Is Honesty Always the Best Policy?

[midknight_luver]

Hey there guys,

I may be one of the few people who hope that this lockdown doesn't end any time soon. I have been lucky enough to see some of my favourite SP's as they have been working outside their agencies. I have gotten together with some of them in private which it has been great.

Now, some of them. Our connection had grown.( We've email and texted each other. I have sent gifts to them on their b-days). My problem is there are a few other SP's that I see want to see too and have an experience with them. Some of the girls have contacted me on when we are going our next encounter.

I am just wondering, if I should tell them straight. I want to see other girls too or try to go as long as I can without being caught. Each of them has a "skill set" that I don't want to lose. Once, I have finished "auditioning" for my favourite(s). I know that I will most likely stay loyal to my top picks.

What would you do? Tell your SP that you are wanting see somebody else or not? Any info would be helpful. Thanks!

~Midknight

 

[y2kmark]

Either or? How about neither or both?...

 

[xmontrealer]

Do they only see you? I doubt they expect you to be exclusive. Doesn't mean you need to tell any of them who else you see.

 

[massman]

Can’t see it’s necessary to tell them. Tho why would they care? Are you in an “exclusive “ relationship??

 

[jcpro]

Hilarious! If you're seeing SPs, what difference does it make? Did THEY stop seeing other clients because of your obvious charms?

 

[Tomoreno]

The less they know, the better they sleep!

 

[shack]

What is the benefit in telling them?

 

[Jenesis]

I don't get why this is an issue. We are paid companions, not GFs.

If they are asking and you feel you have reply, simply say you don't know yet but as soon as you can figure out ouf, you will message them. It is not a lie and doesn't make you reveal what you are doing with your “hobby”

This should be the standard line to be honest. For anytime you are asked this question unless of course you know the date of return. LOL

 

[Samranchoi]

Have you told all the one's you are currently seeing that you are also seeing a few others and buy them gifts as well? If not, then don’t say anything and continue with your current activities plus. If you have, then just see someone new. If they ask, tell them. If they don’t ask, no need to say anything. Is the issue financial? Is that why if you see someone other new women you will need to reduce visits to your current regulars? If this isn’t the issue, then just see other women.

 

[luvyeah]

Hey there guys,

I may be one of the few people who hope that this lockdown doesn't end any time soon. I have been lucky enough to see some of my favourite SP's as they have been working outside their agencies. I have gotten together with some of them in private which it has been great.

Now, some of them. Our connection had grown.( We've email and texted each other. I have sent gifts to them on their b-days). My problem is there are a few other SP's that I see want to see too and have an experience with them. Some of the girls have contacted me on when we are going our next encounter.

I am just wondering, if I should tell them straight. I want to see other girls too or try to go as long as I can without being caught. Each of them has a "skill set" that I don't want to lose. Once, I have finished "auditioning" for my favourite(s). I know that I will most likely stay loyal to my top picks.

What would you do? Tell your SP that you are wanting see somebody else or not? Any info would be helpful. Thanks!

~Midknight

The best response is, "I really enjoyed our time together, hope to see you in the future whenever that may be, idk yet." Say this regardless of how the session went and no bridges burned and no obligations are set.

You don't owe each other explanations or should feel the need to talk or see each other ever again. Regardless of how fond of each other you've become and/or the amount of repeats. When she retires at the drop of a hat, ask yourself if she will move on or still keep in touch with any or all her clients? You pay for a few certain perks, take full advantage.

Otherwise, ask her if she wants to get married, then you can see each other all the time.

 

[Wanderer09]

Hey there guys,

I may be one of the few people who hope that this lockdown doesn't end any time soon. I have been lucky enough to see some of my favourite SP's as they have been working outside their agencies. I have gotten together with some of them in private which it has been great.

Now, some of them. Our connection had grown.( We've email and texted each other. I have sent gifts to them on their b-days). My problem is there are a few other SP's that I see want to see too and have an experience with them. Some of the girls have contacted me on when we are going our next encounter.

I am just wondering, if I should tell them straight. I want to see other girls too or try to go as long as I can without being caught. Each of them has a "skill set" that I don't want to lose. Once, I have finished "auditioning" for my favourite(s). I know that I will most likely stay loyal to my top picks.

