Attire requests.....

[Kya_Jean]

Guys, I have to admit, you have some weird outfits that turn you on. Last weekend I had the BF over, and I was feeling a little down. I had one a men's PJ button down shirt with a pair of booty short undies on, no make up, hair just brushed, but not done either, and he was hornier then hell. Other times, I will have the whole lingere outfit with garter and stocking, in colors other then black or white, like blue or red. Stocking in that color as well. Hair and make up done, and I get the "meh" kind of reaction. I don't get it!

Now I love to play dress up. I have done everything I can think of. Naughty nurse, sexy schoolgirl, the dirty slut with CFM boots and all. I even have cut off jean shorts with cut of white tank top to go with a tool belt and hard hat. All real and authentic. Has to be as real as possible.

I will get up in the middle of the act if he is feeling the mood for some dress up.

The problem now, I am running out of outfits. And some of things I think will work, don't! So gentlemen, please help me out here. I need to come up with a outfit for tonight and I have no idea what to do.

Suggestions please.....

 

[tboy]

I gotta admit, on the right woman, a pair of men's pajama bottoms and a white wife beater undershirt is HOT.....

I never did go much for "outfits", just some simple things would do it for me.

Have you tried body paint?

 

[Kya_Jean]

I gotta admit, on the right woman, a pair of men's pajama bottoms and a white wife beater undershirt is HOT.....

I never did go much for "outfits", just some simple things would do it for me.

Have you tried body paint?

Body piant! That would be a new one for me, that is for sure.

The BF seems to like the "simple" things as well. Got any suggestions for the simple things that get you all hot?

 

[slashaxl]

Body piant! That would be a new one for me, that is for sure.

The BF seems to like the "simple" things as well. Got any suggestions for the simple things that get you all hot?

When a young lady wears one of my dress shirts and nothing else. Even a hockey jersey and maybe a nice skimpy little thong underneath. Hubba hubba, cold shower time!!

 

[Danolo]

Well, I doubt you have it in your closet, but how about long red underwear? Could be fun getting you out of it.

 

[tboy]

Well, I doubt you have it in your closet, but how about long red underwear? Could be fun getting you out of it.

get her out of it? just open the hatch from behind....

and yup, a white dress shit and nothing else is HOT.

 

[calloway]

I think a good looking woman in a partially opened white dress shirt is very hot.

 

[Kya_Jean]

get her out of it? just open the hatch from behind....

I fully support that idea!!!

 

[roblestone]

us older guys brought up on pin ups always go for the garter belt and nylons. The younger guys go for just plain naked it seems. Maybe a wife beater that is ripped? crotchless pantyhose, french maid. I had an sp come from the shower with just a towell wrapped around her once and that was sexy.

 

[Kyra.Graves]

Not a guy here but if you don't mind I'll throw my 2cents in.

I often find putting something that is his on can be sexy, something he associates with good memories or youth really helps too. Maybe an old jersey, a work shirt that he considers lucky (the one he wore when he landed a big contract, did a big presentation, etc.), or the top he wore the first time he fucked you. In my experience it also helps if you set the stage by doing something cute in the roleplay but being very authentic so it doesn't appear it's a roleplay at all.

As an example I was involved with someone and wanted to surprise him on his return from a business trip. I knew what time he'd be home but specifically wrote 2 hours later on a note on the fridge (I wasn't picking him up anyway). I then laid out a very pretty dress on the bed and styled my hair, did my makeup and put on hot pair of panties and put on an old university team jersey. It helped he was a pretty small guy and I'm tall so the top barely covered my ass and if I was reaching for anything I was flashing the world. I then put food in the oven, a lasagna I think, and I started some dishes - only doing half of them.
When I heard the car pull up I ran into the kitchen and hit play on the music which was really loud so I could pretend I didn't hear the car and sunk my hands into the half finished dishes and waited for him to walk in.
He wandered into the kitchen and I jumped in surprise that he had arrived early - catching me only half ready on his special night! He on the otherhand loved that I was sitting in the kitchen, doing his dishes, cleaning up and cooking to make such a special night and looking hot. Yes I was in heels, panties and his jersey - who'd of thought women really work around the house like that! :-} Those dishes ended up waiting till the next day to be finished.
The lasagna however was done just in time, good timing on the food was nice as we really worked up an apetite. Though he wondered if I had staged my little scene he finally believed me that it was genuine because of the details like the dress on the bed, the note on the fridge, and a few others not mentioned.

