He said...She said

[RogerRabbit]

Does Size Matter?

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What He Thinks/She Thinks About Love, Sex and Who's To Blame

There are two questions burning on every male mind: "Can I get away with wearing this pair of underwear another day?" and "Does size matter?"

So we asked our own experts to weigh in on the worth of length and width.

He Says:

I think men who worry that they're too small are like women who think they aren't hot just because they're small breasted. It's not your faulty anatomy - it's your self-esteem that's not big enough. Now, do I wish I were hung a little more impressively? Sure, most men probably do. Does that mean I'm reading any of those ridiculous spam messages on how to gain an inch a day? No.

She Says:

It's going to sound like a cliché, but that's because it's true. It really isn't the size of the magician; it's what he can do with the wand. Most women would take a guy with a few, uh, short comings over one who's painfully well endowed. Size doesn't matter nearly as much as the stuff that men can control - like creating the necessary friction in the right places. You don't need big guns to get a girl off.

 

[Fay]

I'm the one up there pleading the 5th.

Because, yeah, I guess it matters in terms of what kind of sensation you're gonna get with intercourse, obviously. But, as alluded to above, I don't hold with the whole "the bigger, the better" rule either. Generally, I like to cut it off at 7 inches roughly (oh, wait! No-no-no, that came out wrong! You know what I mean), because more than that can sometimes be uncomfortable, changes the freedom and range of motion.

I'd say perhaps shape, rather than length, is more important. And I'm sure every individual has their preferences Three inches that culminate in a head the size of a tangerine? Eight inches that taper-off with almost no head at all? Curved shaft?

Besides, manual dexterity in a man goes a looooong way, as does oral talent. If it's really so small, then make like a lesbian, honey, and find another way to my "O". And for giving oral to a subtly-endowed man, well, he's hardly an inconvenience in that respect, is he?

Do I have a size-range preference? Sure, but I also believe (those who might know better can correct me) that women also have different internal "sizes" and comfort thresholds. I have a friend who has always, always been rather...er...capacious and yeilding inside, even as a young teen, and therefore prefered significantly hung men. Knowing what my limitations are compared to hers, I can only assume that there are many who are much more comfortable in what's considered the smaller range.

Ahem *struggling to make a coherent point here*, I think it matters, but it's more complicated than long vs. short, and I gather there's no standard preference.

 

[incognito]

Of course size matters...size of the wallet.

 

[papasmerf]

Face it boys when you gots to tie a board to your ass an require a saftey line. Hell that is way too losse.

 

[Fay]

Of course size matters...size of the wallet.

Naw, that's just a myth that men with small penises share amongst each other to console themsleves.

(hey, did I just go against the spirit of my previous post?)

 

[homonger]

I wonder, is penis size analogous to breast size in women? Some people love the big ones, the bigger the better. Some people say the size is unimportant. Others like me would say size doesn't matter, as long as it is above some minimum acceptable standard.

 

[Fay]

I wonder, is penis size analogous to breast size in women?

I dunno, I don't think they compare well because one is more aesthetic in purpose (I mean as far as the guy is concerned) and the other is more like an actual tool. Sorry to objectify, there, but it's true. Boobs are, at most, going to be involved in actual love-making by being groped (or us groping them for your visual pleasure) and licked and rubbed against. Unless a guy is hoping to climax by t*tty-f*cking them, they don't really normally impact directly on either party's orgasm. Breast size won't significantly impact on howthe pair proceeds with sex.

With a penis, on the other hand, size can potentially dictate which particular manoevers they'll engage in, how deep one can thrust (if he can even penetrate at all....yes, there are those who can't), which position is most advantageous, how deep he can be taken orally...I mean, there are a whole lotta variations in logistics and practice which may depend on size. But it's not to say that the universal standard is "the bigger the better".

 

[thecoolguyms72]

Look at the poll results.....or is that pole results?

 

[drlove]

...you can get away with a thin wallet if it has a platinum AMEX and a couple of gold cards.

Sounds like mine!

 

[RogerRabbit]

Of course size matters...size of the wallet

This is a classic, I have already used this line 3 x today...

Thank you!

Fay you have made some great points/ comments as well as homonger and all of the other contributions.

 

[homonger]

I dunno, I don't think they compare well because one is more aesthetic in purpose (I mean as far as the guy is concerned) and the other is more like an actual tool. Sorry to objectify, there, but it's true. Boobs are, at most, going to be involved in actual love-making by being groped (or us groping them for your visual pleasure) and licked and rubbed against. Unless a guy is hoping to climax by t*tty-f*cking them, they don't really normally impact directly on either party's orgasm. Breast size won't significantly impact on howthe pair proceeds with sex.

I pretty much agree. I like big titties as much as the next guy, but as you say, much more for the visual and aesthetic appeal than for any real practical purpose during sex. Okay, with one small exception... if I am jerking off onto a gal's tits, I find the visual appeal of a bigger pair makes the experience much better. That said, I don't reject a woman if she has small breasts. Again, I think the operative rule is, they (or it) have/has to be big enough to be worthwhile, and after that, anything bigger is a bonus.