What would you do? Tell your SP that you are wanting see somebody else or not? Any info would be helpful. Thanks!

~Midknight

Isn't the whole point of doing this is having "no strings attached"? you're not married to the SP and I'm pretty sure they are meeting other clients.

 

[midknight_luver]

Do they only see you? I doubt they expect you to be exclusive. Doesn't mean you need to tell any of them who else you see.

I know one of them is quite new and young to the "biz". She is in college and works part time outside from escorting. She did tell me during thru the pandemic. I am the only one that she has been seeing throughout the last year. Both of us have busy schedules so it is "hit and miss' whenever we can get together. The other one is more a "pro" but I don't think she has been seeing quite a lot of guys whenever I follow on her social media. Although it's nice that they call me up to see when we can get together. I am just waiting when I can get some free time off work to see both of them (separately) or some new girls.

 

[midknight_luver]

The best response is, "I really enjoyed our time together, hope to see you in the future whenever that may be, idk yet." Say this regardless of how the session went and no bridges burned and no obligations are set.

You don't owe each other explanations or should feel the need to talk or see each other ever again. Regardless of how fond of each other you've become and/or the amount of repeats. When she retires at the drop of a hat, ask yourself if she will move on or still keep in touch with any or all her clients? You pay for a few certain perks, take full advantage.

Otherwise, ask her if she wants to get married, then you can see each other all the time.

Isn't the whole point of doing this is having "no strings attached"? you're not married to the SP and I'm pretty sure they are meeting other clients.

Thanks for the advice

 

[redshank]

Would you tell your mechanic that you got your car repaired by another shop?

If you tell her she might use it as an opportunity to manipulate your guilty conscience. Manipulation will undoubtedly end up with you giving her more $$$.

 

[midknight_luver]

Would you tell your mechanic that you got your car repaired by another shop?

If you tell her she might use it as an opportunity to manipulate your guilty conscience. Manipulation will undoubtedly end up with you giving her more $$$.

You have a good point there. I was thinking about seeing this one high end SP Valentina Velez which she requires a reference from another SP. I think might be able to get a recommendation from one of the SP's that I am seeing without much drama.

Would you tell your mechanic that you got your car repaired by another shop?

If you tell her she might use it as an opportunity to manipulate your guilty conscience. Manipulation will undoubtedly end up with you giving her more $$$.

That's a good point. I was thinking about seeing this one high end spicy SP, Valentina Velez https://valentinavelez.ch/. Although she requires a reference from another SP. I think I can get a recommendation from one of the SP's that I am seeing without much drama.

 

[icespot]

If you tell, they will see it as income lost. That's fucking with business, none will be happy....

 

[midknight_luver]

If you tell, they will see it as income lost. That's fucking with business, none will be happy....

I was thinking the same thing. One of them. I see on a casual occasion so she wouldn't really mind at all but I don't want to tell the other ones.

 

[GGGDickson]

In this business there is no such thing as honesty. What is honesty other than perception. They believe what they want to believe. In the world of fake names and altered reality does it matter? You pay and play. Honesty and truth has little place in this world. They tell you things they want you to hear. I would not get too caught up in telling them things they are no interest in knowing.

 

[y2kmark]

I don't get why this is an issue. We are paid companions, not GFs.

If they are asking and you feel you have reply, simply say you don't know yet but as soon as you can figure out ouf, you will message them. It is not a lie and doesn't make you reveal what you are doing with your “hobby”

This should be the standard line to be honest. For anytime you are asked this question unless of course you know the date of return. LOL

The less said the better. Applies equally to many other areas as well...

 

[kherg007]

Once had booked a new lady at my fave now-defunct agency (naughty nuru) because she offered Greek and my fave lady did not. So, being in town for two days booked Greek lady day 1 and fave day 2. On way into condo, run into fave who was exiting to get a coffee or lunch or something. We had a brief chat (she approached me) and I felt really guilty, and said id see her tomorrow. Next day when i had fave booked I told her i felt guilty and to her credit fave said no worries im ok w it. Then i said "thanks - I suppose it would be ok, after all, i heard rumours youve been seeing other blokes when I've been out of town." Then we both had a good laugh and then a wonderful (as always) session afterward.