dating married women

[Play[er]boy]

I was just thinking - dating married women should be a lot like seeing an SP in the sense that they are always in a hurry and basically have time only for sex...it will probably be cheaper than SP as well...they are well-groomed too, and presumably genuinely horny...
the question is where to find them? any free websites? I suppose they don't post their pics?

 

[learningtoplay]

You might try adultfriendfinder.com. There are some fees attached, but there is a lot of action in Toronto. I was never successful, but then I never really tried.
Then there is boredhousewives.com. I don't think it is anything more than a pay for porn site, but you might give it a try.

 

[The Baroness]

married women are always well groomed??
Not according to my clients............or maybe just not for their husbands.

 

[King Pig]

try ashleymadison.com They are a website for married people looking for some extra cirrculiar activities

 

[Skids-kid]

Winston's in do-do again

Every where I go, Winston's getting in hot water with Aurora. I believe I can see a definite pattern of deviant behavior designed to arouseflagelistic tendencies in erstwile angels.



Party on Dude !!!!!

 

[FLT]

...............Be prepared to pay a LOT more for a married woman than an SP.

Particularily if it's you they're married to.

 

[Snake Pliskin]

Bear in mind, dating a marrired woman may have consequences. If her husband finds out, and tracks you down, he can make your life difficult. He can go to your place of employment, especially if you took time off to see her during the day. He can follow you home, etc., etc., etc.

Personally, I will NEVER do it (again, although in my defence, she said "he wasn't there"...I should have clarified what that meant).

Spend a few extra bucks, and start a relationship with one of the wonderful ladies that are part of this community.

IMHO

 

[Play[er]boy]

try ashleymadison.com They are a website for married people looking for some extra cirrculiar activities [/QUOTE

thanks I think I'll give it a try...at least it's something different from seeing SPs...SPs are kinda not challenging and I guess the challenge is what I'm looking for...

as to the big bad husbands - I don't think it's a serious issue...I am prepared to explain to any husband using whatever means necessary that if he's not happy with the situation, it's his wife (or/and himself) who is at fault, and not me...and I have security in my condo...

 

[MuffinMuncher]

The one valid point in the argument for dating married women is that you arent the one who is leading her into temptation... she's already decided to cheat, you're just the guy she picked to do it with.

A completely different story if you are the one who talks her into having an affair though.

 

[FLT]

At least you don't have to send flowers in the morning. If it's OJ's wife though you may want to leave town.

 

[Bud Plug]

Several posts in this thread talk about dating and/or having sex with married women like its as easy as "shooting fish in a barrel" - they're horny, undemanding, etc.

Several things occur to me when reading these comments:

1. Married women seek affairs because something important to them is missing at home. If what's missing is great sex, you'd better be really great in the sack or you will be history. How many guys are ready to be dumped, knowing this is the reason? Talk to some women guys - most guys do not cut it in bed.

If what's missing is emotional attachment or "love" - watch out! There may be a very good reason why this has broken down at home (she's overly demanding, possessive, a psycho, etc...)

2. Married women are not "cheap dates". They will want to be treated well (the husbands probably did this at one time). If you have a typical bachelor's condo, they will want you to take them to a hotel (and not a divey motel).

3. You know she wants to be in a married relationship. If you are pressing all the right buttons for her, are you prepared for the day she gets the idea its time to switch husbands? It doesn't matter whether she pursued the relationship. In a woman's mind, all problems arising out of a relationship are caused by the man! (Flame away ladies, but it's true!)

4. Some husbands are psychos and won't be interested in hearing how it's really their fault (before they pull the trigger)!

If you are young, and are interested in young women, I can't see the advantages of seeing a married woman. If you are interested in seeing women in their 30's or older I can sort of see the argument a bit better. As women are fond of saying about that age bracket - the best one's are already married. Most single women in that age group who have never been married (and, hopefully, have no kids) are single for a reason - they have fatal character flaws. However, despite the difficulties in finding a good single woman at this age, I don't this consideration outweighs the problems I've already described.

Of course, it's totally different if you happen to be married as well.......

 

[luckyjackson]

I've been in a couple of relationships where the woman is also cheating.

First, I must agree with the earlier comment which questioned the labeling. It's as silly to make such broad comments about this group of people, as it is about any other. The characteristics of cheating wives, and the reasons they cheat are as varied as the people themselves.

Having said that, in my experience it does seem to me that such relationships are less fraught with potential complications when both people are chiefly interested in sex, and not looking for emotional nuturing that might be missing in their other relationship. It also seems to work better when you're both married, for obvious reasons.

 

[Snake Pliskin]

I guess the challenge is what I'm looking for...

Player:

Why not try pursuing single ladies instead of married ladies. Isn't that more challenging? Or do I have it backwards compared to what you're thinking?

Anyway you decide, just really think about the longer term. I remember a friend of mine, really nice guy, one of the most loving couples I knew, seriously think about murdering the guy he caught with his wife. Just because she's decided to fool around, doesn't mean its OK for you to be the guy.

If you want a challenge, I'm sure one of the SP's would voluntarily play hard to get with you! You know, make you take her to nice restaurants, nice hotels, etc., and then decide she's not quite ready! Haha!

 

[Play[er]boy]

Re: I guess the challenge is what I'm looking for...

Player:

Why not try pursuing single ladies instead of married ladies. Isn't that more challenging? Or do I have it backwards compared to what you're thinking?

Anyway you decide, just really think about the longer term. I remember a friend of mine, really nice guy, one of the most loving couples I knew, seriously think about murdering the guy he caught with his wife. Just because she's decided to fool around, doesn't mean its OK for you to be the guy.

singles just have (and take) more time, don't they? And I sure have no time...

as to "husband seriously think about murdering the guy" - he may think all kinds of stuff, does not mean he has GUTS to do it...in fact, I think we all know he DOESN'T have what it takes (proof being simply that he did not do it yet, he talked to you about it etc)...hey, it's not at all easy to kill a man...you need HUGE balls, and opportunity as well...