BBBJ etiquette.

[BBM4LUV]

Ok, so I feel just a little embarrassed to ask.

I see a provider frequently with no language overlap. This hasn't been an issue.. except for when I'm getting a BBBJ and I'm ready to go.. I'm not sure if its appropriate to do CIM.

I've always signaled for them to stop.. then take a breather. Usually at this point they put the raincoat on and its like a 10 second countdown.

A. I'd love to just let it rip.
B. If I'm going wait until the FS, then I'd like to get more out of it. Its a little bit of a bummer to get to the main course and only have 30 seconds of one position.

Any advice from the more experienced Terbinators?

 

[horwood]

Ok, so I feel just a little embarrassed to ask.

I see a provider frequently with no language overlap. This hasn't been an issue.. except for when I'm getting a BBBJ and I'm ready to go.. I'm not sure if its appropriate to do CIM.

I've always signaled for them to stop.. then take a breather. Usually at this point they put the raincoat on and its like a 10 second countdown.

A. I'd love to just let it rip.
B. If I'm going wait until the FS, then I'd like to get more out of it. Its a little bit of a bummer to get to the main course and only have 30 seconds of one position.

Any advice from the more experienced Terbinators?

You could alway do fs first and end with the bbbj and communicate with the girl you want to experience cim.

 

[SIRLOKI]

I,m coming ,, usually works, then I let her decide

 

[BBM4LUV]

I,m coming ,, usually works, then I let her decide

I like that strategy. That seems reasonable. I think that should be fairly universal in regard to the language barrier, lol. Thanks for the input.

 

[honeybear69]

I like that strategy. That seems reasonable. I think that should be fairly universal in regard to the language barrier, lol. Thanks for the input.

I usually do the same thing and say "SIRLOKI IS COMING" and the Lady seems to underatand....it must be universal!!
HB69......was here!?!?!? It sounded funny in my head!! So so when typing!!

 

[BBM4LUV]

I usually do the same thing and say "SIRLOKI IS COMING" and the Lady seems to underatand....it must be universal!!
HB69......was here!?!?!? It sounded funny in my head!! So so when typing!!

Can confirm. Made me chuckle.

 

[Theredmilf]

Not to be dick but you’ve just explained why it’s important to have clear communication for boundaries and the best possible experience. I no longer see clients with too much of a language barrier after being badly injured during a date. If you can’t communicate and aren’t sure please stick with what you’re sure is safe

 

[themooser]

I sort out the game plan with her before we start. Who's going where, where I can finish, etc etc.

 

[ricco_o]

I'd just let her know, if she's into it you'll both have a great time and if she isn't you won't ruin a relationship over just nutting once