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Escort opinions? Condoms and accidents

DiscreetRocker

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Looking for feedback from escorts.
Don't really care about what fellow hobbyists think about it.

What would you do if this happened in a session with a trusted, regular client?

I was dating a civilian woman for a while so I'd taken a break from the hobby, gotten tested, and started having regular sex with my girlfriend. We still used condoms because while she was on the pill, we both just felt safer about it. One particularly hot session, she decided to add water-based lube to the condom. I pulled out, she covered my condom-covered cock in lube, and we went back at it.

After a minute I noticed something felt... too good. The condom had slid right off, getting shoved WAY up inside her. I panicked. We were raw-dogging for who knows how long? She wondered what was so wrong since I hadn't cum, we were both tested clean and trusted each other, etc... but in the moment I had a flash: What if this happened with an escort? DOES this happen to escorts?

I'm not talking about guys stealthily removing a condom during sex without consent. That's sexual assault. That's some twisted shit that deserves jail time and a beating. No, I'm talking about one of your trusted regulars suddenly stops, pulls out, and goes "Where the fuck is the condom?!?" sincerely surprised. Or forget about lube, what if the condom broke and you only realized later, but before he came?

What would you do?
Would you kick them out?
Would you try to be understanding?
Would this be reason to never see them again, even if you knew it was an accident?
Etc...

Sincerely curious. I don't have an opinion on whether there are "right" answers here. I just want to know what escorts think.

~ Thanks
 

DiscreetRocker

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lol of course I'm fine. The panic was brief and ended as soon as I remembered my gf was a civvie and not an escort I'd hired. And it's not related to the question I'm asking anyway.
 

Jasmina

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Yes, it happens. All the time. Anyone who says it doesn't is lying or has just gotten lucky. You brush it off, get tested (which you should be doing regularly anyway) and move on with your life.

lol of course I'm fine. The panic was brief and ended as soon as I remembered my gf was a civvie and not an escort I'd hired. And it's not related to the question I'm asking anyway.
 

Vermeer27

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I don't know if you will be panicked or relieved to hear this, but most so's are pretty laid-back about brief accidental bare-back because it does happen. I've noted a common reaction from multiple escorts : when we both notice what's occurred the sp would raise an eyebrow and ask "are you good?" That was it. Then maybe move on to bbbj for the finish because getting another condom on is just too unwieldy at that point.
I remember a popular agency girl joking "Yeah, that felt way too good, it had me wondering."
 

avocat

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Condoms are likely to slip off once you cum and your erection starts to fade. It happens and all of a sudden you pull out and its missing so you do the gentlemanly thing and retrieve it. As mentioned above, slip happens. But guys should do the right thing and pull out after cumming.
 

Dougal Short

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Pretty sure they taught us to hold the base of the condom when we pull out in Grade 10.

As for STIs, if we believe the ladies, a sexworker is less likely to be carrying an infection than a civilian, although it always seems to be anecdotal evidence. Some, even most, get tested more often than civilians, but they likely have many, many more potential exposures.
 

TeeJay

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As for STIs, if we believe the ladies, a sexworker is less likely to be carrying an infection than a civilian, although it always seems to be anecdotal evidence. Some, even most, get tested more often than civilians, but they likely have many, many more potential exposures.
I think it is far less likely for them to be unknowingly transmitting as most do get tested but I would also bet a far higher percentage of them pick up the low value / easy cure STIs just due to volume
 

newguy20

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A few years ago I had the condom break during anal with a well known SP. It must have broken just as I was about to come because I didn't notice until I pulled out.

Me: aww fuck!
Her: yeah, that happens sometimes. I could feel you coming in my ass

She didn't seem at all concerned.
I was fucking terrified.
 
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