Death caused me to reflect

[mark_m]

I had a good thing going with a legit RMT who was located very close to me. Massage with HE at normal RMT rates, major score right?

Anyway, I found out that she died a couple weeks ago. I read her obituary, but I have no idea what the cause of death was. It is surprising because she was so young. I saw her just a few weeks before for a massage and the heating blanket caught fire. I wonder if that was a sign of things to come?

Anyway, this situation caused me to reflect about the people we meet in this hobby and women we pursue due to our addictions to sex. Everyone that you meet in this world is struggling. She has been in my thoughts and I can't really tell anyone else who would understand.

 

[Beagle_]

Lesson learned. People are people. Growth.

 

[y2kmark]

I've had reflective moods that mirror your own...

 

[superman12]

Thats a sad situation. Like you said you never know what people are going through in life. As a gent in this hobby my advice is to always treat the women with respect and be a gentlemen. You never know what small gesture you do or say that can effect someones life. You can make or break someones day just with how you behave.

 

[K Douglas]

You just never know. She may have committed suicide. She may have had an accident. She may have had a heart attack. My advice - cherish the time spent and move along. That's life.

 

[GoodDoggy]

My near death experience has made me less mean. I use to make fun of old people; that is, anyone over 45. All it took was the Pfizer vaccine fucking up my heart and putting me in the ICU for a week. Almost turned me into a goddamn cripple! Now I know how old people feel doing daily tasks. Now that I have walked in their shoes for six agonizing months of recovery, I stopped making fun of them. Forced humility is a bitch.

 

[Greytop19]

My near death experience has made me less mean. I use to make fun of old people; that is, anyone over 45. All it took was the Pfizer vaccine fucking up my heart and putting me in the ICU for a week. Almost turned me into a goddamn cripple! Now I know how old people feel doing daily tasks. Now that I have walked in their shoes for six agonizing months of recovery, I stopped making fun of them. Forced humility is a bitch.

Never laugh or make fun of the old, sick, poor and handicapped. It will come back to haunt you.
Good luck in your recovery

 

[GoodDoggy]

Never laugh or make fun of the old, sick, poor and handicapped. It will come back to haunt you.
Good luck in your recovery

Thanks brother. Yes, I have learned my lesson.

 

[Greytop19]

Thanks brother. Yes, I have learned my lesson.

Wish you all the best, good health

 

[Darts]

I try to look up an old friend from my Montreal days and was shocked to learned he passed at age 56. Cause of death was lung cancer but I never saw him smoke. You just never know. As the Irish say: "Don't sweat the small stuff".

I won't go into details. There was a dancer I use to bring home. Then one day, unlike her, she didn't return my phone calls. Found out a few days later she was murdered.

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[mark_m]

Thanks for sharing, everyone.

 

[poker]

I had a good thing going with a legit RMT who was located very close to me. Massage with HE at normal RMT rates, major score right?

Anyway, I found out that she died a couple weeks ago. I read her obituary, but I have no idea what the cause of death was. It is surprising because she was so young. I saw her just a few weeks before for a massage and the heating blanket caught fire. I wonder if that was a sign of things to come?

Anyway, this situation caused me to reflect about the people we meet in this hobby and women we pursue due to our addictions to sex. Everyone that you meet in this world is struggling. She has been in my thoughts and I can't really tell anyone else who would understand.

About 12 years ago, I made my first repeat with a girl. Saw her 3 times… always outcalls. We just clicked. What would have been our 4th session, the girl knocking on the door was not her. She explained that my regular just wouldn’t answer the phone when it came time for appointment. Said she had been “flaking out on calls the couple weeks”.

About 2 weeks later the SP I clicked with was off the agency listing, and I just figured she had moved on. I found out about 2 months later she had died in a single vehicle car crash.

That affected me. I still reflect on that to this day.

 

[Willie Layer]

There’s been a few great SW I have seen over the years who’s lives ended in tragedy.

2 suicides. 1 OD, 1 to cancer. The cancer one really affected me as she was active on terb and was always such a nice person irl. When she was near the end she posted here to say goodbye and also said someone outted her profession to her family, making her last days very sad ones.

This industry tend to attract a lot of damaged souls. You can easily see it in some of their twitters. Life is short, karma is a bitch, it takes nothing to be a decent human being to others.

 

[koreanjames]

and this is the path for having empathy for others. get well soon.

My near death experience has made me less mean. I use to make fun of old people; that is, anyone over 45. All it took was the Pfizer vaccine fucking up my heart and putting me in the ICU for a week. Almost turned me into a goddamn cripple! Now I know how old people feel doing daily tasks. Now that I have walked in their shoes for six agonizing months of recovery, I stopped making fun of them. Forced humility is a bitch.

 

[Darts]

I found out about 2 months later she had died in a single vehicle car crash.
That affected me. I still reflect on that to this day.

Several years ago, I was in a meeting with 4 other people. One of them was handed a message. His wife died in a car accident that same morning on her way to work. (I have had at least 3 near death experiences myself. I don't tempt fate anymore.)

I don't sweat the small stuff and I don't ever go apeshit when another member makes a typo. Life is way too short and shit can happen anytime without warning. Christopher "Superman" Reeves fell off a horse and we know the rest of the story. His wife died of lung cancer and she never smoked, although she did perform in smokey bars early in her career.

 

[poker]

Several years ago, I was in a meeting with 4 other people. One of them was handed a message. His wife died in a car accident that same morning on her way to work. (I have had at least 3 near death experiences myself. I don't tempt fate anymore.)

I don't sweat the small stuff and I don't ever go apeshit when another member makes a typo. Life is way too short and shit can happen anytime without warning. Christopher "Superman" Reeves fell off a horse and we know the rest of the story. His wife died of lung cancer and she never smoked, although she did perform in smokey bars early in her career.

You’re good man Dartsie (for a rightie).

 

[GameBoy27]

I used to get the most amazing $5 lap dances from this tall, smokin' hot blonde at Cheaters on Yonge and Eglinton. A few days after I saw her, I saw her photo in the Sun. She had died in a car crash on the DVP south at the 401. She was a passenger and wasn't wearing a seatbelt. Such a shame.

 

[corrie fan]

Quite a few years ago an MPA asked me if I knew that skinny girl who works here. I had seen her once and thought she was a nice person and hoped to repeat with her at some point. The MPA told me that the skinny girl had died of an asthma attack. She was in her late 20's. I found her obituary in the newspaper. There was a nice picture and from the writeup it was clear she came from a loving family.

 

[corrie fan]

There’s been a few great SW I have seen over the years who’s lives ended in tragedy.

2 suicides. 1 OD, 1 to cancer. The cancer one really affected me as she was active on terb and was always such a nice person irl. When she was near the end she posted here to say goodbye and also said someone outted her profession to her family, making her last days very sad ones.

This industry tend to attract a lot of damaged souls. You can easily see it in some of their twitters. Life is short, karma is a bitch, it takes nothing to be a decent human being to others.

I remember the SW who had cancer. I was deeply moved by the outpouring of love, support and concern for her from the terb community.

 

[Jenesis]

A member here, not including Fred, died not to long ago and that made me reflect. All we did was post to each but it does have an impact when they are suddenly gone.