Is it badly mannered to go straight to sex with a SP?

[fastcar2]

Like skip bj and oral. Maybe do some kissing and hugging. But then go straight to sex?

I often want to ask for this but I feel bad as above average thickness I would feel bad. I have on a few occasions could tell the SP was annoyed and not looking forward to putting it in her. I don't really want to go down on them either due to risks and I don't know how to finger well.

 

[S416905]

Like skip bj and oral. Maybe do some kissing and hugging. But then go straight to sex?

I often want to ask for this but I feel bad as above average thickness I would feel bad. I have on a few occasions could tell the SP was annoyed and not looking forward to putting it in her. I don't really want to go down on them either due to risks and I don't know how to finger well.

At least rub her titties a little

 

[Shaquille Oatmeal]

You can inform the provider that you don't want oral.
Shouldn't be an issue imo.

 

[fastcar2]

You can inform the provider that you don't want oral.
Shouldn't be an issue imo.

When I am booking?

 

[Shaquille Oatmeal]

When I am booking?

Yes, that would be the time.

 

[Kafir]

Like skip bj and oral. Maybe do some kissing and hugging. But then go straight to sex?

I often want to ask for this but I feel bad as above average thickness I would feel bad. I have on a few occasions could tell the SP was annoyed and not looking forward to putting it in her. I don't really want to go down on them either due to risks and I don't know how to finger well.

Depending on the lady, I try to acknowledge them first. But some go straight to the job.

 

[xmontrealer]

At the very least if you're not willing to help her get relaxed and wet, suggest she uses plenty of lube...

 

[JeanGary Diablo]

Depends on the SP.

I've had some who want to get down right away, others want to have a chat first to break the ice. Just go with the flow.

 

[einar]

If it's an outcall situation, I would find it bizarre and ill-mannered to not have some minutes of conversation with an escort, both of you fully clothed. I would most likely do this at an incall also, but I fear many would not.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

If it's an outcall situation, I would find it bizarre and ill-mannered to not have some minutes of conversation with an escort, both of you fully clothed. I would most likely do this at an incall also, but I fear many would not.

I agree. However, on a couple of occasions I was lucky enough to get service from a couple of well-known favorites who were around back in the day. Most memorable was a Malaysian Chinese girl who was, as I say famous for good service. She opened the door. Let me in. Didn't even say hello. Dropped to her knees and pulled my pants down and started sucking. I can't really complain. She actually was a well-spoken and intelligent girl with a nice personality. And well mannered.

 

[Papi69]

Like skip bj and oral. Maybe do some kissing and hugging. But then go straight to sex?

I often want to ask for this but I feel bad as above average thickness I would feel bad. I have on a few occasions could tell the SP was annoyed and not looking forward to putting it in her. I don't really want to go down on them either due to risks and I don't know how to finger well.

I wouldn't stress over that. In all reality, you're probably their favorite Op. Wang, bang, thank you ma'an.

I'm just Curious, how do you get hard without at least getting head? In my case, I need to eat pussy to get hard. So, Daty to me is a must and she has to provide it or she'll be giving me a lot of head.

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

I would just tell them the honest truth. They might charge extra and they might just say no.

I know that the goal of my appointments are to get them all hot and bothered so they pop in 2 minutes. If someone said to me they wanted to have sex the entire time i would probably decline. Its not enjoyable getting dry fucked for 30 minutes to an hour in one position and constantly having to lubricate because my pussy is drier than the desert

most people come to us all horny and ready to cum. The most annoying are the ones that jerk off before or they jerk off so much they can't feel their own cock anymore. Those people need to be charged a premium.

Just be honest about what you want. What you expect and how long you typically take to cum but be prepared to get charged a premium or for a provider to say no.

They'll appreciate the honesty.

Some people still come to me at my base massage price and then say stuff like "ive never cum from a hand job before"

They want to pay the least amount of money possible but get a premium service. Don't be that guy.

The rest of the guys shes seeing aren't lasting and fucking 30 and 60 minutes. Theyre getting a lap dance, a massage, a rub down and a chat then blowing their load in 2 minutes. Theyre blowing their load and then recuperating for 40 minutes with a massage in an hour long session. There's very little sex. Maybe lots of foreplay, but very little penetration.

