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[texasdude]

I suppose this topic has been beat to death in the past but since I am fairly new I will bring it up again.

First of all do most responsible escorts refuse to provide this service and second of all what is the potential risk both to the client and the escort.

It seems to me that there is more risk (of contacting stds) to the escort with a lesser degree of risk to the client although both are at risk.

Even if the escort does not swallow the contact in the mouth is made and the potential risk of infection is there.

I have heard some escorts say they can tell by looking at a guy or talking to them that they do or do not have a risk for std trasmission. Or the client tells them you are the only escort I see. I do not believe that. Have you ever heard an escort say that you are the only one I would do that with? Yeah, right, if they would do it with you chances are they would do it with most clients.

Anyway, I was just interested in some feedback on this and what the "community thinks about it"

 

[midLifeCrisis]

Links!

See Poll #2: What did you catch?, Question on BBBJ, DFK and STDs. and Daty

Welcome to the Board!

 

[CyberGoth]

makes sense. Life is an exercise in iterative threat risk assessment. for the most part.

a wise being once said "everything is negotiable except reality".

while I have preferences wrt: bbj/cbj. I'm entirely flexible on the subject.

Safe/Sane/Consensual is a useful philosophy. There is a fine balance between respecting boundries, and pushing limits. all of which should be carefully negotiated. Sometimes its very tricky to figure out which is which and establish them in the first place.

but then, most of the fun of a journey is getting there.

 

[groo39]

Lots of really useful info links in this thread, if you take the time to chase them down.

It turns out DATY and LFK/DFK are as risky as BBBJ, so I guess I'll just have to accept the risks or give up the hobby (and the latter is unlikely unless, unless there is a monogamous long-term relationship in my future.)

Spend time without DATY? Without LFK/DFK? Most of what's left is animal grunting and a quick, greedy finish. If your sole purpose is getting your rocks off, what is she really there for?

 

[CyberGoth]

I enjoy the sensuous delights of DFK ... and DATY..... all the senses are involved... its quite wonderful.

and massaging achey muscles and exploring and its just all quite wonderful.

helps relaxation which [tho difficult at times given how highly strung i tend to be] tends to result in ahem better functionality on my part and more pleasant experiences for all involved.

gods I hate stress, stress bad bad bad.

hehe

besides, if someone is really worried about it, they can go get tested at the hasslefree clinic regularly and retain paper copies of the test results.