I finally figured it out!

[4leafclover]

I posted a few weeks ago that I could no longer get it up with my beautiful girl friend. It was not me. It was the situation. I saw her all the time. She would stay at my house 6 out of 7 nights. She would hug me, I would hug her, watch tv, go to bed. After a year, it became same old, same old. We went to a night club the other night to get out. The guys started to hit on her like flies on shit. She danced with a few of them and got them all worked up. I stood back and watched. It got me excited. I danced with a few girls myself and it felt good. She didn't like it. We went home and fucked our brains out, over and over.
We fell into a normal husband and wife situation, where we are best friends, do everything together, but the lust and passion goes away.
We made an agreement. She stays at my house only 2 times per week, and we can go out on our own these other nights. Sounds good to me!

 

[calloway]

We went home and fucked our brains out, over and over.

Sounds like you had a tough week.

You're obviously battling the classic problem of being scared to commit to one person. I'm curious whether your girlfriend feels the same way you do?

 

[wrong hole]

Are you allowed to see dancers, MPA's and SP's

was that part of the agreement?

 

[booboobear]

We made an agreement. She stays at my house only 2 times per week, and we can go out on our own these other nights. Sounds good to me!

Does that mean she can come to my place for 2 nights ?

 

[Bud Plug]

4Leaf,

You're absolutely right. You need to be prepared to do some pretty socially unacceptable things to maintain a long term sexual relationship.

Congratulations for figuring this out before you got married!

 

[drlove]

...I could no longer get it up... It was the situation. I saw her all the time...it became same old, same old... the lust and passion goes away...

The same can happen with an escort as well.

 

[keenez]

Perhaps one of the side-effects of our hobby. If we know we can just select another girl when we get "sick" of one, the passion is harder to come by.