Just curious: I've never experienced greek but have long considered choosing an SP to try it with. Ladies - just wondering what your thoughts on the subject might be; how willing you are to try it and how enjoyable it really is sexully. Please - comments, thoughts, and opinions from everybody welcome.
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I enjoy it but I have only tried it three times & never with clients. IMO there is something really very intense & intimate because a girl will surrender control aspect & give her trust to someone to be gentle & not hurt her. It gets erotic because he focuses on whether she is ok/comfortsable/hurting & it is a little taboo. Some of my friends like it & some of my friends will never try it. It's easiest it you lay spooning like side by side to try it & she can move if it hurts.
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I enjoy it but I have only tried it three times & never with clients. IMO there is something really very intense & intimate because a girl will surrender control aspect & give her trust to someone to be gentle & not hurt her. It gets erotic because he focuses on whether she is ok/comfortsable/hurting & it is a little taboo. Some of my friends like it & some of my friends will never try it. It's easiest it you lay spooning like side by side to try it & she can move if it hurts.
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I have a girl friend who truly loves anal sex. It is particularly personal. It is demand care and cleanliness. I have found that ladies who do anal sex select a partner they can trust. It can be very erotic and it is a different sensation compared to vaginal sex.
Kiarra's post on anal introductions...
Great post. Something I had not thought of much really, meaning how to introduce a GF to the experience. I have had the chance to experience this in the past from SPs with varied levels of enjoyment. Some great, some terrible. It is a very intimate sensation and not for everyone. The worst definatly is when the lady is either not comfortable with it but trying to provide the service anyways (I've stopped when I felt this was the case), or as you put it she hasn't in a while; and thus is not 'in shape' for the big game.
But when it's with someone that enjoys this as much as you do, and you click, it can be fantastic fun!
Great post. Something I had not thought of much really, meaning how to introduce a GF to the experience. I have had the chance to experience this in the past from SPs with varied levels of enjoyment. Some great, some terrible. It is a very intimate sensation and not for everyone. The worst definatly is when the lady is either not comfortable with it but trying to provide the service anyways (I've stopped when I felt this was the case), or as you put it she hasn't in a while; and thus is not 'in shape' for the big game.
But when it's with someone that enjoys this as much as you do, and you click, it can be fantastic fun!
anal lesson not mine 1 of ..
Does anal sex hurt?
Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it's entirely possible to enjoy anal sex as a safe and fulfilling part of your sex life. However, some people may never like it, and if your lover is one of those people, respect their limits. Don't force the idea upon them.
What do I need to have anal sex?
The most important pieces of advice anyone can give on anal sex are: lubricants, condoms, and patience. The most commonly available lubricant is KY-Jelly, a greaseless, odorless substance available at most drug stores. Better lubricants include Astroglide, ID, Wet, or ForePlay, some of which are available at better drug stores, and most of which are available in some form at adult toy stores.
Do I have to use a condom?
Even if you're sure that both you and your partner are disease- free, you should still use a condom. The rectum is home to lots of infectious bacteria that can cause burning and urethritis of the penis. It will also help you clean up afterwards.
I'm worried that anal sex will be messy.
Anal sex should not be messy. Most first-timers fear that it will be, but most people can tell when they have to go. A condom will help with cleanup, of course, and if you're really concerned, a commercial enema, like Fleet, will help beforehand.
Does anal sex hurt?
Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it's entirely possible to enjoy anal sex as a safe and fulfilling part of your sex life. However, some people may never like it, and if your lover is one of those people, respect their limits. Don't force the idea upon them.
What do I need to have anal sex?
The most important pieces of advice anyone can give on anal sex are: lubricants, condoms, and patience. The most commonly available lubricant is KY-Jelly, a greaseless, odorless substance available at most drug stores. Better lubricants include Astroglide, ID, Wet, or ForePlay, some of which are available at better drug stores, and most of which are available in some form at adult toy stores.
Do I have to use a condom?
Even if you're sure that both you and your partner are disease- free, you should still use a condom. The rectum is home to lots of infectious bacteria that can cause burning and urethritis of the penis. It will also help you clean up afterwards.
I'm worried that anal sex will be messy.
Anal sex should not be messy. Most first-timers fear that it will be, but most people can tell when they have to go. A condom will help with cleanup, of course, and if you're really concerned, a commercial enema, like Fleet, will help beforehand.
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How do we prepare for anal sex?
