My mind has been pondering this for some time and I'm curious what your feed back on this. I have been in a realtionship with a SP for 4 years. We swing from time to time. When we do she has a huge problem with me being with another woman. Double standard? Many of our friends are in the same situation were the female is a SP. I've noticed that they get upset when thier BF shows any attention to another woman. Recently I was in a strip club waiting for my GF to meet me after a call. A dancer sat at my table and we had a short conversation. My GF showed up to meet me and saw me talking with the dancer and got upset. Do all SP's have this double standard with thier husbands or boyfriends?
Double Standard
- Thread starter taperman
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Pay attention to me damit!....
Never had this prob dating SP before. Did have a similar though not the same; when dating a dancer once. (I have dated a couple before) It would really depend on 'who' the dancer was though. Keep in mind I was working as a driver at the time so I had dancers in my car all the time. Also it was my JOB to be in SC whenever not driving to be standing by for next drive or to talk to dancers and pass out my card etc. My GF at the time who was a well known dancer was hardly if ever upset about me 'talking or sitting' with other dancers except if it was someone she did not like. But when she did get upset is if she was in my car with me and another dancer would call me on my personal cell. If I did not end the conversation quickly and get bk to paying attention to her... there was hell to pay. lol. Ahhhh the good er.... BAD old days. lol.
Never had this prob dating SP before. Did have a similar though not the same; when dating a dancer once. (I have dated a couple before) It would really depend on 'who' the dancer was though. Keep in mind I was working as a driver at the time so I had dancers in my car all the time. Also it was my JOB to be in SC whenever not driving to be standing by for next drive or to talk to dancers and pass out my card etc. My GF at the time who was a well known dancer was hardly if ever upset about me 'talking or sitting' with other dancers except if it was someone she did not like. But when she did get upset is if she was in my car with me and another dancer would call me on my personal cell. If I did not end the conversation quickly and get bk to paying attention to her... there was hell to pay. lol. Ahhhh the good er.... BAD old days. lol.
When you are in a longterm relationship, always make sure that your significant other knows he or she is #1 in your eyes. If they feel ignored as a result of your flirting, expect fireworks later. As long as you remember that the SO always comes first, then if she agreed to the strip bar visit or swinging party, she'd better learn to cope with her emotions a bit better.
I knew a male stripper at the old Tropicana and his girlfriend. The guys make their tips by dfk for $5 (at that time). She would sob her poor little heart out in the ladies room every time she went to watch him. So my question was, why the hell did she go???? He obviously has no connection to any of these women beyond that fiver and doesn't even look or speak to them. So if you can't handle it, why go and put yourself through watching it?
I knew a male stripper at the old Tropicana and his girlfriend. The guys make their tips by dfk for $5 (at that time). She would sob her poor little heart out in the ladies room every time she went to watch him. So my question was, why the hell did she go???? He obviously has no connection to any of these women beyond that fiver and doesn't even look or speak to them. So if you can't handle it, why go and put yourself through watching it?
Swinging requires agreeied upon conditions. Some things will make your partner uncomfortable, and this needs to be respected. Face it guys how many want to hear your lady say "I'll so you how to eat PU**Y". But would you say the 180 of that???? Hell no.
