Interacial Dating

[Rod]

I noticed an earlier post about interacial porn, which made me think of a question that has been bugging me for the longest time. Below are some observations that will lead me to my question.

• I have a number of male friends that are black, and they are all with white women.
  
• Most mixed couples that I see in public are black men and white women.
  
• Now take the black men out of the equation that statistically are in jail or dead due violent acts.
  
• There is a higher percentage of women on the planet than men.

What you should be left with is a very large number of black women that are unattached....... So why is it so hard to find one to hook up with?

 

[a 1 player]

I dated a black woman for two years. I did not realize that they were hard to find.

 

[Mongrel4u]

What have you done to try to hook up with one (a black girl)

 

[a 1 player]

*Now take the black men out of the equation that statistically are in jail or dead due violent acts.

which is like about 1/10 of 1 percent or so?

 

[Plan B]

I've been told that Black women are very loyal to their race, and thus very few will date a white guy.Its a shame, if they gave other guys(white) a chance, perhaps black women could be happier, and we would see less of the "angry black women" phenomenon that is so widespread.

 

[Back Burner]

I think it's all in your perception. When you see a black couple you don't take note but when you see an interracial couple it sticks to your brain.

However there are many black guys who strictly date white women. I could tell you reason but I don't want to blow up the thread to a 5 pager.

 

[LoneGunman]

Hmmmm... I am a white male and almost exclusively date black women in Toronto and have had several black girl friends over the years. Not sure where you are looking or what you are doing that is hindering your attempts to date a fine educated black woman. I have never had a problem finding many who are willing to date a white male in the city.

I also see no shortage around the city of mixed couples where the man is white and the woman black - where are you looking? In fact I dare say that Toronto is one of the most progressive cities in the world when it comes to its multi-cultural nature and the joining of cultures.

"Now take the black men out of the equation that statistically are in jail or dead due violent acts." - - - - - Because statistically that is such a large number that it would make a difference - geez - (LG sarcastically rolls his eyes) - - - - - - Um, riiiiight

LG

 

[Gyaos]

I noticed an earlier post about interacial porn, which made me think of a question that has been bugging me for the longest time. Below are some observations that will lead me to my question.

• I have a number of male friends that are black, and they are all with white women.
  
• Most mixed couples that I see in public are black men and white women.
  
• Now take the black men out of the equation that statistically are in jail or dead due violent acts.
  
• There is a higher percentage of women on the planet than men.

What you should be left with is a very large number of black women that are unattached....... So why is it so hard to find one to hook up with?

Why is "black" and "white" considered interracial? I'm Caucasian and I have sex with loads and loads of Asian women. One, in particular, I'm fond of and I'm just getting her to start moving my way, but in such secrecy, it's astounding and such a lengthy ride.

Gyaos Baltar.

 

[genintoronto]

I've been told that Black women are very loyal to their race, and thus very few will date a white guy.Its a shame, if they gave other guys(white) a chance, perhaps black women could be happier, and we would see less of the "angry black women" phenomenon that is so widespread.

Yes, because white guys have been known throughout history to make the lives of black women easier and happier.

 

[Noir]

(I am not speaking as a representative of all black ladies in the city....)

I've been told that Black women are very loyal to their race, and thus very few will date a white guy.Its a shame, if they gave other guys(white) a chance, perhaps black women could be happier, and we would see less of the "angry black women" phenomenon that is so widespread.

Hmmm....lol....That phenomenon isn't quite true as true as most people would like to think. (I for one, am a fan of the Europeans and the Asians in my personal life) but I think that is more of a factor as to where I grew up and what I was exposed to. I would have to say that it really depends on where you are looking ^_^.

@ROD - I am pretty sure that if you are seeking the company of any classy, educated black woman - you shouldn't find any problems. It's all about looking in all the right places.

 

[Plan B]

Yes, because white guys have been known throughout history to make the lives of black women easier and happier.

I certainly wasn't being sarcastic. Black men have taken ownership of their dating preferences and shown black women the door. How else do you account for the vast number of BM/WF relationships out there. If black women were to expand their dating horizons a ittle bit, and quit waiting for "Lamont" and "Tyrone" to call them, I think we would see less anger from black women, and conversely they would make themselves more appealing at the same time.