That was a big part of what made the scene sexy for him, the idea that he caught me in the act, that I was being me and that I was this sexy girl that wanted him. I don't think it's just the outfits and dress up that turns the guy on but the thought and scenario behind it, create a feeling and scene and he'll be all yours. =)

 

[DDDebbie]

Kya

I am with you on this one girl. I used to go crazy thinking of sexy new things to wear for my ex. Satin, Lace, hosiery...everything. Nothing got a really big reaction from him until........

one night I wore a floor length flannelette nightgown to bed....OMG...he was all over me!

next morning I asked what was up with that? He responded that the satin and lace shit was scratchy on his skin but the soft flannel felt so good. Hmmmm so now I always make sure to have something flannel in my closet in case I run into another guy like him....LOL

I have had an adult pic site online for the past 5 years and I am always amazed at what they want to see! Rubber gloves, gas masks, no makeup, balloons,...lots of things you just would never think of as sexy.

And men say women are hard to figure out!

 

[Kya_Jean]

And men say women are hard to figure out!

I know!!! WTF is with that?

And the bad part about all of it. I have been in this business so long that you would think I know more about men, but apparently I don't.

KYRA - I like the plan.... I will have to try that one time.

 

[DDDebbie]

then of course there was the ex who always said "come to bed naked or don't come to bed at all"

wonder why he's an ex huh? LOL only in bed?!?!?! borrrrrring

 

[Kya_Jean]

then of course there was the ex who always said "come to bed naked or don't come to bed at all"

wonder why he's an ex huh? LOL only in bed?!?!?! borrrrrring

I have had to make that rule myself. LOL. He won't get naked. Always has to wear at least a shirt, and I hate it. So I had to make the rule. Me - I walk around my house naked all the time.

 

[Don]

I will have the whole lingere outfit with garter and stocking, in colors other then black or white, like blue or red. Stocking in that color as well. Hair and make up done, and I get the "meh" kind of reaction. I don't get it!

Man oh man this is exactly what I dream of seeing a girl wearing. You would not get a "meh" reaction from me!

But seriously, different strokes for different folks. Every guy can be so different that it is hard to make a suggestion. Some buddies of mine laugh a bit at my lingerie fetish because to them it is all about seeing them naked! My best suggestion is to ask him what outfit he would like to see you wear... or simply ask him to buy it and surprise you.

 

[Kya_Jean]

Man oh man this is exactly what I dream of seeing a girl wearing. You would not get a "meh" reaction from me!

But seriously, different strokes for different folks. Every guy can be so different that it is hard to make a suggestion. Some buddies of mine laugh a bit at my lingerie fetish because to them it is all about seeing them naked! My best suggestion is to ask him what outfit he would like to see you wear... or simply ask him to buy it and surprise you.

I have asked. Part of what men don't get it women like me who like to dress up, feel sexy doing so. I like new items, new clothes, new idea, new things to try and it is exciting. When he wants the same old, tired stuff, it is frustrating.

 

[Lou Siffer]

a white dress shirt and nothing else is HOT.

Agreed but I prefer blue because I don't own any white ones.

Some other comments...

In the bedroom...
Fancy lingerie is nice to look at but it can be a pain to remove and fancy stitching can be uncomfortable.

Light cotton tank tops with panties but no bra always look very natural and sexy.

If you have an old or cheap cotton tank top that has a hole or two in it, he might have fun ripping it off. This goes for panties as well.

During the day...
My wife used to wear these light summer dresses with buttons all the way up the front. So much fun to get her out of them, without a lot of hassle.

Wearing any kind of skirt or dress without undies lets a guy know that you were thinking about him (or at least about sex) when you got dressed and gives him an instant woody.

 

[tboy]

Agreed but I prefer blue because I don't own any white ones.

Some other comments...

In the bedroom...
Fancy lingerie is nice to look at but it can be a pain to remove and fancy stitching can be uncomfortable.

