Did you have the same addiction in having sex with your romantic partners as you did with escorts?
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A couple. Don't know how long it would have lasted if they hadn't kicked me to the curb fast. Neediness is a turn off apparently. lol. The escort I was addicted to reacted exactly the same way. I guess I proved the formula anyway.
Nope. My "addiction" is variety, with the exception of a very few regulars with whom the sex is close to as good as it was with my best girlfriends.
The thing with girlfriends is that there is only one "first time", with all the excitement and mental stimulation that carries.
Each time I have a really good first session with an escort I get that same thrill, and that's what I'm addicted to...
The thing with girlfriends is that there is only one "first time", with all the excitement and mental stimulation that carries.
Each time I have a really good first session with an escort I get that same thrill, and that's what I'm addicted to...
Sex addiction with escorts is almost entirely physical by nature. Sex addiction with someone you're into on all levels is a much more potent phenomenon, in my experience. And no, I haven't had it with all my past romantic partners. But when you find the right one who clicks across the entire spectrum, it's life changing.
It’s the variety of someone new with an escort that makes it exciting! While the familiarity of your SO is comforting and romantic!
Don't completely agree. It can be very much a mental thing.
I have had a couple gf's in my younger days who were extremely kinky and slutty and sex was fun with them for a couple months. It eventually got boring because it was still the same girl I was fucking no matter how kinky she was. With escorts you can go see a new girl anytime you want and that's a thrill becuase it's something new each time. I would say most men like variety and that's where the addiction lies and why escorts are so popular.
Just further to my post, I think that escorts can be individuals that you care for very much. Some are just physical, but some are getting pretty close to the best relationships you have ever had. I only speak for myself.
I have had 1 that I was once very close to pass away, and it affected me enormously. She changed my life actually. In some ways she was the greatest influence on my life, ever.
At the end my relationship with her was only half sexual, meaning half the time I saw her there was no sex, just enjoying our friendship.
I have had 1 that I was once very close to pass away, and it affected me enormously. She changed my life actually. In some ways she was the greatest influence on my life, ever.
At the end my relationship with her was only half sexual, meaning half the time I saw her there was no sex, just enjoying our friendship.
I had a history with escorts before I met my wife. I tried to stop after we got married. There were things I liked that my wife didn't. Sex became routine. My wife was not a 25 year old hottie and I missed that too. Giving up escorts was like giving up drugs or alcohol. Every once in while I had to get a taste and it was my little secret. It helped me get through.
SPs definitely hit like an addiction. I need a SP in order to feel drained when I blow my load. I don't even come close to completion with my wife.
I get there yanking it, but it is just not the same...
I get there yanking it, but it is just not the same...
I can and have been quite satisfied with enthusiastic sex from my romantic partner when it is frequent enough. A partner only occasionally interested in sex led me to find this world and has kept me here.
Ya. Considering I only will get action from her 5-6 times per year too. My dick's feelings are hurt and it seemingly cannot forgive. SPs drain my balls.