 

[a 1 player]

I certainly wasn't being sarcastic. Black men have taken ownership of their dating preferences and shown black women the door. How else do you account for the vast number of BM/WF relationships out there. If black women were to expand their dating horizons a ittle bit, and quit waiting for "Lamont" and "Tyrone" to call them, I think we would see less anger from black women, and conversely they would make themselves more appealing at the same time.

Or perhaps it is just that more black men are open to the idea of an interracial relationship than many caucasian men. Just a guess.

 

[Plan B]

Or perhaps it is just that more black men are open to the idea of an interracial relationship than many caucasian men. Just a guess.

I think Caucasian men are very open to interracial relationships(ex:Asian women), but Black women simply won't give white men a chance, in the same way that white women won't give asian men a chance. (for the most part)

 

[69suds]

Go to Alaska. I hear there are 5 women for every 1 man.

 

[dreamblade]

(I for one, am a fan of the Europeans and the Asians in my personal life)

And we're very happy for this little fact, darlin.

 

[rosemount36]

I noticed an earlier post about interacial porn, which made me think of a question that has been bugging me for the longest time. Below are some observations that will lead me to my question.


Most mixed couples that I see in public are black men and white women.

Hmmmm.......the vast majority of interracial couples that I see are caucasian men and asian women....maybe it's where I live, but seldom do I see black men and white women......

 

[Don]

I think Caucasian men are very open to interracial relationships(ex:Asian women), but Black women simply won't give white men a chance, in the same way that white women won't give asian men a chance. (for the most part)

I am open to any women that turns me on.

 

[The Options Menu]

I think Caucasian men are very open to interracial relationships(ex:Asian women), but Black women simply won't give white men a chance, in the same way that white women won't give asian men a chance. (for the most part)

Hmph, I've had two 'black' girlfriends that hit nearly the year mark, and a couple of other flings. Women are women. The only thing that makes it harder to meet people of different cultures are our differing cultural norms and institutions... You don't meet many non-white-folk if all you do is hang out at traditional-white-meccas. If you're hanging out in the mixing bowl of meta-Canadian (or Torontonian) culture you really shouldn't have that much trouble.

Women are women. Even when you strip away commonalities of religion, and music, and festivals you can still pretty much count on the fact that they want to feel loved, respected, and protected (Except for when they don't ). Build on the commonalities that you do have.

This is a big generalization, but:

One thing I have noticed, is that the 'white' notion of 'protected' seems to exist only in the financial sense. Modern white guys are very much encouraged to be touchy feely, passive, compromisers. I've found that this doesn't necessarily play that well black girls ('respect'), or Latin American girls ('machismo') [Not that I have much real experience with Latin girls]. The fact that we're often comparatively reliable and often treat them better is often a plus for white guys, but 'whiny', 'needy', and 'indecisive' is often disconcerting from a 'protected' point of view. Oddly enough this may play in white guys favour with Asian girls.

Now, with that horrible mass of generalizations out of the way, many white girls are basically the same...

At the end of the day, women are women.

edit: 'whiny', 'needy', and 'indecisive' don't play well with any woman after a certain point, the trick is finding that point.

edit 2: If the 'cultural norms' don't get you, then the rejection of those norms will. I think the best example of this is probably 'Recovering Catholic Quebecois'.

edit 3: With the above being said, being in Toronto, in Ontario, in Canada is often enough common ground to form a relationship for any two people who leave their respective communities at all.

 

[youngent]

I am pretty sure that if you are seeking the company of any classy, educated black woman - you shouldn't find any problems. It's all about looking in all the right places.

I'd love to be enlightened as to where exactly those places are. I'm also into the darker complexion, ebony girls. But just about wherever I go its mostly caucasian girls.

Noir, anyone, care to enlighten into places, hangouts, clubs..etc where such 'ladies' might be ?

 

[The Options Menu]

I'd love to be enlightened as to where exactly those places are. I'm also into the darker complexion, ebony girls. But just about wherever I go its mostly caucasian girls.

Noir, anyone, care to enlighten into places, hangouts, clubs..etc where such 'ladies' might be ?

The summer festival season just passed-- Nuit Blanche, cool things going on at the harbour, cool things at city hall, cool things at Dundas square, all of those street festivals.

What the heck are you doing, hanging out at Country and Western concerts?

edit: English pubs?

edit: Klan meetings?

edit: Orange Lodge?