I don’t flirt during initial booking? Am I alone?

[Jenesis]

I had a man tell me I should flirt more when a client is trying to book. That I lost his booking because I didn't. I said no problem, I don't need to flirt to gain appointments. To which he said others do blah blah blah. I blocked.

but I'm curious... is this true? I just want to get to the point of the booking. Either my ad, site and reviews are enough or they are not. I'm not here to waste time flirting with every guy, wasting time etc.

Plus how fake is that? I don't know them. So I'm suppose beg for the thier cock?

Is this normal and I'm not following suit? I'm not going to change my ways. I am so low volume with a high regular list that I don't need to play flirt games to gain new clients. A lot of times, I'm not even accepting new clients. But I am curious.

How do most book? Straight to the point or flirt for the call?

 

[Shaquille Oatmeal]

No, it is not common.
I hate that phony shit and also sexting where I now have to come up with fun stuff lmao.
Just book me within the first 2 emails and if there is something specific we can discuss via email, but the rest is during the date.

 

[massman]

I had a man tell me I should flirt more when a client is trying to book. That I lost his booking because I didn't. I said no problem, I don't need to flirt to gain appointments. To which he said others do blah blah blah. I blocked.

but I'm curious... is this true? I just want to get to the point of the booking. Either my ad, site and reviews are enough or they are not. I'm not here to waste time flirting with every guy, wasting time etc.

Plus how fake is that? I don't know them. So I'm suppose beg for the thier cock?

Is this normal and I'm not following suit? I'm not going to change my ways. I am so low volume with a high regular list that I don't need to play flirt games to gain new clients. A lot of times, I'm not even accepting new clients. But I am curious.

How do most book? Straight to the point or flirt for the call?

I don’t need flirting during the booking process. It’s fake (especially if you are meeting for the first time) and I think efficient, clear communication is much more important. It’s fine if the business part is business like, that leaves more fun for the fun part.

 

[LTO_3]

The amount and degree of flirting varies depending on the person and situation. Sometimes it happens. other times it doesn't. If it's "always scripted" then it's always fake = useless.
Just do what you do and don't worry about guys like that, especially if he drones on about what "so & so" does.

LTO_3

 

[The Options Menu]

I tend to be pretty straightforward when I book. First name, basic details, other relevant info, and suggested dates and times. I also try to be a little circumspect in any first time communication. So maybe my booking style doesn't promote a lot of flirty banter, but most SPs I've booked with tend to mirror my style.

If there is any flirty banter, or heart emojis, it's usually after I've sent a thank you text. That feels a little more authentic (as long as it isn't over the top). At least then we've physically spent some time together, and hopefully we've both had an alright time of it.

So I'm with @LTO_3, you do you you. Personally I prefer a nice level headed booking, but some guys might like a little buttering up.

 

[harryass]

from my experience going all the way back when you actually spoke to the SP via the payphone when you didn't want to use your landline, flirting when making an initial booking was not common at all. IMO, It remains true today. Good to hear you got rid of the BS time waster.

 

[SchlongConery]

Hate that phony 'hun', 'babe' pseudo flirting nonsense. Turns me off. Reminds me of some gum chewing Jarvis streetwalker type leaning into a John's car. Kind of makes me ashamed to be hobbying when I hear it.

 

[SchlongConery]

I had a man tell me I should flirt more when a client is trying to book. That I lost his booking because I didn't. I said no problem, I don't need to flirt to gain appointments. To which he said others do blah blah blah. I blocked.

but I'm curious... is this true? I just want to get to the point of the booking. Either my ad, site and reviews are enough or they are not. I'm not here to waste time flirting with every guy, wasting time etc.

Plus how fake is that? I don't know them. So I'm suppose beg for the thier cock?

Is this normal and I'm not following suit? I'm not going to change my ways. I am so low volume with a high regular list that I don't need to play flirt games to gain new clients. A lot of times, I'm not even accepting new clients. But I am curious.

How do most book? Straight to the point or flirt for the call?

I've always respected people who conduct themselves with authenticity, warts and all. Be yourself and people who like you, will like you. If you pretend to be someone you'r not, then the people who like that, don't like you... and you may likely not like them. And those that don't like the phony act, will be turned off by it.

