Are you a “find the best and keep her” or a “lets try them all” ?

[LordLoki]

Well being a newbie to this hobby I know I have a lot to learn, but I have made a few observations that seem valid so far. Had several sessions with one provider, and discovered each time it becomes more pleasurable. I am not certain if that is because of the old YMMV or because she is learning my dislikes and likes and adapting her actions to that. Either way, each time is better than the last. So why go back to square one with a new girl?

So for me it has been ”Try a few that look good on paper then focus on the best”.

 

[LordLoki]

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=160303

again??

THe Princess BJs told me in aPM how to do the survey part of this. So being new and willing to make a fool of myself I am trying with a survey.

MAybe one of the TERB Gods will join the Threads?????

 

[LordLoki]

Catured from other thread

Loki, I fall under #4.

As for your experience with your provider, it could be a combination of both. First off, repeating with her could increase her comfort level with you. Making the experience more enjoyable for both. Secondly, if she's a really good provider, she will be observant as to what you like and dislike. A good lover will do that, and THAT will make the experiences even better.

The logic of find the best and keep her would be very difficult to actually do. Think about it, you'd have to see every provider in the city, and then decide. Unless you have the time and cash, that's going to be pretty well and impossibility.

You can stick with your one sp and 1) things could end up getting better and better 2) you might reach a peak with her and then the experiences may either "plateau" or begin to "decrease" in excitement. The analogy could be very well like being in a long term relationship where things just become "routine".

Now, if you go and try out several ladies, eventually you could have a few favourites that you like to have, and choose between them. That keeps the variety there, and I would think, really decreases the chances of you getting "bored" with anything. Each lady could offer something slightly different that you might seek at that time. Plus, it increases the chance of you being able to see someone, who might be available, when you're calling.

I think a lot of the guys have their favourites, see them somewhat regularly, and also see a few new ones too. You never know when you may end up adding to your "regular/favourites" with a new girl.

All good points. Thanks for providing input

 

[LordLoki]

another post rom the other thread

Good post wooly!!

The thing about this, or any situation for that matter is to find out what kind of a person you are, then work with that. What I mean is, I'm the type that typically if I find something I really enjoy (like a restaurant, movie etc) I'd rather go out knowing that if I go to my fav restaurant, I'll have a good time and really enjoy myself. There are others that always quest for new and possibly better. WHile these types may experience more variety, they also experience more ....errr...shity experiences?

I think it depends on your situation too. If you want to just fuck and go or do you want something a little more passionate? emotionally as well as physically gratifying?

Yes, the experience "may" plateau at some point, but if your comfort level with each other is so high, then trying new things that neither have done before is always a possibility.

I think you may have hit it on te head. I really want to be with a person. Brains are sexy! If I just wanted a ...er..... activity... I might not bother finding someone I could connect to.

 

[a 1 player]

I am always looking, to me the right girl is an unobtainable quest. For a few brief moments, they are all the right girl.

 

[luv4lust]

THe Princess BJs told me in aPM how to do the survey part of this. So being new and willing to make a fool of myself I am trying with a survey.

MAybe one of the TERB Gods will join the Threads?????

lol that would be queen darling lol glad i could help you out

 

[LordLoki]

lol that would be queen darling lol glad i could help you out

I stand corrected.

I did do my research and all the evidence points to the unquestionable fact that you are indeed the Queen of Bjs. I formally apologise to both you and the annoying people who PMed me about your skills and reigning status as the best. My only defence is foolishness and never having felt the intense pleasure that confirms your royal status.

 

[luv4lust]

lmao i'm just bugging you doll and guys leave him alone he thought i was too young to be a queen lol *i'm going to buy him some glasses*

 

[LordLoki]

I am a normal pervert. I AM SO RELIEVED TO FIND OUT!

Thanks to everyone who replied. The survey makes me feel a lot better. Well more normal at least. Did the skirt chasing thing in my twenties, and now I really like to feel comfortable and get maximum pleasure possible from the person I am with. Might even like to believe they enjoy being with me as well. I found myself sitting across from an SP in a restaurant yesterday and staring into her warm sparkling eyes and thinking “She is lovely, very bright, funny warm, giving, and has legs that go on for ever ! And I suspect that if I ask I can spend some high value time with her.” I did not give in to the temptation because I did not wish to entangle myself in that learning curve that leads to really having fun with a woman. Driving down the QEW I was questioning my sanity. Can one be faithful to one or two special providers? Is it really faithful or just knowing that all your needs wll be met? Well not all my needs. But someday I will bring my own cognac for sipping from her cute little navel and then… Sorry got distracted there! Ok so after reading the survey I have discovered I am not alone.

Seems at least some of the Terbites are sharing my vision and desires. And as long as we do not all focus on the same girls we should be ok.

For you bush beaters all I can say is thank god you exist. Your posts permitted me to do the research to find the kind of woman I wanted without having to test a series of Sps that offered something that did not match my expectations. You guys are a huge community service. My only request is that you add more comments about their ability to hold an intelligent conversation. Some of us old guys need mental stimulation since our physical side has slown down a bit.