Curious to see how many seniors and older are still hobbying??

[assloveralways]

Hey all!

Was wondering how many of our experienced or senior hobbyists are still active in the scene these days. Thinking like 70 years old and up! Always curious to hear perspectives from those who've been around a while.

- whats changed
- what's stayed the same
- what wisdom you'd pass along to the rest of us
- what advice would you give to someone looking to enjoy this lifestyle well into their later years, or quit?
- what keeps you in the hobby, is it the thrill, the people, the connections?

Just a 31 year old here about 4 years into the hobby - always enjoy hearing the stories and advice from those who've seen it all!

 

[xmontrealer]

Hey all!

Was wondering how many of our experienced or senior hobbyists are still active in the scene these days. Thinking like 70 years old and up! Always curious to hear perspectives from those who've been around a while.

- whats changed
- what's stayed the same
- what wisdom you'd pass along to the rest of us
- what advice would you give to someone looking to enjoy this lifestyle well into their later years, or quit?
- what keeps you in the hobby, is it the thrill, the people, the connections?

Just a 31 year old here about 4 years into the hobby - always enjoy hearing the stories and advice from those who've seen it all!

The world , and possibly even the sex industry, is going to change so much by the time you reach 70, especially with robotics and AI negatively affecting general employment, that there's not much I can say, except:

- Be careful how much you spend on the hobby. It is addictive. You don't want your money to die before you do.

- "Use it before you lose it..." Your dick won't always be as responsive as it is now, especially with a condom on it.

- Don't fall in love with sex providers. Even though you may develop "in the room" friendships with providers who become regulars, it is no more than that.

- Be kind and respectful to sex providers. It's mutually beneficial.

I always joke that, when I was 20, with girlfriends, it was 90% about me and 10% about my "unfortunate victims" lol.
Now it's 90% about me giving sex providers pleasure (no civilian girlfriends, thank you very much), and 10% about me.

As I have mentioned many times recently on terb, I'm almost 80 years old.
But I still enjoy mental and physical intimacy with females and pleasuring them.
However, the importance of the receiving part for me has greatly diminished.

 

[3wire]

This is the best advice anybody has ever given here.

 

[Ahri]

I can just speak for my personal experience but I do have a couple of older gentlemen and they are all sweet hearts - it’s more intimate GFE sessions with them with lots of foreplay and cuddling with a lot less fucking.

 

[lir2016]

I can just speak for my personal experience but I do have a couple of older gentlemen and they are all sweet hearts - it’s more intimate GFE sessions with them with lots of foreplay and cuddling with a lot less fucking.

If you care to share, what demographic (re:age, ethnicity) tends to be the most common client based off your experience?

 

[kherg007]

I can just speak for my personal experience but I do have a couple of older gentlemen and they are all sweet hearts - it’s more intimate GFE sessions with them with lots of foreplay and cuddling with a lot less fucking.

Over 60 here. A 1hr booking has a couple mins of chin wag, then mostly action, but maybe only 10- 12 mins of bone-in action at the end. And maybe only 1 min of bj. The rest lovvin' her up, smoochin', boobies, daty, dato, or other things that she might like (eg, a toe lick). Enjoying/appreciating a lady's loveliness is ethereal...and gets more special w age

 

[Mr Deeds]

I can just speak for my personal experience but I do have a couple of older gentlemen and they are all sweet hearts - it’s more intimate GFE sessions with them with lots of foreplay and cuddling with a lot less fucking.

This^ At 68 I still don't consider myself a senior ( yes I know I'm in denial) but these days I not interested in sexual acrobatics, I want to spend my time with an intelligent, sensual, patient woman. I prize quality over quantity. I will say though that my orgasms are 10 times more intense and satisfying now than they were when I was younger. When it's time for me to go I want to go out with a viagra
Induced hard on and a huge satisfied smile.

 

[shakenbake]

Seventy year old here.
I remember when aids did not exist. Gloveless paradise for those who watched out for the clap and other scourges.
Sex is carried out with more passion at my age in that it’s the whole package and not just a thrust and a tickle. Time spent with a provider is now more important experience of closeness and warmth.

 

[Ceiling Cat]

FYI - Medical check ups at seniors homes now include a STD test. The people at old folks homes have more time on their hands then they know what to so with.

