To be fair escorts do need deposits. I need them for almost all of my outcalls now. It sucks because there are so many scams for you guys but for us there are people that are trying to scam us too. E-transfer scams work both ways.
I have auto deposit so I don't have to answer any questions but I can't even count how many times people have said they sent the money gave me a password to use an everything when I don't need a password. I had to put in an auto deposit because people were cancelling there any transfers when I was halfway there. So now, people either send a small deposit that we both think is fair or I don't bother. especially Peterborough I don't know what it is about Peterborough but as soon as somebody says they're from there I already know they're going to be bullsh*t. I mean even tonight. Someone wanted to promise me like $500 cash but he insisted I do all this stuff for him for free or they tell me how much cash is there waiting for me... But a hundred percent of the time it's a fake call or even they want something that I never agreed to. I'm pretty transparent through tags I'll say what I do and what I don't do but sometimes I'll get there and they think because I'm there they can switch it up and demand more for less. It's not just me it's a power-play and I'll walk away. They always offer my rate after that but they're just trying to see what they can get and it's such a douchey thing to do. I have other friends in the industry and my issues are not unique. A lot of clients are great, but it's the ones that want everything for nothing or even free that ruin it for everybody. I hate that scams are so prevalent because it makes it hard for everybody to trust new people. For real some people just want to talk and have no intentions of paying so when I get that vibe I push for e-transfer I push for them to make a payment for services because I already get the impression they're not intending to pay at all. They're just asking for enquiries and details and jerking off on the other end lol
