Do you tell your personal friends that you hobby?
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Some, why not? I am not the only one.
Most would expect for the $$, it is kind of a waste but then so is other stuff we enjoy in life.
Rather date a SP than going to a ball game, others are like what?
At the local auto parts shop its like "hell yeah"
-everybody but the female cashiers run downtown or to Windsor
Most would expect for the $$, it is kind of a waste but then so is other stuff we enjoy in life.
Rather date a SP than going to a ball game, others are like what?
At the local auto parts shop its like "hell yeah"
-everybody but the female cashiers run downtown or to WindsorI have to add this.....
A long time ago-like gee 10 years or so, its when like escorts got the 100% OK its legal from the courts in Canada--I was at that auto parts store and some long hair guy comes up from the back area and yells out "hey, they just said on the news its legal to pay for sex in Windsor now". The other guys all started talking about it--I thought to myself "big deal" like who cares, I never had any problems with the law.
Now here years later, Canada girls are the "best" for the $$
A long time ago-like gee 10 years or so, its when like escorts got the 100% OK its legal from the courts in Canada--I was at that auto parts store and some long hair guy comes up from the back area and yells out "hey, they just said on the news its legal to pay for sex in Windsor now". The other guys all started talking about it--I thought to myself "big deal" like who cares, I never had any problems with the law.
Now here years later, Canada girls are the "best" for the $$
I have told some close friends about my festivities but not everyone. If the topic ever came up I would jump in and if the question was asked I wouldn't lie about it but there are some with less open minds so I don't invite conflict.
Nobody except the SP. It's not a secret if two people know. What happens if in a moment of weakness he tells his significant other that Blue is hobbying? How many people do I have to kill to keep a secret?
Certain you would not want to take out a 3 page ad in the sun saying that I have seen this sp and this mp and such.
You got to know whom to trust, for my one friend I we are just one resource that we use to point us in the direction of sp or mp, I live in Ontario he lives in BC he has better handle on the scene out there and I have a better handle on things here in ontario. For example TERB, CERB are good resosces.
There are some friend that I do not tell about my hobbing, that's simply private.
You got to know whom to trust, for my one friend I we are just one resource that we use to point us in the direction of sp or mp, I live in Ontario he lives in BC he has better handle on the scene out there and I have a better handle on things here in ontario. For example TERB, CERB are good resosces.
There are some friend that I do not tell about my hobbing, that's simply private.
One thing thou, the more people that know, the more likely it leak out. Now for some its no biggie-like me But once it did hurt me a little.
A while back I was just friends with this girl. Never was really turn on by her but enjoy hanging out, partying together. Well we knew each other for a good year but then she like just stop talking to me. She was going though some problems-got kick out of college but still I could not quite explain what happen-her friends told me she "hated" me-blame me for getting kick out of school.
But then months later, it dawn on me. I bet my "friends" said something to her about me and this "hobbie".
It was no big lost to me but gee, if I could have gone way back in time, I would have keep my mouth shut back then.
So yes, if you are not sure or if theres people you know who would not understand, keep your mouth shut.
But once it did hurt me a little.A while back I was just friends with this girl. Never was really turn on by her but enjoy hanging out, partying together. Well we knew each other for a good year but then she like just stop talking to me. She was going though some problems-got kick out of college but still I could not quite explain what happen-her friends told me she "hated" me-blame me for getting kick out of school.
But then months later, it dawn on me. I bet my "friends" said something to her about me and this "hobbie".
It was no big lost to me but gee, if I could have gone way back in time, I would have keep my mouth shut back then.
So yes, if you are not sure or if theres people you know who would not understand, keep your mouth shut.
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Nope, all my friends are one-woman men and they have closed-minds... telling them would just, as mentioned above, invite conflict, and it could be used against me to portray an image of me which is untrue or exagerrated. It could compromise things for me in certain situations.
People wouldn't understand. I hobby for myself, not to brag or anything. What sense is there telling other people anyway?
Even if a friend of mine told he he hobbied, even an extremely close friend, I would not admit it back to them. Even if they do, I don't want to know. It's none of my business and none of theirs.
People wouldn't understand. I hobby for myself, not to brag or anything. What sense is there telling other people anyway?
Even if a friend of mine told he he hobbied, even an extremely close friend, I would not admit it back to them. Even if they do, I don't want to know. It's none of my business and none of theirs.
My thoughts exactly.bangcamaro said:
It's amazing what secrets guys will divulge to their wives in order to justify their own "bad" behaviour.
Better to keep that kind of info to yourself.
jeez. sure we joke around... like say "Its time for you to call an escort" etc etc or I need to visit the massage parlour etc.
its not like we need to tell them our every move "hey guys I'm seeing an escort tonight... A young blonde called Josephine , triple D's, bbbj blah blah"
I personally like to keep it to myself. Its not something to be proud of and go telling all your friends
its not like we need to tell them our every move "hey guys I'm seeing an escort tonight... A young blonde called Josephine , triple D's, bbbj blah blah"
I personally like to keep it to myself. Its not something to be proud of and go telling all your friends