 

[boomboom]

from my experience going all the way back when you actually spoke to the SP via the payphone when you didn't want to use your landline, flirting when making an initial booking was not common at all. IMO, It remains true today. Good to hear you got rid of the BS time waster.

agree
we can flirt later during the session or the day of a bit to stir up anticipation for the visitor

 

[ogibowt]

flirting while booking is more than likely a waste of time....but having said that, years ago when Terb had a Chat room, there was serious flirting going on....whether it was in private or part of the group cht..it was a blast and i booked a couple of girls who flirted with me in the Private Chat.... and i was never ever disappointed when i spent time with them...

 

[kherg007]

Depends how you define flirt.
If it means like in a bar....no, not necessary. If it means something more mild like simply making the potential client feel like you're happy or excited that he would book - then yes.

 

[thumper18474]

I kinda like the odd sexy banter before and after...
Guess I'm weird..(shrugs )

 

[boomboom]

flirting while booking is more than likely a waste of time....but having said that, years ago when Terb had a Chat room, there was serious flirting going on....whether it was in private or part of the group cht..it was a blast and i booked a couple of girls who flirted with me in the Private Chat.... and i was never ever disappointed when i spent time with them...

Miss that chat room banter & flirting 🫦 there was huge

 

[seanzo]

Depends who I'm booking with. If it's a regular and we're well acquainted, then yes I'll be flirty. If it's somebody I don't know well or know they don't put up with that, then I'm all business

 

[ImNotABot]

I might fish for chemistry but I'm not expecting for reciprocation.

The fantasy is a lot more fun if it's believable, so either there is something real but we both know to keep it as a business transaction, or she's managed to fool me.

The above has happened only twice, so VERY rare.

 

[superman12]

I had a man tell me I should flirt more when a client is trying to book. That I lost his booking because I didn't. I said no problem, I don't need to flirt to gain appointments. To which he said others do blah blah blah. I blocked.

but I'm curious... is this true? I just want to get to the point of the booking. Either my ad, site and reviews are enough or they are not. I'm not here to waste time flirting with every guy, wasting time etc.

Plus how fake is that? I don't know them. So I'm suppose beg for the thier cock?

Is this normal and I'm not following suit? I'm not going to change my ways. I am so low volume with a high regular list that I don't need to play flirt games to gain new clients. A lot of times, I'm not even accepting new clients. But I am curious.

How do most book? Straight to the point or flirt for the call?

Being flirty doesn't hurt but it's definetly not a necessity for low volume providers. If you already have a solid base of regular clients you dont need to put in that extra work to be flirty with every guy that might message you. Being flirty would help a lot of the new girls in the business to attract clients and more importantly keep them coming back. Speaking from experience if I am contacting 2-3 different sp's I have never seen before I am going to book with the one that seems more friendly and flirty over text compared to the one who is more business like and gives one word answers to texts.

 

[Valcazar]

I had a man tell me I should flirt more when a client is trying to book. That I lost his booking because I didn't. I said no problem, I don't need to flirt to gain appointments. To which he said others do blah blah blah. I blocked.

but I'm curious... is this true? I just want to get to the point of the booking. Either my ad, site and reviews are enough or they are not. I'm not here to waste time flirting with every guy, wasting time etc.

Plus how fake is that? I don't know them. So I'm suppose beg for the thier cock?

Is this normal and I'm not following suit? I'm not going to change my ways. I am so low volume with a high regular list that I don't need to play flirt games to gain new clients. A lot of times, I'm not even accepting new clients. But I am curious.

How do most book? Straight to the point or flirt for the call?

I don't think I've had anyone flirt during the booking process.
People have been nice. I guess maybe some a little flirty, but not at any kind of high intensity.

 

[LC18]

I’m the total opposite, I am pretty direct and cold. A) I’ve noticed that when you’re too warm, men text, probably jerk off and don’t book.
B) I don’t have time to flirt with everyone, I’m busy with my personal life or seeing other men that have paid

It has happened that the conversation naturally brought us to flirt but I quickly end with “see you soon” to, refer to point A), avoid having men messaging me just to jerk off for free.

 

[squeezer]

When it comes to booking an escort for a first meeting, being professional is the best way to go for both parties. That can and should change in my opinion on the second booking because that will help the lady's retention rate. After all, most men are sappy and fall for it. LOL

When I used to go to an MP and the ladies were brought out for a greeting, I would always choose the most flirty lady even if she wasn't the hottest because I knew she would be the best time, and 9 times out of 10 I was bang on.