Why STIs Are on the Rise in Older Adults

There are a number of reasons why older adults may be susceptible to contracting an STI. Learn about the importance of screening and early detection.

www.uhhospitals.org

Sexually transmitted infections in the elderly: A growing concern in geriatric care - PMC

Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) among the elderly are an underrecognized yet growing public health concern. This review explores the epidemiological trends, risk factors, and healthcare barriers contributing to STI burden in the elderly ...

pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

 

[itd131]

The world , and possibly even the sex industry, is going to change so much by the time you reach 70, especially with robotics and AI negatively affecting general employment, that there's not much I can say, except:

- Be careful how much you spend on the hobby. It is addictive. You don't want your money to die before you do.

- "Use it before you lose it..." Your dick won't always be as responsive as it is now, especially with a condom on it.

- Don't fall in love with sex providers. Even though you may develop "in the room" friendships with providers who become regulars, it is no more than that.

- Be kind and respectful to sex providers. It's mutually beneficial.

I always joke that, when I was 20, with girlfriends, it was 90% about me and 10% about my "unfortunate victims" lol.
Now it's 90% about me giving sex providers pleasure (no civilian girlfriends, thank you very much), and 10% about me.

As I have mentioned many times recently on terb, I'm almost 80 years old.
But I still enjoy mental and physical intimacy with females and pleasuring them.
However, the importance of the receiving part for me has greatly diminished.

Sage advice

 

[xmontrealer]

With robotics and AI possibly creating a lot of unemployment in the years ahead, especially for young people with no special skills, there may be a huge increase in the number of females entering the sex industry, just to make a living.

Hopefully males similarly affected will be able to afford their services...

 

[MrPrezident]

Happy Birthday xm!
Embrace AI and robots. This could be like an EE invasion 2.0 in both direct and indirect benefits. One person's problem is another person's opportunity. Ride Joey Schumpeter's "Theory of Creative Destruction" like a rocket - even if they need to tear up King St. every hundred years or so. Do not let marking another decade bum you out. A lot of pessimists we used to know are dead. You must be a geezer optimist or you would not have survived and prospered this long. The next golden age starts tomorrow morning.

The oldest profession - Jean Harlow -1933 #dinnerateight #classicmovies #precodemovies

Jean Harlow & Marie Dressler discuss reading, civilization, and the oldest profession in the witty pre-code comedy, Dinner at Eight.

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To paraphrase Yogi Bera, "Escorting is 90% mental. The other half is physical." Notwithstanding this movie clip, my four all-time favorite escorts may know more than the Prez.

 

[eddie kerr]

Over 60 here. A 1hr booking has a couple mins of chin wag, then mostly action, but maybe only 10- 12 mins of bone-in action at the end. And maybe only 1 min of bj. The rest lovvin' her up, smoochin', boobies, daty, dato, or other things that she might like (eg, a toe lick). Enjoying/appreciating a lady's loveliness is ethereal...and gets more special w age

84 and still hobbying, semi legit only and loving ít. Luckily I do look younger thanks to genetics. One of my go to spas is Greenway on Yonge, all the girls are very good at massage and more. Never been refused so gotta keep on trucking. LOL.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

No disrespect, but the whole "hobby seems to have suddenly become fucking lame. I am getting up there also, and in the past decade it has been a life saver. However, the idea of sloppy seconds from some well-reviewed girl I was thinking of seeing seems kind of disgusting. Not that I have suddenly found a deeper respect for women. Which I do and don't. But what kind of loser am I to be paying for it alll these years?
Discuss and comment. LOL.

 

[khildebrandt]

No disrespect, but the whole "hobby seems to have suddenly become fucking lame. I am getting up there also, and in the past decade it has been a life saver. However, the idea of sloppy seconds from some well-reviewed girl I was thinking of seeing seems kind of disgusting. Not that I have suddenly found a deeper respect for women. Which I do and don't. But what kind of loser am I to be paying for it alll these years?
Discuss and comment. LOL.