Patience is the third and final thing you need to make anal sex possible. Initial penetration is always the most difficult part of anal sex -- the anus is a tight ring of flesh at the opening of the rectum designed to control the elimination of bodily waste. It is partially under voluntary control, and partially reflexive to stimulation. Your partner has to relax, and you have to go slow to coax it into opening enough to receive your penis.
Start with a well-lubricated finger or a slim (smaller than your penis) dildo. The dildo is more realistic, but your fingers can flex and feel what they're doing inside her ass. Slide one finger in slowly, letting her adjust to it. Take your finger all the way out, then push it back in again. Give her anus time to get used to this kind of activity. Then slide a second finger in. Consider how big your penis is and realize that two fingers is probably enough.
What position should we use for anal sex?
For actual intercourse, picking a position can be important. Many women want to be on top, to regulate how fast penetration occurs. Other like to lie on their stomachs, or crouch doggy-style, or to be penetrated while lying on their sides. Choose what's best before you start.
As always, control yourself. Take your time and use lots of lubricant. People who like anal sex say that "too much lube is almost enough." Listen to her -- if she tells you it starts to hurt, back off.
Eventually, a time will come during your lovemaking where her anus will relax enough to allow the head of your cock to 'pop' into her. If she is completely relaxed, that pop should feel completely painless. Now just because you're inside her is no reason to start pounding away like mad. Let her body adjust. Take your time. Eventually you will both be ready for more.
How do we prepare for anal sex?
Patience is the third and final thing you need to make anal sex possible. Initial penetration is always the most difficult part of anal sex -- the anus is a tight ring of flesh at the opening of the rectum designed to control the elimination of bodily waste. It is partially under voluntary control, and partially reflexive to stimulation. Your partner has to relax, and you have to go slow to coax it into opening enough to receive your penis.
Start with a well-lubricated finger or a slim (smaller than your penis) dildo. The dildo is more realistic, but your fingers can flex and feel what they're doing inside her ass. Slide one finger in slowly, letting her adjust to it. Take your finger all the way out, then push it back in again. Give her anus time to get used to this kind of activity. Then slide a second finger in. Consider how big your penis is and realize that two fingers is probably enough.
What position should we use for anal sex?
For actual intercourse, picking a position can be important. Many women want to be on top, to regulate how fast penetration occurs. Other like to lie on their stomachs, or crouch doggy-style, or to be penetrated while lying on their sides. Choose what's best before you start.
As always, control yourself. Take your time and use lots of lubricant. People who like anal sex say that "too much lube is almost enough." Listen to her -- if she tells you it starts to hurt, back off.
Eventually, a time will come during your lovemaking where her anus will relax enough to allow the head of your cock to 'pop' into her. If she is completely relaxed, that pop should feel completely painless. Now just because you're inside her is no reason to start pounding away like mad. Let her body adjust. Take your time. Eventually you will both be ready for more.
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My first experience was very painfull.
My BF at the time wanted to do me doggy style and in his haste entered the wrong hole.
What a shock...it really ruined the mood.
I have tried it since with more experience navigators and enjoy it but have to be very hott before wanting it. BFs usually get really turned on when I ask for it. My current BF is not allowed alittle to wide for my liking.
Cream D's
My first experience was very painfull.
My BF at the time wanted to do me doggy style and in his haste entered the wrong hole.
What a shock...it really ruined the mood.
I have tried it since with more experience navigators and enjoy it but have to be very hott before wanting it. BFs usually get really turned on when I ask for it. My current BF is not allowed alittle to wide for my liking.
Cream D's
Legmann,
For some really great information about anal sex, you should visit Tristan Taormino's website. I think it's puckerup.com but you can just do a google search too. Tristan has written books aboout sex, including "The women's guide to Anal sex" and knows an awful lot about this subject.
Her site has an "anal advisor" faq section that will answer all your questions really well. She's lots of fun (and I think she's kind of hot!)
I don't do anal, so I'm not the gal to give advice. However, some girls at my agency do it, and they all mention that it can be difficult with a guy who is very well endowed.
If you're a really "big boy" you need to be extra gentle & careful -- and use lots of lube!
Have fun!
For some really great information about anal sex, you should visit Tristan Taormino's website. I think it's puckerup.com but you can just do a google search too. Tristan has written books aboout sex, including "The women's guide to Anal sex" and knows an awful lot about this subject.
Her site has an "anal advisor" faq section that will answer all your questions really well. She's lots of fun (and I think she's kind of hot!)
I don't do anal, so I'm not the gal to give advice. However, some girls at my agency do it, and they all mention that it can be difficult with a guy who is very well endowed.
If you're a really "big boy" you need to be extra gentle & careful -- and use lots of lube!
Have fun!
