Asia Studios Massage

Andddd i have a crush on my MPA

boobie519

Member
Oct 10, 2012
79
48
18
a part of me thinks we really hit it off during our session (maybe delusion lol) - it was my first time with her, although i saw her once before in passing when leaving after seeing someone else and she mentioned first that she remembered me from that interaction. She also shared her exact condo address but I didn't suggest we do anything or follow up on it.

i don't think I would ever tell her i have a crush on her because that's breaking boundaries.

talk me out of this nonsensical thinking. i did go through a breakup after 4 years not too long ago so maybe that's contributing to my irrationalness. the answer is that i should never go back to see her, right? 😂
 
Last edited:

The Options Menu

A Not So New Member
Sep 13, 2005
5,182
1,391
113
GTA
It's great to feel great after an encounter, but if you can't keep those feeling on the shelf you should probably walk away. Failing that ask to see her outside of work (in an unpaid way), but be prepared for her to never want to see you again.
 

boobie519

Member
Oct 10, 2012
79
48
18
Don’t do it, OP. Just don’t.
Let's say hypothetically she asked you to hang out or something along those lines at some point. Would you do it?

She did give me her exact condo address which I found surprising but I didn't follow up at all on that after she said it haha
 

lir2016

Well-known member
Jan 14, 2021
475
707
93
Let's say hypothetically she asked you to hang out or something along those lines at some point. Would you do it?

She did give me her exact condo address which I found surprising but I didn't follow up at all on that after she said it haha
I personally would not. For me, what happens in the in the incall/spa stays in the incall/spa.
 

kherg007

Well-known member
May 3, 2014
9,957
8,884
113
I think the best rule of thumb is found in my signature below.
The very best ladies make you feel special. But don't forget that reality. Enjoy the connection but respect the line.

However, if you want to pursue and you think it's mutual, maybe book her near the end of her shift, and at the end put out something like "I think I gotta step out by myself and have a drink after this great session..." and see how she responds.
If she's "sounds great, have fun" then move on.
If she's interested she'll hint at something that suggests she's willing to meet you out.
But give her an easy way to just let this stay in the pro zone, or, if she was thinking more, an opportunity to suggest something that escalates.
 

underground

Well-known member
May 28, 2010
542
323
63
Been there, done that. Lessons learned are :

1. You are not the only one. There are other men she has given this access to.
2. Gifts and generosity will be expected.
3. It will end suddenly when you are no longer of use to her.
4. Why get involved with a girl that you cannot introduce to your close friends, let alone family ?
5. Just escalate things sexually in the room. Give extra tips. And just keep it at that level.
 

The Options Menu

A Not So New Member
Sep 13, 2005
5,182
1,391
113
GTA
I personally would not. For me, what happens in the in the incall/spa stays in the incall/spa.
That was always my rule for strip clubs as well. The nice thing about dancers is that they come in a box.
 

kwestt

Member
Jun 6, 2025
24
56
13
This was literally going to be me next session. Not flowers but a small gift gesture.

Now you got me feeling embarrassed. Just what I needed, thanks 😂
I give that photo a quick glance if my mind starts playing tricks 😂
 
  • Like
Reactions: xix

The Options Menu

A Not So New Member
Sep 13, 2005
5,182
1,391
113
GTA
I give that photo a quick glance if my mind starts playing tricks 😂
It's OK to feel feelings, and it's OK to bring tokens of appreciation. However, as I said, you gotta be able to put those feelings on the shelf. If you give a token gift it should be to show appreciation (or show that you're thoughtful / a gentleman), not because you have a crush, are in love, are trying to woo her, or are trying to create a sense of obligation in her. It's OK to be nice if you're actually being "no strings attached" nice.
 

boobie519

Member
Oct 10, 2012
79
48
18
It's OK to feel feelings, and it's OK to bring tokens of appreciation. However, as I said, you gotta be able to put those feelings on the shelf. If you give a token gift it should be to show appreciation (or show that you're thoughtful / a gentleman), not because you have a crush, are in love, are trying to woo her, or are trying to create a sense of obligation in her. It's OK to be nice if you're actually being "no strings attached" nice.
totally. it's something we were discussing - a small gift, nothing extravagant - thought it'd be a nice gesture.
 

LTO_3

Well-known member
Aug 27, 2004
1,327
1,093
113
Niagara Region
This has happened to many off us but it will pass....especially when you find the next MP/SP that you will have a crush on. And it will happen! Just enjoy the time with her and if you want to gift her a small token of some kind then do so but don't think of this as anything more than a business transaction...with a (your) happy ending.

LTO_3
 

BillC69

Active member
Jun 11, 2025
141
157
43
Are you kidding?

Even if I book an hour, and the lady's smoking hot, I would only have a vague recollection of her looks after, despite a really sexy time. I need like at least 2-3 visits to remember her face, let alone falling in love.
 
  • Haha
Reactions: Pilgrimesque
Toronto Escorts