Gifts for Working Girls

[raytoronto]

Something I liked to do in TO is ask the booker or the girl to see if they need anything and grab it on the way in. Makes people more comfy and saves them energy to do it later. Have grabbed coconut water, coffees and sometimes toiletries. Wanted to get some more romantic things or something they’d want in general to keep on my car.

Anything any of you do and open to hearing any feedback from working girls here

Communication is important so other than asking them if they want something what would be a pleasant and not overstepping to make them uncomfortable. (Other than the obvious of a tip)

 

[Callmerey]

Something I liked to do in TO is ask the booker or the girl to see if they need anything and grab it on the way in. Makes people more comfy and saves them energy to do it later. Have grabbed coconut water, coffees and sometimes toiletries. Wanted to get some more romantic things or something they’d want in general to keep on my car.

Anything any of you do and open to hearing any feedback from working girls here

Communication is important so other than asking them if they want something what would be a pleasant and not overstepping to make them uncomfortable. (Other than the obvious of a tip)

That’s a very nice gesture. I usually dont communicate rather already get a gift card from Sephora or LCBO or whatever I see on my way. Girls really like it and it kind of makes their day and in return they make yours.

 

[raytoronto]

That’s a very nice gesture. I usually dont communicate rather already get a gift card from Sephora or LCBO or whatever I see on my way. Girls really like it and it kind of makes their day and in return they make yours.

Good shout! Yeah those kind of gift cards are kinda great. Also def places they’d use

 

[Maxfury]

Good shout! Yeah those kind of gift cards are kinda great. Also def places they’d use

I have bought drinks from Tim’s and energy drink for girls on the past. But I like the gift card idea. One tip would be to ask them what they would like as a gift.

 

[raytoronto]

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I have bought drinks from Tim’s and energy drink for girls on the past. But I like the gift card idea. One tip would be to ask them what they would like as a gift.

good shout. Problem is I usually book at the moment these days rather than planning ahead so was looking for gifts to keep in my car or place to grab and go. A stack of gift cards isn’t the worst idea.

 

[Callmerey]

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good shout. Problem is I usually book at the moment these days rather than planning ahead so was looking for gifts to keep in my car or place to grab and go. A stack of gift cards isn’t the worst idea.

Exactly, just buy a bunch and keep it stocked in your car. I think it’s better than tipping them money. Sephora is every girl’s destination followed by LCBO

 

[ButcherX]

Something I liked to do in TO is ask the booker or the girl to see if they need anything and grab it on the way in. Makes people more comfy and saves them energy to do it later. Have grabbed coconut water, coffees and sometimes toiletries. Wanted to get some more romantic things or something they’d want in general to keep on my car.

Anything any of you do and open to hearing any feedback from working girls here

Communication is important so other than asking them if they want something what would be a pleasant and not overstepping to make them uncomfortable. (Other than the obvious of a tip)

Thanks, mate. This is probably an excellent idea to go with. Also, one more thing I've started doing on my side is that whenever I am with any SPs lately, I ask them whether they're comfortable with DFK or not. Even though it's on the menu, it's good to ask, since many SPs with agencies do that but don't like it.

 

[raytoronto]

Thanks, mate. This is probably an excellent idea to go with. Also, one more thing I've started doing on my side is that whenever I am with any SPs lately, I ask them whether they're comfortable with DFK or not. Even though it's on the menu, it's good to ask, since many SPs with agencies do that but don't like it.

Absolutely. It seems like agencies and bookers seem to promise things girls don’t agree on. And it’s not their fault they’re not in the loop.

I struggle a bit with Asian SPs who can’t speak as much but with anyone else I try to start sessions discussing boundaries if not ahead of time in text if they control their own bookings.

I’m pro talking about good habits and good behavior when meeting girls considering these discussions can often devolve into negative behavior.

 

[LilTomislav]

If it's someone I repeat visit and have built a pleasant friendship/connection with, I'll ask if they like wine and I pretty much bring them a bottle of wine every time I visit. It's always been appreciated and they typically open it right away to share a glass. On one particular occasion an SP I frequented had a really shitty day, so when I showed up and gave her a treat bottle she was incredibly grateful for the gesture. It's a simple thing and it's just nice to make their day sometimes.

