For the Women only: What is the most important factor in mate selection?

[stinkynuts]

Please respond to this poll only if you are a woman. Thank you.

 

[Kyra.Graves]

I voted on the assumption that you meant mate in the form of a SO, if it's just someone to "mate" with... well them being Moral is the last thing I want.

 

[luv4lust]

you missed high sex drive so i went for the closest

 

[Jade4u]

If you allowed for more than one vote there is 5 I would have checked off from past experiences. But the one I did check off is still highest on the poll.

 

[tboy]

hmm interesting: money/financial security is as important as kind/respectful/emotional....

I wonder whatever happened to women's lib and being self-reliant *eg*

(oh, I'm gonna pay for that last one lol)

 

[Dash]

I thought Height was going to be in the lead.

 

[secret_touch]

Should have been able to choose multiple selections

 

[Dash]

Nah - its different for every chick. This doesn't mean its the same for every girl.

 

[BallzDeep]

a) Money
b) All of the above

 

[BallzDeep]

I have abs, I just prefer to keep them hidden.

 

[tboy]

Where is all of the above.................

Some of us would accept nothing less then any of those in a potential SO.

Kiarra

Of course? I knew someone would come along with that and hey, being female you'd be applauded for not settling for anything less than that!

We should do a poll like this only for the guys and I bet if there was an all the above the ladies of the board would come down on us like a ton of bricks.

BTW: what DOES financially secure mean? He's rich? (on paper or in cash?) He lives within his means? He's not in debt? (yeah, there's one guy not in debt but he lives in an igloo north of lake superior).

I would have quantified the poll with something like: you can check off as many as you like BUT you can only check off the points that YOU ALSO qualify for/as....

 

[luv4lust]

I thought Height was going to be in the lead.

oh my god i love tall men cause i'm tall

 

[tboy]

Also keep in mind that at different ages, we as women, look for different things in a man. In your 20's, it's pretty all much all about looks. As you go past that, I hear you want different things like security compatibility, friendship, etc, etc. Maybe the poll should be adjusted to take that into account?

Hmm are you saying that in your 30's or 40's women don't worry so much about looks?

Sorry, but IME women are MORE concerned about looks when they hit their 40's than ever before.

 

[BallzDeep]

IMO women are more into looks than guys are, they just don't like admitting it.

 

[papasmerf]

Dealing with women has always been tough.
I presume the reverse is also tough. When
half the marriages end in divorce, how could
we presume otherwise.

Wholesale divorce was an invention of lawyers in the 70's

 

[papasmerf]

No, it was the consequence of the women's lib movement.
It used to be you needed cause. Now, 40+ women file
for over 2/3rds of the divorces in Cleveland.

I have personal knowledge of that fact.

Well I bet it is too late to repeal the 19th Amendment

 

[papasmerf]

My fondest wish. It'd be so simple then.

Don ducks for cover.

then for you Don, that will be my first act as President

 

[tboy]

I'm not saying looks aren't important. Sorry perhaps I should've clarified, however in your 20's it seems it's all animal attraction based on looks, as you get older other factors seem to be important as well. Did I get across what it is I'm trying to say? LOL
Boy from the sounds of if, you guys sure have it rough these days! I sympathize.

LOL why do you think so many sp's are busy these days?

Have you ever heard of the marketing formula that states that for every 100 cold calls you end up with about 1 - 2 semi-solid callbacks and maybe 1 sale?

Well, that's what I've found to be the case with women...but it is more on the 1/10th% or 1 in 1000. For eg: one night I was out with some friends, in typical fashion I started trying to chit chat with some ladies to no avail. I said to my buds: I am NOT letting up tonight, I'm not quitting....so, at the end of the night, and after approaching 72 women, in 3 restaurants, and 5 bars....what did I learn from that night? I don't have game so I stopped. Haven't asked a woman out in 5 yrs......

 

[incognito]

LOL why do you think so many sp's are busy these days?

Have you ever heard of the marketing formula that states that for every 100 cold calls you end up with about 1 - 2 semi-solid callbacks and maybe 1 sale?

Well, that's what I've found to be the case with women...but it is more on the 1/10th% or 1 in 1000. For eg: one night I was out with some friends, in typical fashion I started trying to chit chat with some ladies to no avail. I said to my buds: I am NOT letting up tonight, I'm not quitting....so, at the end of the night, and after approaching 72 women, in 3 restaurants, and 5 bars....what did I learn from that night? I don't have game so I stopped. Haven't asked a woman out in 5 yrs......

Thats very interesting. I'm pretty much in the same boat cept i ain't good looking.
How do you "get game" when the rules change for every woman?
I've found by observation that if the guy is good looking, he can even talk about his BM (#2) and she wouldn't get offended.

 

[Keebler Elf]

The women who say "all of the above" are the exact same women who end up on Age of Love in their 40s. Check it out, it's on right now on Global.