Communication is welcome and betters your experience.

[ashlee.]

I didn't want to be posting on another ladies thread, so I figured I would make a post about it. A client had mentioned being really close, and wanting more pressure or speed or something, and then not being able to cum when his couple moans were not enough to communicate this to the SP. Men, pretty please, if you know exactly what you need to achieve the mission, let us know. Harder, faster, softer, slower, just like that, etc are all great things to hear, especially when seeing a new client for the first time. Most SPs are great at reading body language and using intuition but we are still not actual mind readers. I love when a client feels comfortable enough to let me know what he needs, if I have missed the mark. I would assume most ladies feel similarly. Help us help you have the best session possible!

 

[taker2ez]

I just came now reading this

 

[controlian]

I didn't want to be posting on another ladies thread, so I figured I would make a post about it. A client had mentioned being really close, and wanting more pressure or speed or something, and then not being able to cum when his couple moans were not enough to communicate this to the SP. Men, pretty please, if you know exactly what you need to achieve the mission, let us know. Harder, faster, softer, slower, just like that, etc are all great things to hear, especially when seeing a new client for the first time. Most SPs are great at reading body language and using intuition but we are still not actual mind readers. I love when a client feels comfortable enough to let me know what he needs, if I have missed the mark. I would assume most ladies feel similarly. Help us help you have the best session possible!

I have the problem where I dont know what will make me pop. 12 years hobbying and Ive only managed 3 times from the lady alone, its usually me finishing myself. So when asked what I like the girl gets annoyed when I say I dont know, then I get annoyed when they keep asking.

Im just there for the ride, keep playing with me and I will be happy

 

[Jenesis]

I have the problem where I dont know what will make me pop. 12 years hobbying and Ive only managed 3 times from the lady alone, its usually me finishing myself. So when asked what I like the girl gets annoyed when I say I dont know, then I get annoyed when they keep asking.

Im just there for the ride, keep playing with me and I will be happy

In this case, I would suggest just saying that you want to go with the flow and what ever happens, happens. This will let her know that there is no pressure on either of you.

 

[boomboom]

Thanks for this post @ashlee.
Communication seems to be a hot button this past week.
I too had a Communication mix up with a well reviewed but non advt SP last week.
A while back I asked her to let me know when she's back in my area. I got a DM & arranged to meet the next day. Her LL advt was well put together + several great reviews here. While driving into the city I confirmed I was on the way. She replied back quickly & confirmed a fee things including the donation. That's where we had a Communication mix up. Her LL advt stated 1 price but her txt was $50 higher. She had a recent price increase but forgot to update her advt. I never negotiate with a set price that is asked, explained that to her. Clearly a mix up on her part, so I cancelled about 75mins before our meeting time. Messages from us both were civil & non judgemental.
IMHO she was courtesy in her messages as was I.
Just a reminder to confirm donation before booking. It could have been very awkward had I found that out upon arrival. Again she is a well reviewed SP and I'm not sharing who, as she was very pleasant in txt messages over the mix up.
We ended wishing each other well.

Happy hobbying
Boom