 

[raytoronto]

You guys are better than I am, thoughtless bastard I am. It's either Tim's/Bagels or treats for the dog. I'm unsure what that says.

Haha reliable gifts is better than something they don’t want. Sometimes it’s a pick me up in the morning.

though I wonder what the girls think here

 

[squeezer]

One really liked my chocolate chip muffins since it showed emotional labour instead of just buying something.

Mind you my wife baked them so I'm unsure sure what that says about me....

Imagine if your wife found out what you've been doing with her muffin! LMAO

 

[Josephine]

Something I liked to do in TO is ask the booker or the girl to see if they need anything and grab it on the way in. Makes people more comfy and saves them energy to do it later. Have grabbed coconut water, coffees and sometimes toiletries. Wanted to get some more romantic things or something they’d want in general to keep on my car.

Anything any of you do and open to hearing any feedback from working girls here

Communication is important so other than asking them if they want something what would be a pleasant and not overstepping to make them uncomfortable. (Other than the obvious of a tip)

The favorite gift I receive were books on my wishlist (very nice when you travel), sephora/grocery/uber/shoppers/ gc. Wine or just my favorite drinks.

If I am home, I really enjoyed plants. I love flowers don't get me wrong but lots of them are toxic for our fur babies.

This is a very kind gesture of you and I love to see the thoughtfull gents in this thread. Kudos.

 

[Josephine]

You guys are better than I am, thoughtless bastard I am. It's either Tim's/Bagels or treats for the dog. I'm unsure what that says.

Its fine. Just you kindly going out of your way is amazing

 

[ButcherX]

The favorite gift I receive were books on my wishlist (very nice when you travel), sephora/grocery/uber/shoppers/pétale gc. Wine or just my favorite drinks.

If I am home, I really enjoyed plants. I love flowers don't get me wrong but lots of them are toxic for our fur babies.

This is a very kind gesture of you and I love to see the thoughtfull gents in this thread. Kudos.

Hey Josephine, have your age requirements changed, or are you still seeing clients above 35? I wish to meet you soon, but I am 29 right now.

 

[Josephine]

Hey Josephine, have your age requirements changed, or are you still seeing clients above 35? I wish to meet you soon, but I am 29 right now.

It did, but I have very strict requirements for people under 35. Kindly visit my Website.

 

[GenesisSilva]

I have enjoyed receiving gift cards (gas, groceries, restaurants I've talked about, etc.), Tim's, wine, and socks (I mention how I like fun colourful ones on my website so they brought me some).

For someone you don't know, it's hard to say what exactly would be a good gift to just leave in the car. Like I wouldn't say no to a Sephora gift card but it's not a place I shop at often so it'd be meh for me but I'm sure someone else would be excited about that.

I would say to stick to a tip if it's someone new and do gifts for when it's a repeat since you can probably make an educated guess from conversation.

 

[raytoronto]

Happy to see open communication from both sides here
Thanks for sharing girls very enlightening

 

[KittyCaterina]

I appreciate the thought behind anything extra including tips, offerings and gifts.

Tips are wonderful
A beverage, fruit and food are wonderful
Gifts are wonderful

I've received small gifts and large gifts, all are equally appreciated.
My longest term local client always brings one of my favorite items of food.
I know that I get to look forward to spending time with him and eating something great afterwards.

I even have one client (GH) that I rarely get to see (maybe once per year) who reminds me he is still thinking of me with gifts from my Amazon Wishlist a few times per year and etransfers for special occasions.
This super thoughtful behaviour keeps him on my mind and I can't wait to see him again to show my appreciation!

I treat every client equally, gifts or not.
I understand not every client can afford gifts or even wants to give gifts and this is their prerogative and right.

BUT, I will say that tips and gifts make me smile and can make my day.

XO

 

[SomeGuy1977]

Isn’t money enough?

 

[ButcherX]

Isn’t money enough?

It's more about making a connection rather than just going for cash and fuck. At least for me.