Deposits?

[Mango_XX]

Can anyone provide some guidance on the requirements for delays for Incall bookings? I’ve seen so many ads that ask for 50% up front for Incalls.

I don’t partake in outcall but I do understand the reason for that (uber taxis whatever). But I’m not sure about Incalls.

I don’t like the idea of giving out my email related to my EMT account for discretionary reasons.

Is it fair to say that these are all scams?

 

[asuran]

There are some out there but not all are scams.

Just go with well reputable ladies and you should be fine.
Generally it's between 20~30% fee deposit. 50% is definitely a bit sketchy.

If you don't like the idea of it then you don't have to see these ladies.

And if you aren't sure if the provider you want to see is reputable or not.
Post her ad and some of us on here can tell you if she is legit or not.

 

[KittyCaterina]

Can anyone provide some guidance on the requirements for delays for Incall bookings? I’ve seen so many ads that ask for 50% up front for Incalls.

I don’t partake in outcall but I do understand the reason for that (uber taxis whatever). But I’m not sure about Incalls.

I don’t like the idea of giving out my email related to my EMT account for discretionary reasons.

Is it fair to say that these are all scams?

Just a tidbit of info, you can change your etransfer name and email in your settings.

Maybe create a new email just for this purpose?

I can send etransfers from my true private life email or my work email with a few clicks in my online banking settings.

 

[robert27]

I don't mind a deposit but some on tryst also want your license or passport photo id, that's crazy.

 

[NadiaLovechanko]

I don't mind a deposit but some on tryst also want your license or passport photo id, that's crazy.

Screening is to keep the provider safe, MANY providers allow references or other ways with no ID.

If you want to see someone & they require screening/deposits and you don't want to? Simply move on.

 

[otrainrider]

Screening is to keep the provider safe, MANY providers allow references or other ways with no ID.

If you want to see someone & they require screening/deposits and you don't want to? Simply move on.

Ok what do you say to all the men that has been robbed where r their safeties??

 

[cheektocheek]

Ok what do you say to all the men that has been robbed where r their safeties??

I would say more due dillegence on the men thats why terb is here look for reviews or warnings.

If it looks shady then best not to take part lots of the ladies are on Terb or have social media. If a lady has no social media presence good sign to move on just my 2cents

 

[otrainrider]

I would say more due dillegence on the men thats why terb is here look for reviews or warnings.

If it looks shady then best not to take part lots of the ladies are on Terb or have social media. If a lady has no social media presence good sign to move on just my 2cents

Lol ok my friend

 

[BBM4LUV]

Deposits shouldn't be necessary for incalls, IMO. I've done small deposits or paid for Uber rides ahead of time, for outcall appointments.

 

[robert27]

Screening is to keep the provider safe, MANY providers allow references or other ways with no ID.

If you want to see someone & they require screening/deposits and you don't want to? Simply move on.

ok thank you, I'm just trying to educate myself, meaning recently I wanted to see someone, I had 5 different references from very reputable, including yourself, and deposit and she still said no wanted ID, I just felt that was bizarre since I had very recent multiple high end references

 

[NadiaLovechanko]

Deposits shouldn't be necessary for incalls, IMO. I've done small deposits or paid for Uber rides ahead of time, for outcall appointments.

A lot of incalls unless you own the place yourself you have to prepay to use the space

so if someone no shows you are out the money

let alone someone else could have taken the same spot and shown up and you would have made money

 

[NadiaLovechanko]

ok thank you, I'm just trying to educate myself, meaning recently I wanted to see someone, I had 5 different references from very reputable, including yourself, and deposit and she still said no wanted ID, I just felt that was bizarre since I had very recent multiple high end references

Some people just want ID to feel safe

ID is my favourite after virtual dates, since I know if something goes wrong who the person is
Also if they show up and don’t look like the photo ID I can kick them out

 

[Theredmilf]

I can tell you from tracking data that deposits make at minimum a 20% improvement in income; increase safety; improve the quality of clients and make clear communication that a booking is firm. Deposits also facilitate touring, securing a pooled incall space (the fee for which is due whether the client shows up or not) and help to cover other expenses so that we can manage cash-flow.

And there are also client benefits such as having your time secured; knowing you’re not double-booked; and ensuring timeliness so we can stay on schedule and also respect yours.

