Cancellation Conundrum

[ohmygod89]

There's no correction for this, unless the girl knows she's coming down with something beforehand. People call in sick to work, in regular jobs. Most of these girls are messing with body fluids on the daily, kissing multiple people. I know having a job where I talk face to face with sometimes hundreds of people in a day. You're gonna get criss-cross applesauce.. But the last minute ones hurt. I am one of those who likes to pre-book a few days in advance just to lock in the girl I want to see. My TDL is small and tight, so I wanna "make sure" I get my time slot. But like the OP, heading across the city, after confirmation then finding out - she's done for the day. WOOF - the WORST. On my way home, I just pulled into one of the better strip clubs, and got some good dances. Wasn't exactly my plan for the night. But there is always an alternative.

 

[Georgies]

Considering that I'm from the States, I always try to pre-book my appointments weeks in advance just to make sure that I can have a better chance to see that certain SP. I also have no issues giving screening info and a deposit to help make the SP at ease if it's our first time.

If they cancel, then it's not a big deal at all. I do a lot of research so I can make sure I have a backup or at least use an agency to help get a replacement.

Respect should go both ways to each party as both of our time is valuable.

 

[xix]

Wow so many things mentioned here.

- Social Anxiety / Resentment / Guilt / Spite / Fear , some people don't know they have it. I mean both sides. And it really screws people up.
- The day of appointment a guy wakes up with all above mentioned and not know it. And not call to cancel like a polite person

- The no show John may have been dumped by an Ex-Gf and takes it out on a SW
- The no show John may have been dumped by an Ex-Gf and joined the field of SP.
- The no show John may have been dumped by an Ex-Gf when she monkey branched.
- The no show John may have dumped an Ex-Gf after realizing, she was a SP, had several Friends/Bf, caught her with his dad, or She realized she was a lesbian; pregnant by another man.
- The no show John may know the SP from grade school and is building up the courage to see her. But is afraid he may be double crossed by her. When reality they are both guilty / worried.
- The no show John may be doing the booking out spite the GF left him so he takes his frustrations on SP by false booking. Which applies the above statement to this sentence. I don't agree this is right.
- Remember the Joker and clown in grade school doing stupid things, well this is one of them now.
- Mind you the booking can be done by a WOMAN who found out her bf/husband / ex husband/ bf is seeing or was seeing the SPs.

The first two items I listed I feel sorry for the guys, But after that it's just silly and it ruins it for the REAL John's like us. And future Johns.

Remember ladies 1/5 are really nice people on both genders.

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

I think perhaps it's time for me to venture back towards independants and avoid agency's as theres a personal connection and if either needs to reschedule there's an open line of communication. As easy as it is to use an agency, the extra 20-30% for an independant is worth it, vs loosing an entire day to a last minuite cancelation and total disregard from the agency.

Yes and they’re usually more able to describe the issue at hand and I personally think it’s understandable if the person is sick I had an agency lie about a car accident and it was awkward

 

[The Options Menu]

Do you tell the agencies that you are coming out of town and have a multihour commute? Maybe that will give them a nudge to let you know about cancellations not last minute.

That seems like a good idea. My additional suggestion should be to mention that at the end of the text chain. That way any booker glancing at a convo should see it.