Andddd i have a crush on my MPA

[boobie519]

a part of me thinks we really hit it off during our session (maybe delusion lol) - it was my first time with her, although i saw her once before in passing when leaving after seeing someone else and she mentioned first that she remembered me from that interaction. She also shared her exact condo address but I didn't suggest we do anything or follow up on it.

i don't think I would ever tell her i have a crush on her because that's breaking boundaries.

talk me out of this nonsensical thinking. i did go through a breakup after 4 years not too long ago so maybe that's contributing to my irrationalness. the answer is that i should never go back to see her, right?

 

[The Options Menu]

It's great to feel great after an encounter, but if you can't keep those feeling on the shelf you should probably walk away. Failing that ask to see her outside of work (in an unpaid way), but be prepared for her to never want to see you again.

 

[lir2016]

Don’t do it, OP. Just don’t.

 

[boobie519]

Don’t do it, OP. Just don’t.

Let's say hypothetically she asked you to hang out or something along those lines at some point. Would you do it?

She did give me her exact condo address which I found surprising but I didn't follow up at all on that after she said it haha

 

[lir2016]

Let's say hypothetically she asked you to hang out or something along those lines at some point. Would you do it?

She did give me her exact condo address which I found surprising but I didn't follow up at all on that after she said it haha

I personally would not. For me, what happens in the in the incall/spa stays in the incall/spa.

 

[rjjr]

I've been there too. So many stories on here where it's happened to others aswell. Best to just keep it professional from all their experiences & wisdom.

 

[kherg007]

I think the best rule of thumb is found in my signature below.
The very best ladies make you feel special. But don't forget that reality. Enjoy the connection but respect the line.

However, if you want to pursue and you think it's mutual, maybe book her near the end of her shift, and at the end put out something like "I think I gotta step out by myself and have a drink after this great session..." and see how she responds.
If she's "sounds great, have fun" then move on.
If she's interested she'll hint at something that suggests she's willing to meet you out.
But give her an easy way to just let this stay in the pro zone, or, if she was thinking more, an opportunity to suggest something that escalates.

 

[underground]

Been there, done that. Lessons learned are :

1. You are not the only one. There are other men she has given this access to.
2. Gifts and generosity will be expected.
3. It will end suddenly when you are no longer of use to her.
4. Why get involved with a girl that you cannot introduce to your close friends, let alone family ?
5. Just escalate things sexually in the room. Give extra tips. And just keep it at that level.

 

[dvous11]

Just remember how many penises she had in her the same day you met her

 

[The Options Menu]

I personally would not. For me, what happens in the in the incall/spa stays in the incall/spa.

That was always my rule for strip clubs as well. The nice thing about dancers is that they come in a box.

 

[kwestt]

dont be flower guy

 

[boobie519]

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This was literally going to be me next session. Not flowers but a small gift gesture.

Now you got me feeling embarrassed. Just what I needed, thanks

 

[kwestt]

This was literally going to be me next session. Not flowers but a small gift gesture.

Now you got me feeling embarrassed. Just what I needed, thanks

I give that photo a quick glance if my mind starts playing tricks

 

[The Options Menu]

I give that photo a quick glance if my mind starts playing tricks

It's OK to feel feelings, and it's OK to bring tokens of appreciation. However, as I said, you gotta be able to put those feelings on the shelf. If you give a token gift it should be to show appreciation (or show that you're thoughtful / a gentleman), not because you have a crush, are in love, are trying to woo her, or are trying to create a sense of obligation in her. It's OK to be nice if you're actually being "no strings attached" nice.

 

[Pilgrimesque]

You are going to get hurt. I know cause Im literally the flower guy..

 

[Pilgrimesque]

She did give me her exact condo address

Whoa..Could be a sting operation

 

[boobie519]

It's OK to feel feelings, and it's OK to bring tokens of appreciation. However, as I said, you gotta be able to put those feelings on the shelf. If you give a token gift it should be to show appreciation (or show that you're thoughtful / a gentleman), not because you have a crush, are in love, are trying to woo her, or are trying to create a sense of obligation in her. It's OK to be nice if you're actually being "no strings attached" nice.

totally. it's something we were discussing - a small gift, nothing extravagant - thought it'd be a nice gesture.

 

[LTO_3]

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This has happened to many off us but it will pass....especially when you find the next MP/SP that you will have a crush on. And it will happen! Just enjoy the time with her and if you want to gift her a small token of some kind then do so but don't think of this as anything more than a business transaction...with a (your) happy ending.

LTO_3

 

[boobie519]

Whoa..Could be a sting operation

i also wonder if i may have fumbled the bag and was completely oblivious. but was a blessing in disguise i guess

 

[BillC69]

Are you kidding?

Even if I book an hour, and the lady's smoking hot, I would only have a vague recollection of her looks after, despite a really sexy time. I need like at least 2-3 visits to remember her face, let alone falling in love.