I’m an average guy that no one looks twice at, and I’ve had a lot of amazing experiences with NON-sps over the years. I’ve also had several SPs give me their number and offer to see me again personally. Paying makes WAY more sense. I pride myself on trying to be a good partner and client.
I’m getting older and civilian encounters are definitely harder to come by and come with a LOT of potentially life changing consequences. I have willing sexual partners who would cost nothing, except if someone saw us…too risky, too many feelings. Truth is I love sex and I love connecting with beautiful women who I would never meet in regular life. Is that a kink? I don’t know. Chasing civilians and playing the odds is a far worse (and let’s be honest, creepy) option in my mind. I’d rather have a moment of ecstasy with a professional rather than play some sneaky dating game in my spare time. I know guys my age who could probably model they are so good looking, and they are stuck in sexless relationships that frustrate them to no end. When a knockout like Mila Amore or a cutie like Karly Summers is sitting on my face, all I am thinking about is how FORTUNATE I am.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I’m an average guy that no one looks twice at, and I’ve had a lot of amazing experiences with NON-sps over the years. I’ve also had several SPs give me their number and offer to see me again personally. Paying makes WAY more sense. I pride myself on trying to be a good partner and client.
I’m getting older and civilian encounters are definitely harder to come by and come with a LOT of potentially life changing consequences. I have willing sexual partners who would cost nothing, except if someone saw us…too risky, too many feelings. Truth is I love sex and I love connecting with beautiful women who I would never meet in regular life. Is that a kink? I don’t know. Chasing civilians and playing the odds is a far worse (and let’s be honest, creepy) option in my mind. I’d rather have a moment of ecstasy with a professional rather than play some sneaky dating game in my spare time. I know guys my age who could probably model they are so good looking, and they are stuck in sexless relationships that frustrate them to no end. When a knockout like Mila Amore or a cutie like Karly Summers is sitting on my face, all I am thinking about is how FORTUNATE I am.

Sorry. Didn't mean to shit on the thread. I have angry outbursts internally which spill out here and there.

 

[xmontrealer]

Sorry. Didn't mean to shit on the thread. I have angry outbursts internally which spill out here and there.

None of us are perfect, so no worries.

I have expressed my feelings on terb about past and current participation in the "hobby" many times, almost all positive.

In regards to "sloppy seconds", I have a strong ability to "compartmentalize", in that I don't think at all about the guys before me, or the guy who is coming up right after me.

I am able to keep things "in the moment" and absolutely do not care if other guys that see my regulars are younger than me, better looking than me, are better at sex than me, or any other issue that may be comparative.

 

[khildebrandt]

Sorry. Didn't mean to shit on the thread. I have angry outbursts internally which spill out here and there.

Not at all. Wanted to offer my perspective, hopefully it didn’t come across as a rebuttal. There‘s absolutely a stigma in the industry that makes us question or protect ourselves to varying degrees (providers and clients) e.g. Look at all the blurred faces in ads, or why we usually pay in cash…Fair or not, people judge. Unpacking societal causes and motivations of that is well beyond my ability! When I have a great experience I become drunk with gratitude.

 

[nottyboi]

Not at all. Wanted to offer my perspective, hopefully it didn’t come across as a rebuttal. There‘s absolutely a stigma in the industry that makes us question or protect ourselves to varying degrees (providers and clients) e.g. Look at all the blurred faces in ads, or why we usually pay in cash…Fair or not, people judge. Unpacking societal causes and motivations of that is well beyond my ability! When I have a great experience I become drunk with gratitude.

I am 59 and had a great aft worth a 24 yo babe yesterday, but not in Canada. The scene is too production line for me.

 

[trm]

- what's changed-Viagra has kept me in the hobby. I am 74 and can still perform. The internet makes it easier to find SPs. We used to have to use the classified ads in the Now tabloid.
- what's stayed the same-Sex is still sex. Remember that you are a client not her friend. Don't get drawn into her drama.
- what wisdom you'd pass along to the rest of us-Go for quality, not quantity. Most of the high end SPs I have seen are worth the price. Pace yourself and don't blow all of your money on the hobby.
- what advice would you give to someone looking to enjoy this lifestyle well into their later years, or quit? Stay in shape and don't smoke. Have a doctor you can talk to about sex and performance issues. My family doctor was very open and non-judgmental when I told him I wanted to try Viagra or. Cialis.
- what keeps you in the hobby, is it the thrill, the people, the connections? I like sex but no longer want to have to work at a relationship. I have good connections with the SP's I see on a regular basis. I have had several long relationships with SPs, one for over 15 years before she retired.