Last time I looked, joining the military was voluntary
In other words, you have to make a choice to join. You can read this fast, slow, backwards or upside down and the meaning will be the same.
To buy what you're saying, I'd have to believe that the majority of recruits have no idea that by voluntarily joining the military they will be obligated to go wherever and do whatever their leaders choose. That's patently false. People voluntarily join knowing this. Therefore it's their choice. There is no draft - people voluntarily choose this situation for themselves.
As for your assertions that I'm in favour of Israeli children being killed, that's a fiction of your mind. If you can find any post where I state that I believe that targeting children of any country is a reasonable tactic, I'll answer you. Otherwise you should make an admission that you've overstated your case and move on.
I will say this; I don't think parents who love their children would ever locate them in a place where there is daily murder, assassination and humiliation. But that's what settler families do on the West Bank and Gaza. I also think it's absurd that any Israeli citizen can feel separate from the actions of a murderous government and military carrying out policies that they support.
As far as a crazed Palestinian goes, I'm just as wary of lunatic Israeli's who have an even greater disregard for human life than Palestinians. I'm also not worried about a Palestinian blowing me up on a bus because I'm not participating in the daily murder, assassination, and humiliation of his people. If I was, I'd get myself and my family out of the country - that is, unless I supported that policy.