Like skip bj and oral. Maybe do some kissing and hugging. But then go straight to sex?

I often want to ask for this but I feel bad as above average thickness I would feel bad. I have on a few occasions could tell the SP was annoyed and not looking forward to putting it in her. I don't really want to go down on them either due to risks and I don't know how to finger well.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I know that the goal of my appointments are to get them all hot and bothered so they pop in 2 minutes. If someone said to me they wanted to have sex the entire time i would probably decline. Its not enjoyable getting dry fucked for 30 minutes to an hour in one position and constantly having to lubricate because my pussy is drier than the desert



The rest of the guys shes seeing aren't lasting and fucking 30 and 60 minutes. Theyre getting a lap dance, a massage, a rub down and a chat then blowing their load in 2 minutes. Theyre blowing their load and then recuperating for 40 minutes with a massage in an hour long session. There's very little sex. Maybe lots of foreplay, but very little penetration.

So you are more of a tire kicker.

 

[Ahri]

Nope not at all as-long as you shower first then your more than welcome to fuck right away, you are paying for your time

 

[asuran]

Depends on the provider. Not everyone is the same.

When in doubt, discuss it first with her or him before engaging. Especially if it's your first time meeting.

It is never wrong to set some ground rules and boundaries before the action.

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

Im more of a quality over quantity person. Lifes too short for shitty sex.

Anyone who says they love when a guy gets right down to sex without any lube or warming up is lying. Its the worst. Theyre the worst appointments. I like sex. I HATE terrible sex.

These appointments are annoying and it's like having sex with sand in your crotch. Every wrinkle in the condom feels gritty against the inside of the pussy.

If never getting a woman off and making sure they have a bad time is your thing by all means do what you're doing

That friction creates pain, discomfort and sores and theres no sensitivity anymore. We're not turned on, we're not lubricated, its like rubbing an elbow at that point. There's this thing that happens when im so turned off by how bad someone is at sex that no matter how much lube I use its like my pussy is sucking up the moisture and I can never really get lubricated. Its like the sex is so bad my body is rejecting their dick. It's probably the equivalent of a man not being able to get an erection but for a woman.

If my body is so turned off by someone that it's doing that it's a pretty sure indication I don't need this person in my roster. I dont need their money and theyre not worth whatever they're paying me.

I don't generally see people that are wet behind the ears though. My clients usually put emphasis on me having a good time too. Maybe that's the disconnect. Some people get off on women having a bad time and that's cool too I guess. You do you.

I've just always walked away from these appointments mad and considered raising my rates afterwards.

So you are more of a tire kicker.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Im more of a quality over quantity person. Lifes too short for shitty sex.

Anyone who says they love when a guy gets right down to sex without any lube or warming up is lying. Its the worst. Theyre the worst appointments. I like sex. I HATE terrible sex.

These appointments are annoying and it's like having sex with sand in your crotch. Every wrinkle in the condom feels gritty against the inside of the pussy.

If never getting a woman off and making sure they have a bad time is your thing by all means do what you're doing

That friction creates pain, discomfort and sores and theres no sensitivity anymore. We're not turned on, we're not lubricated, its like rubbing an elbow at that point. There's this thing that happens when im so turned off by how bad someone is at sex that no matter how much lube I use its like my pussy is sucking up the moisture and I can never really get lubricated. Its like the sex is so bad my body is rejecting their dick. It's probably the equivalent of a man not being able to get an erection but for a woman.

If my body is so turned off by someone that it's doing that it's a pretty sure indication I don't need this person in my roster. I dont need their money and theyre not worth whatever they're paying me.

I don't generally see people that are wet behind the ears though. My clients usually put emphasis on me having a good time too. Maybe that's the disconnect. Some people get off on women having a bad time and that's cool too I guess. You do you.

I've just always walked away from these appointments mad and considered raising my rates afterwards.

"That friction creates pain, discomfort and sores and theres no sensitivity anymore. We're not turned on, we're not lubricated, its like rubbing an elbow at that point."

I'm more of a nails on a blackboard kind of guy