Asking for references from other SPs

[stickydude7]

Hey all. I was wondering whether anyone has experience asking for references from other SPs. I heard recently that some don’t give out references. I also heard another say that while she does give references, she doesn’t like it because it shows that you’re seeing other providers instead. I’ve also heard some say that they will only give a reference after seeing a client a certain number of times.

I’m a bit concerned that I may face some backlash for asking for a reference. Maybe I’m over-thinking this a bit, but was hoping to get some insights. Thanks in advance!

 

[BillReid451]

most reputable SPs will be happy to provide references.

 

[tastingyou]

In about 10 years I have never been asked for a reference - NEVER EVER ! I have no idea how poor the SP's judge of character [ from phone or text or email] has to be to need a reference. Maybe she needs a couple of pitbulls or a pimp onsite instead.

 

[NotADcotor]

I also heard another say that while she does give references, she doesn’t like it because it shows that you’re seeing other providers instead. I’ve also heard some say that they will only give a reference after seeing a client a certain number of times.

I’m a bit concerned that I may face some backlash for asking for a reference. Maybe I’m over-thinking this a bit, but was hoping to get some insights. Thanks in advance!

If a girl asks for references, she better bloody well be willing to give them out. To not do so is very questionable behavior.
It is also reasonable for some minimum contact before a reference is givin. I saw a girl, saw her again 6 months later and she had absolutely 0 memory of me. I stand out a bit, another repeat remember me, strippers remember me. It varies I guess.

As fro escorts who don't ask for references, I can see them not giving them out unless you are a very solid regular, and I mean solid. If you are seeing a girl every week, or once a month for years, it's the least she can do. In every other case, asking someone to do your own secruity work for free is pretty narcisist behavior when they are the ones taking all the "risk"

As for judging character from phone and email [as per the third post] you have to be joking. I am sure Paul Bernardo was a very charming guy also.