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If there is anybody out there sp or hobbiest who has encountered this situation I would appreciate their advice.

I was with an sp recently whose name I will not mention, and in the heat of the moment she slid herself onto me bb. I did not initiate or ask for this and I also didn't stop it once it had begun. This wasn't the first time I had seen the sp in question an she assured me it wasn't something that she usually did.

My question is does this kind of thing happen with any kind of regularity in this hobby and I just haven't experienced it before, or was this something very unique?

I should also mention that she asked me not to finish inside and also suggested that in the future we could partake in a similar manner if I liked.

Thanks in advance.

Cue

 

[Drunken Master]

Yikes.

I hope to fudge this isn't something that happens regularly in the hobby.

BBing is not considered responsible behaviour for either the SP or the hobbyist, IMO.

 

[DareU2]

speeding, bad stock buys, drinking too much, bbsex, they're all bad for your health with possible deadly side effects and yet we're all guilty of atleast one of them....
HOWEVER it should never have happened without your permission and I think THAT is the worst thing to happen here. IMHO

 

[pool]

I thought for a second it read "slid herself into me" ...

 

[Spode]

go to the clinic and get yourself checked out. You may have the heebee geebees

 

[canucklehead]

Just try and have no regrets and wear a jacket

 

[fullmetal]

wait 2 weeks and get tested for HIV .

 

[Asterix]

go to the clinic and get yourself checked out. You may have the heebee geebees

Oh. great. Now there's another STD I haven't heard of before.

 

[Quest4Less]

Bbfs

Yes, this does happen... more often than anyone likes to admit or perhaps believe. I have had 5 (yes FIVE) different well known and reviewed s.p.'s offer this at some point... one in fact did "mount up" before I could stop her. NO, I will not mention names (not even in pm's so don't ask).

So - be carefull.... you never know. If she is doing it with you, she is almost certainly doing it with others.

 

[Hard Idle]

How well-adjusted did she seem?

Can you at least give some info on the SP's price range, if she was Indy or Agency, In or Out and if In, the general wherabouts and condition of her operation. This is not to help identify the SP herself, but rather to give members some idea as to which profile of SP this was.

It's reasonable to conclude this lady was just looking to solidify your regular business by offering before you asked, deeming you a low risk based on her very unscientific opion. But you never know for sure if you haven't run into some nutbar who's had a hard life and is now on some "they all desrve to suffer" trip.

 

[lasslicker]

wait 2 weeks and get tested for HIV .

Make that 3 months.

www.hasslefreeclinic.org/

 

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She was indy, I would say upscale, $300 range, and seemed quite "normal".

My first reaction was to be kind of flattered, however now I'm kind of freaking out.

 

[Jack Mioff]

Other questions that need to be asked, you know, for clarification:

Do you look like a ditch troll? Or are you reasonably handsome?

Are you hung like a horse? Or a mouse?

Was she/you on any mind enhancing substances?

In other words, what was it that attracted her to you and made her let her guard down? Now that you've put us in this quandry, we need answers.

(The quandry: obviously BB anything feels much better than covered. We all want it, but the price to pay for it can be too high. Alas, it can make your dinky fall off.) But we still like to fantasize and talk about it.

Cheers,
Jack

 

[ham2004]

Unfarking acceptable..

Sorry to rain on the parade, but if this is a true story and not one made up for the TERB board please do the following:

1. Out the SP in question, names and dates would help, if she does one without protection, how many others has she ( or will she ) do before something terrible happens. The SP should also out Cue, it may not be his first time either.

2. Get thy self to a clinic and worry.

3. If the SP is reading this, you may want to get to the clinic too. How many partners has Cue had unprotected sex with.

4. I read that you should have no regrets, bulls**t, you should be worried, and so should we, high class my aunt petunia's ass, this kind of thing is what kills.

 

[Morgan Ellis]

If a client 'lost' that sort of control and slid into an SP bareback, it could be considered as assault. I see no reason why SPs should be held to lesser standards.

Since we can assume we're all, both clients and providers alike, grown mature adults, the excuse that 'I couldn't help myself in the heat of the moment' just doesn't cut it.

We both share responsibility for making sure that Mr. Winkie wears a raincoat before he goes to his happy place. Clients need to insist, both before and during, if they're in any doubt, and SPs need to do the same - and to get strenuous about this if clients complain.

Hormone induced stupidity doesn't excuse something with so many potential dangers. It does work, however, on picking people up while drunk that you think look like supermodels, only to wake up sober and discover that they actually look like Goober.

Morgan

 

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Please be assured that this is not typical behavior on my part.

I have been to a doctor since then and while I left out the circumstances under which this occurred, I did have myself thoroughly checked.

That being said I was advised by my doctor that I should revisit every 3 months or so for a year as some situaions take longer to develop.

As far as outing anyone, I do understand the concern and believe me there is nobody here more concerned than myself, however I am a believer in giving people the benefit of the doubt. If there are no others that have had a similar experience with this person, I am prepared to accept them at their word that she hasn't done this before.

Thanks

 

[Hard Idle]

It's easy to say the man should pull away and insist on covered. But if one was thinking that rationally, he probably wouldn't take any risk - even hand contact - and would think better of spending the money.

It depends what category of John one falls into. If you're just a sexaholic who hobbies as to supplement an active sex-life, you might be able to call one off now and then. But if your SP vists are your sex life, and you don't have a bottomless budget, then resistance is much easier said then done in the heat of the moment.

I doubt the SP lost control here even if she liked the guy. Really, how many SP don't get their fill of sex and then some. She either sought hook him and monopolize his business, or somehow concluded he couldn't have been laid enough to pose much of a risk.

 

[y2kmark]

wait 2 weeks and get tested for HIV .

Is two weeks enough? Where I get tested they say 3 months - so get tested in 2 weeks, then go back in 3 months. Be more careful who you see in the future, and get tested every 6 months as long as you keep hobbying.

 

[burt-oh-my!]

This situation has happened to me too.

But I must say that I consider a body slide, or even BBBJTC in many ways more dangerous than BBFS. Especially if the BS is really grinding, just outside of the vagina entrance, where there is stubble scraping your skin, grinding whatever liquids there are around, and into you. Any external lesions etc would in my view be MORE likely to infect you with a BS than BBFS. Especially if you were coated with oil ahead of the BBFS, and took a good piss immediately after. I am particularly fearful of BBBJTC, after a nasty scare once.

My two cents worth.