. Ah well, lesson's implied, learned.

 

[rpony]

Sounds like PinkSuger needs an hourglass in each room.

 

[pencilneckgeek2]

I think that everyone else's opinion on who's fault it is is mute.

I think you mean moot.

 

[Backbeat]

I think Smiley and Serenity worked this out very honourably and amiably, so I agree that the situation is "moot" in their case. But it does bring up an interesting point regarding exactly when the clock starts on an appointment, since I've had a similar kind of experience myself a couple of times. When I meet a new SP it seems to me a gentlemanly thing to talk for awhile to break the ice and get comfortable with one another, and on a couple of occasions I've visted SP's who turned out to be extremely chatty and we spent 40-45 minutes just talking. Even though the conversation was beginning to bore me a bit, I didn't want to appear rude and insensitive by interrupting her and insisting we get on with it, and I guess I made the assumption that the clock wasn't actually running yet...So by the time we finally got some action in, I wound up going well overtime. From one of the SP's where this happened I got the impression that she was assuming that I would pay for the full 1.5-2 hours that we ended up spending, and while I did pay her more than the basic hourly rate and she was more-or-less OK with that I still had the feeling that she was a bit disappointed. So it ended up basically OK, but I came away feeling a bit guilty at paying her less than she evidently expected but at the same time I was kind of assuming that I wasn't paying for the talking time, which I didn't feel comfortable interrupting, and was expecting that she would initiate the physical festivities when she felt comfortable. So I guess there's a moral to the story...probably something to the effect of "don't be a wimp and be aggressive when you're ready to get on with it", but I'm wondering if others have felt the same kind of ambivalence about this. I suppose it only really happens when you meet an SP for the first time, at least.

 

[D-Blue]

But it does bring up an interesting point regarding exactly when the clock starts on an appointment, since I've had a similar kind of experience myself a couple of times..........So I guess there's a moral to the story...probably something to the effect of "don't be a wimp and be aggressive when you're ready to get on with it", but I'm wondering if others have felt the same kind of ambivalence about this. I suppose it only really happens when you meet an SP for the first time, at least.

The clock starts when you walk in the room, remember we pay for time. As I said above after 5-10 minutes of chat ask to take a shower, it's not aggressive, it's not rude, it shows you value hygiene but it is a clear intent that you expect things to move to the next stage. I've found that there is just as much chance of chatting on repeat visits as you get to know the lady and if that's something you like there is no harm in asking if there is a social time rate. You can also book a bit longer or, if you go for 2 or more rounds, chat between them, the ice is broken then.

 

[rexst]

Walk in - tell her she is beautiful - give a welcome kiss/hug - sit money on dresser/desk - begin taking off your clothes - get naked - now naked on the bed you can chat all you want - although i expect it wont last long!
(sustitute have a shower for 'begin taking off clothes' if didn't just have one)
(note: i often do chat for quite a while - but being naked it is much more interesting and tends to proceed naturally automatically - even Serenity!)