Hey Mlam, I think you misunderstood. I don't in any way shape or form insinuate that they don't love their child any less when they aren't "normal". I can totally understand why they feel that way also.
What I can't understand is from a practical POV, knowing full well that you stand more than a pretty good chance that your child will live a life of hardship and sufferring, why go ahead with it anyways? In my mind it seems rather selfish in a way. As for the stats, during the program it was discussed that the odds that the child would end up with this problem was (if memory serves) something like 90%.
I mean, I'm not a parent so I can't understand the "draw" to procreate, but knowing full well that if I had one, and the odds were stacked against him or her living a "normal" life, I would do the right thing and make a home for a needy child via adoption.
But then again, I'm biased. I firmly believe that the world has enough people already and more than enough kids that need a decent upbringing. I don't a) see there is a undeniable "need" to reproduce and b) because we are supposed to be such advanced creatures we should know better than to add another burder to the planet. I mean really, we're the only species that even if our environment can't support anymore of us, we keep reproducing anyways.
I mean, I was watching 60 minutes this past sunday and they were discussing this new product to help with child malnutrition in ethiopian. The product was pumpy nut and was a concoction of peanut butter, milk, sugar and all the vitamins and nutrients a kid needs. In fact, if a child is brought in hear death, in a week they're back on their feet and within 3 weeks they're back to "normal" weight and mobility/size etc. At $1.00 per day it's cheap.
During the segment however some disturbing stats were mentioned. 1) Children are typically married at 11 2) They have their first baby at 15 and (most disturbing) 3) The average woman will give birth 8 times during her lifespan. EIGHT fucking times. Jesus. No wonder they have a food shortage and starvation. I mean hell, we have an abundance of food here and I don't know of, or heard of anyone in Canada having 8 fricken kids. Maybe BIRTH control should be distributed instead of pumpy nut.