Additionally, a deposit improves the level of service I can give and therefore the level of service you will receive. With a deposit I can confidently spend a nice amount of time tarting up including making beautycare appointments, cleaning my space, prepping gear and getting into the right mood because I know you’re coming. The personal investment that I’m going to make is just much higher with a deposit. And my stress goes way down, so I’m more happy and excited to meet you. Lower cortisol is good for orgasms guys!

Even more astonishingly, deposits are known to reduce the numbers of client car accidents and deaths of your grandparents!

To me deposits assist great clients in meeting great providers and so not something you should automatically fear but welcome once you’ve done enough research to be truly confident you’re in safe hands. And if you don’t have that confidence, maybe think twice about making the booking at all because losing a deposit should be the least of your worries in an industry where so much else can go wrong.

 

[TigerFlex5]

Just a tidbit of info, you can change your etransfer name and email in your settings.

Maybe create a new email just for this purpose?

I can send etransfers from my true private life email or my work email with a few clicks in my online banking settings.

Not all banks

 

[Theredmilf]

Not all banks

This is true, I put this through Grok so you can see the options: CIBC, Simplii, Scotiabank. Unclear: National, Desjardins.

You can also send money anonymously through PayPal, some gift cards, cryptocurrency and Throne.

With the number of options, I have never failed to find an anonymous method for a client including internationally. So anonymity should no longer be an issue.

 

[TheShadowKnows]

@Theredmilf ,

RE:
"Even more astonishingly, deposits are known to reduce the numbers of client car accidents and deaths of your grandparents! "

Unless this statement was mentioned for humoristic purposes, I'd be interested in you explaining how and where you obtained this data to arrive at this conclusion.

 

[pulva]

@Theredmilf ,

RE:
"Even more astonishingly, deposits are known to reduce the numbers of client car accidents and deaths of your grandparents! "

Unless this statement was mentioned for humoristic purposes, I'd be interested in you explaining how and where you obtained this data to arrive at this conclusion.

It is interesting. I have no issue with deposits, prefer GCs but have done etransfers. The only time I have run into into an issue is when the provider cancels and says that they can't return the deposit due to confidentiality issues. It does come down to trust ultimately, and sticking with people who have good reputations.

 

[Theredmilf]

@Theredmilf ,

RE:
"Even more astonishingly, deposits are known to reduce the numbers of client car accidents and deaths of your grandparents! "

Unless this statement was mentioned for humoristic purposes, I'd be interested in you explaining how and where you obtained this data to arrive at this conclusion.

Tough audience tonight!

It is interesting. I have no issue with deposits, prefer GCs but have done etransfers. The only time I have run into into an issue is when the provider cancels and says that they can't return the deposit due to confidentiality issues. It does come down to trust ultimately, and sticking with people who have good reputations.

This is a fair comment and I think providers should state this information clearly on their website. If a provider can only refund by say Amazon, they should state this clearly.

Obviously stealing deposits is not something I’m OK with and I do feel it hurts the industry when providers do this. I’m in favour of calling out scams publicly or if you don’t feel comfortable doing it publicly, sharing this information privately.

 

[ArgoHater]

Tough audience tonight!

This is a fair comment and I think providers should state this information clearly on their website. If a provider can only refund by say Amazon, they should state this clearly.

Obviously stealing deposits is not something I’m OK with and I do feel it hurts the industry when providers do this. I’m in favour of calling out scams publicly or if you don’t feel comfortable doing it publicly, sharing this information privately.

Where is the data that was asked for?

 

[pulva]

Tough audience tonight!

This is a fair comment and I think providers should state this information clearly on their website. If a provider can only refund by say Amazon, they should state this clearly.

Obviously stealing deposits is not something I’m OK with and I do feel it hurts the industry when providers do this. I’m in favour of calling out scams publicly or if you don’t feel comfortable doing it publicly, sharing this information privately.

It wasn't quite stealing the deposit. The providers website clearly indicates refund of deposit if she cancels. At the time of appointment the incall was not available, not her fault from my perspective. But annoying as I was there. But fine, so I said just send me an etransfer or a gift card and perhaps we can find another time, her schedule is pretty limited as is mine so finding a mutual time is tough. She said she couldn't because of confidentiality. So ends up a bit of a sunk cost I suppose, part of the risk of the hobby. But not ideal, but you know better for next time. She said consider the deposit good for whenever we do manage to make an appointment. Which isn't ideal. So I suggested that she donate the donation to CORA or another sex worker positive charity and we can move our separate ways.