Do you consider it as cheating?

[webster123]

I'd like to know your opinions....

Do you guys consider visiting an SP or going to a MP is cheating?

Have you ever been caught by your partners? How do you keep with traces undetectable?

What is your opinion?

 

[xix]

So we don't know who you are since supposedly you joined in March 2025.

Terb has a search engine on the top right. IF you type in "cheating" to search in the titles only you will get this list...

https://terb.cc/xenforo/search/19964940/?q=cheating&c[title_only]=1&o=date

The most recent thread that covers this topic is ..

https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/does-seeing-an-escort-count-as-cheating.828784/

and

https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/cat-caught-cheating-on-partner.813006/

or

https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/what-does-%E2%80%9Ccheating%E2%80%9D-mean-to-you.804779/

If

https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/is-it-cheating.792069/

and Lastly

https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/how-to-tell-if-your-partner-is-cheating-according-to-a-private-investigator.753240/

There are more links from the top link. In the end YES it is cheating BE JAMES BOND to not get caught. Good luck.

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[Daddy2021]

I'd like to know your opinions....

Do you guys consider visiting an SP or going to a MP is cheating?

Have you ever been caught by your partners? How do you keep with traces undetectable?

What is your opinion?

Yes it’s cheating. If it wasn’t you wouldn’t need to hide it.

 

[GeeBee]

Yep, of course it’s cheating.
And read all the links above to see the logic, and strategies and tips to stay discreet.

 

[The Options Menu]

Yes, it's cheating.

Yes, you should make a good faith effort to be a person of your word, including the word monogamy.

Yes, life is complicated and hindsight is 20/20, so not casually blowing up your life is understandable. Though you should be conscious of your partner's dignity and safety.

Yes, sometimes discreetly seeing a pro, after thinking through the safety, is the best option (especially when compared to affairs or sugar babies).

 

[SchlongConery]

Yes, it's cheating.

Yes, you should make a good faith effort to be a person of your word, including the word monogamy.

Yes, life is complicated and hindsight is 20/20, so not casually blowing up your life is understandable. Though you should be conscious of your partner's dignity and safety.

Yes, sometimes discreetly seeing a pro, after thinking through the safety, is the best option (especially when compared to affairs or sugar babies).

I agree with all of your points except the last one.

Doing anything you know your S/O would be hurt or feel betrayed by is cheating.

However, for whatever reason you need extramarital sex, or even jsut sex because she's not putting out, then see a reputable agency pro. Not a SB, indy or leolist girl. Put a Chinese Wall between you and the SP..

Adopt an alter-ego. Name, different profession, west end if you are from the east, etc. Do not admit you are married. Get a burner app or eSim second number. Do not use interac or leave any record. Set aside a cash stash in advance, a little at a time. Do not draw out $300 from an ATM when you said you were going to work out at the gym. Do not get emotionally involved, Get your sexual needs satisfied, enjoy the escape/release. and go back to your normal life. Do not become a regular, do not ask to exchange numbers etc. Keep your emotional distance.

This way, you are not risking the personal consequences that come along with seeing a sugar baby. Whether it is knowing who you are and it getting back to your S/O or you getting emotionally involved and making stupid decisions thinking with your dick.

If your marriage is really not viable, time to bite the bullet, separate amicably as possible and then move on to sigle life where getting laid and having a girlfriend is just as much as a PITA nd you will ee the. value in seeing reputable agency girls.

 

[The Options Menu]

If your marriage is really not viable, time to bite the bullet, separate amicably as possible and then move on

On this we both agree 100%. There comes a time to end a 'thing'. Marriage, or not. Though that point is often easier to see in hindsight. The middle zone is often harder-- Where you love your partner (even if you bitch), but you're deeply unfulfilled in a way a given relationship can't accommodate.

 

[SexB]

I saw a couple SPs when I was in the early stages with a couple women I was seeing.

We hadn't made it official so I don't really count it as cheating. But yeah, unless we decided to be poly of have an open relationship, I would have stopped seeing SPs all together.

But, I had a run of bad luck with dating and it felt like the universe was trying to tell me something so I just decided to stop dating and focus exclusively on providers. No shade to the women I dated, I'm still friends with one of them and I don't want to sound like a bitter MGTOW or "incel", but I just decided to give up on dating. As I always say, I'm not going to fool myself about the nature of things with the ladies I see regularly but I have forged some pretty close relationships with a couple providers.

 

[Jenesis]

I agree with all of your points except the last one.

Doing anything you know your S/O would be hurt or feel betrayed by is cheating.

However, for whatever reason you need extramarital sex, or even jsut sex because she's not putting out, then see a reputable agency pro. Not a SB, indy or leolist girl. Put a Chinese Wall between you and the SP..

Adopt an alter-ego. Name, different profession, west end if you are from the east, etc. Do not admit you are married. Get a burner app or eSim second number. Do not use interac or leave any record. Set aside a cash stash in advance, a little at a time. Do not draw out $300 from an ATM when you said you were going to work out at the gym. Do not get emotionally involved, Get your sexual needs satisfied, enjoy the escape/release. and go back to your normal life. Do not become a regular, do not ask to exchange numbers etc. Keep your emotional distance.

This way, you are not risking the personal consequences that come along with seeing a sugar baby. Whether it is knowing who you are and it getting back to your S/O or you getting emotionally involved and making stupid decisions thinking with your dick.

If your marriage is really not viable, time to bite the bullet, separate amicably as possible and then move on to sigle life where getting laid and having a girlfriend is just as much as a PITA nd you will ee the. value in seeing reputable agency girls.

Sorry but why not an Indy? I’m an indy and on LL and I’m certainly not chasing after clients to ruin their marriage. I don’t get this comment.

SB I get but I don’t get why someone like me would be off the list of options to see. There are plenty of reputable indies on this board, many I’m sure you can name as well, that would be perfectly fine to see.

 

[SchlongConery]

Sorry but why not an Indy? I’m an indy and on LL and I’m certainly not chasing after clients to ruin their marriage. I don’t get this comment.

SB I get but I don’t get why someone like me would be off the list of options to see. There are plenty of reputable indies on this board, many I’m sure you can name as well, that would be perfectly fine to see.

Apologies Jen, you are certainly a perfect option for anyone. No doubt you re trustworthy, provide good services at a fair price.

But in general terms, when the consequences can be severe, leolist is a gamble not worth taking for pussy. Especially for a non-experienced hobbyist.

I use a burner and on severa occasions over the years I've received those extortion threats using the (fake) name that comes up on Caller ID. So if some married guy with say, a Linkeedin profile or whatever uses his normal phone, he is at risk of being extorted. And that's just one risk of leolist.

The thing about agencies is that there is a degree of separation between the client and the sp. Then again, there is also the risk of data breaches with agencies to some degree, although I've not heard of any.

I hope that clarifies my reasoning, and excuses good sp's like you from being lumped in with leolist scammers..