Light cotton tank tops with panties but no bra always look very natural and sexy.

If you have an old or cheap cotton tank top that has a hole or two in it, he might have fun ripping it off. This goes for panties as well.

During the day...
My wife used to wear these light summer dresses with buttons all the way up the front. So much fun to get her out of them, without a lot of hassle.

Wearing any kind of skirt or dress without undies lets a guy know that you were thinking about him (or at least about sex) when you got dressed and gives him an instant woody.

Looks like we're both cut from the same cloth. I used to LOVE seeing my gf's in lightweight summer dresses. If you catch the light just right you can see right through them. Plus if we went into a mall or movie theatre that was overly air conditioned you'd get the pokies happening lol

As for the BF wearing a shirt to bed: maybe he's a little ashamed of his body? Maybe try some positive reinforcement like "what a great chest you have" etc.....hey, guys have egos too.....(and they among other things need to be stroked once in a while)

 

[Liber Pater]

Not a guy here but if you don't mind I'll throw my 2cents in.

I often find putting something that is his on can be sexy, something he associates with good memories or youth really helps too. Maybe an old jersey, a work shirt that he considers lucky (the one he wore when he landed a big contract, did a big presentation, etc.), or the top he wore the first time he fucked you. In my experience it also helps if you set the stage by doing something cute in the roleplay but being very authentic so it doesn't appear it's a roleplay at all.

As an example I was involved with someone and wanted to surprise him on his return from a business trip. I knew what time he'd be home but specifically wrote 2 hours later on a note on the fridge (I wasn't picking him up anyway). I then laid out a very pretty dress on the bed and styled my hair, did my makeup and put on hot pair of panties and put on an old university team jersey. It helped he was a pretty small guy and I'm tall so the top barely covered my ass and if I was reaching for anything I was flashing the world. I then put food in the oven, a lasagna I think, and I started some dishes - only doing half of them.
When I heard the car pull up I ran into the kitchen and hit play on the music which was really loud so I could pretend I didn't hear the car and sunk my hands into the half finished dishes and waited for him to walk in.
He wandered into the kitchen and I jumped in surprise that he had arrived early - catching me only half ready on his special night! He on the otherhand loved that I was sitting in the kitchen, doing his dishes, cleaning up and cooking to make such a special night and looking hot. Yes I was in heels, panties and his jersey - who'd of thought women really work around the house like that! :-} Those dishes ended up waiting till the next day to be finished.
The lasagna however was done just in time, good timing on the food was nice as we really worked up an apetite. Though he wondered if I had staged my little scene he finally believed me that it was genuine because of the details like the dress on the bed, the note on the fridge, and a few others not mentioned.

That was a big part of what made the scene sexy for him, the idea that he caught me in the act, that I was being me and that I was this sexy girl that wanted him. I don't think it's just the outfits and dress up that turns the guy on but the thought and scenario behind it, create a feeling and scene and he'll be all yours. =)

That was incredibly HOT, and you are right on. Wear something of his.

 

[tboy]

That was incredibly HOT, and you are right on. Wear something of his.

Oh man, you're right there.....that is not only hot in a sexual nature but hot that she knew/cared enough about him to do this......

I used to travel extensively and for the 100 or 200 times I came home only once did a gf (at the time) pick me up. Man I would have loved to see her there with a trench coat on and nothing else.....(well, and a pair of black cfms lol)

One of the hottest things I ever had a gf wear was I bought her a black danskin body suit (thong) and one time we went out she wore that and a pair of loose jeans that rode on her hips so that the tops of the leg openings were shown. Man that was hot. All night I was aching for her.........

Another thing I find really hot is if she wore a black push up lace bra and one of those torn crop tops made out of jersey material. That and a pair of loose fitting daisy dukes.

Another time we had showered and were settling in for a night of popcorn and movies on the couch. She went into the bedroom to get dressed and came out wearing nothing but one of my white wife beater undershirts. It drove me nuts cuz she wouldn't let me "touch" her until after the movie. Then to rub it in she kept pausing it to go for a P, get more salt for the popcorn, get a drink....by the end of the movie I was just about bursting lol.....