I am retiring.

[IwantagoodMP]

Well I am bidding you all goodbye.

I have decided to leave this life choice. I have been visiting MAs' for like 10 years and have decided that it is no longer for me.

I have met some interesting ladies that have positively impacted my life and one that has impacted more and I do not feel I can continue in this because I will be comparing every other lady to this one special lady for starters and it will not be fair. Plus I really do not have any interest in seeing any other MAs' other then her.

I have never seen any SPs'. Well one but I have always only been a massage type of guy and never more.

Massage has always been my hobby of choice and has never deviated.

Last year I got into some unprescribed medication ;-) and made me snap at a few people here and I apologize for that behavior.

But anyways I am retiring from this hobby and am refocussing my life on other areas.

I am not saying this is a bad hobby by any means I am simply no longer going to be participating in it.

This has a bonus of having more money to spend on my other hobbies (Computers and Camping LOL).

Anyways it was nice being in this site and I hope everyone has a great life.

Take care.

 

[mav256]

I've been fading from this scene too and will probably be gone in a few weeks or months, so I know how you feel.

Good luck man!

 

[JoyfulC]

Yep, that's legit. Having been more than 30 years in this business, I've come to the conclusion that, for most men, it's just a phase lasting only a few years. Of course, I've known guys who've stayed in for decades, but mostly with the same provider, so that's a bit different.

It's a chapter in your lives. It's part of what makes you who you are. Sort of like adding spice to stew. Enjoy and peace be with you! And thank you for sharing some of your biography with us.

..JoyfulC..

 

[Zortok]

A leopard can't change its spots....

 

[axiomatic]

A leopard can't change its spots....

Take note, leopards.

Humans are another story.

 

[Tip-Drill]

"Having been more than 30 years in this business, I've come to the conclusion that, for most men, it's just a phase lasting only a few years. Of course, I've known guys who've stayed in for decades, but mostly with the same provider, so that's a bit different.

It's a chapter in your lives .....?

..JoyfulC..

These are the most profound comments I have read in a long while and they have more than 30 years of direct personal experience to back them up. These comments mirror my own experiences exactly. I have been steadily losing interest after only three years, due to three principal reasons I suppose: (1) some rather unfortunate and demoralizing experiences, (2) the high financial cost (especially when gifts and loans are factored in), and (3) the fact that it is essentially impossible to establish a connection at a deeper personal level, which is ultimately what most human beings are seeking. It is a world of illusion and fantasy which exists for a few fleeting moments only, although I'm not saying that is a bad thing. It's just another very interesting "chapter in your lives" that we can all learn from ....

 

[trichome]

the fact that it is essentially impossible to establish a connection at a deeper personal level, which is ultimately what most human beings are seeking. It is a world of illusion and fantasy, although I'm not saying that is a bad thing. It's just another very interesting "chapter in your lives" that we can all learn from ....

Very good comments in this thread. I started MP hobbying late last year. It rapidly escalated from once every two weeks to about three times a week. I have not been to a MP in a few weeks now and do not feel any particular desire to return. I'm not saying that it's over for me but it just doesn't suit my current needs. Going to MPs is fun but as Tip-Drill says, it is a world of illusion and fantasy. I thought that I was looking for a bit of sexual fun but in the final analysis what I really was seeking did have more to do with finding deeper human contact.
I did actually make friends with a couple of ladies that I have the world of respect for (you both know who you are). For that I am richer and the whole experience has been both interesting and educational. Some of the experiences I had while hobbying however, were a lot less gratifying in retrospect than they seemed at the time. Other experiences were downright awful. Still, we all need to scratch that itch sometimes.
No regrets here. I learned a lot about myself and human nature in general.

 

[qwerty]

Although I still do TERB here almost daily I also find myself fading from this activity after about three years of it. The cost is definitely a factor but it's basically a lack of good choices here in Ottawa. We do a very small number of girls who have great appeal in one or two ways but I find myself wanting to find the perfect package and it's more to do with making a connection than anything else. Oh how I miss Astrid... Smart, mature, sexy, classy, down to earth and genuine.

 

[Meesh]

A leopard can't change its spots....

Take note, leopards.

Humans are another story.

A human can change a leopard's spots?

 

[Svend]

Spots stops posts?

 

[axiomatic]

A human can change a leopard's spots?

I'm going to go with "yes":
http://www.clairaudient.org/blog/albagreen.jpg
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alba_(rabbit)

 

[OnTheWayOut]

was just thinking about this

As you all know I've cutback severely the last few months and tonight I was thinking about it all driving home. I was gonna see one of my regs tonite but she had plans so I started thinking about who I could call. Wound up going home instead ...... seems that after my wild times this spring I am quite happy keeping with my 2 fav regs...... I could not work up the desire to see a substitute. wow, that's just fuckin wierd!

Yeah, all those new asian MPs were tempting ..... almost called Petite Amy but decided if I couldn't see a fav I wasn't up to driving to see anyone. Joyful C's comments are pretty much on the money ...... the exception here is that I've been hobbying for a couple decades and it's just recently that I have found favs that I really prefer to stick with.

Some of this has to do with the fact I've moved a lot over the last few decades so no long term things were possible. Also I was usually in a "normal" relationship in the past with healthy sex life. Currently I have the relationship minus the sex ...... so perhaps that's why I go with regs now.

Actually thinking about these things is giving me a headache ...... think I'll go do my penis excersises to be ready for my favs!!!!

 

[selection]

good luck

Yep it comes and it goes

 

[too2shy]

thing about retiring from this is. you always feel tempted. not often.. maybe once a month or so ya wish you could. but the feeling passes. i just think of all this horrible experiences i've had with a number of sp's and then i'm glad i still don't partake. though. i sometimes do wish i could with the like's of Nicole. but last i read she'd retired. That's best for the both of us. =0)

 

[mav256]

Also I was usually in a "normal" relationship in the past with healthy sex life. Currently I have the relationship minus the sex ...... so perhaps that's why I go with regs now.

This is pretty much the situation I was in. I read all that crap about men who see sex workers as guys you like to dominate women. The fact of the matter is I was horny and my full-time relationship wasn't helping me. Now I've got a healthy sexual relationship so I don't feel the need to go outside it (and quite franky, my gf gives 10 times the PSE I ever got from any SP).

I also agree with the previous comment about "bad experiences". So many of the girls are misleading, cheating, stealing witches (which I guess shouldn't surprise me) but it's really turned me off from looking around.

 

[Blackjack]

I think I SHOULD quit too, but it's not easy. I started when my wife was ill. I was looking for a little stress relief and, to be honest, it was exciting at first. However, I lost interest in her - it's hard to be interested in an overweight 40-year-old when you just had an experience with a hot 23-year-old. Now that she's feeling better, she's angry (rightly so) that I'm not really interested in her. I am trying to rekindle interest in her but the oustide temptations are there. I know I should quit but it ain't easy. Thanks for listening.

 

[JoyfulC]

Kudos to you, BlackJack, for trying to work things out at home and build rewarding relations there. That's your best bet. It's EVERYBODY's best bet.

Not everyone has a partner who is still interested, and so you are lucky. No, she's not 23 -- but that has its advantages! You're not 23 anymore either, for that matter.

Be what you are now. Enjoy what she is now. You have a long journey together and I hope you make the best of it. Good luck!

..c..