Are good conversations a lost art?

[sexyyasmin]

Lately, I’ve been thinking about how rare it is to find genuine conversation during sessions—not just banter or dirty talk, but real engagement. Stuff with spark. Wit. Curiosity. The kind that makes the hour feel like 20 minutes and lingers in your mind after you leave.

For those of you who’ve had sessions that stayed with you—was it the chemistry? The banter? The feeling of being fully seen?

Do you prefer providers who can hold a deep or playful convo? Or do you prefer quiet, chill vibes?

And for the ladies reading: do you find that the best clients stimulate your mind as much as your body?

 

[The Options Menu]

As a client, for me, I do crave a sense of connection. A big part of that sense of connection is conversation. Some combination of talking about life, or interests / experiences, or just general witty banter is a big sessionn enhancer for me. While service and the more physical things are also important to me a great session needs that social component.

I also find that a decent rapport helps me get over my initial awkwardness. While I'm chatty, I also have minor personal space issues, so being suddenly nude and in very intimate circumstances with someone isn't 'natural' for me. Some rapport helps me get over that.

I also think it helps providers-- It puts them at ease, and gives them a sense of who they're dealing with. Selfishly, that can only improve sessions (IMO).

 

[Enterprising1]

The mind can be a very sexual organ.
Even in a simple form, when there is dirty talk as you referred to it generally heightens your arousal level and changes the feelings you are experiencing even in that moment.

As in regular life, the best experiences I have had are with those of quick wit, intellect and adaptable enough that they can keep you engaged in a conversation about more than the weather. I have had little interest in women who may be total knockouts but are devoid of anything else upstairs. The whole animalistic pound my chest, fuck and go home thing is lost on me. Investing time with someone I would hope, should be additive in more ways than one.
Surely people will have many opinions on this good question and answers will vary broadly, perhaps also based on age.

 

[Sonic Temple]

Agree with the above statements, personally for me - absolutely love deep and playful conversations, laughter leading into passion and everything thing that comes with that. My recent engagement with @Katie_K was just that - mental orgasmic conversation. Time flew and next thing you knew it she was gone....until the next time .

 

[onomatopoeia]

It's really difficult for a man to have a conversation with a woman when she's giving his a blow job, because she can only say things like glug and khah, and the guy can't understand what she's saying, unless he's a dentist.

 

[Liam011]

All the regulars I've had in this hobby were regulars because we engaged on a personal level as much or more than the sexual. A shared sense of humor, intellectual curiosity, shared life experiences and similar outlooks.

A woman is far sexier when you want to be with her for the content of her character as much as what's inside the lingerie.