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No. Lol. First, word would get out and if you date again many civilian women would think you tainted. Second, you'd run a major risk of fucking up your friend's marriages. If they knew the ease at which one can meet one's fantasies, and the addictive quality of this world, you would tempt, and in some cases turn, some otherwise respectable and loyal blokes away from their lovely and admirable domestic lives. I'd feel like shit if I planted that seed and ruined a marriage lol. Mine was fucked first, then that freed up the hobby. To go in the other direction I'd feel terrible about. Why fuck up others? If you're a true friend you would not throw such temptations at your mates.
No. Even though my marriage failed years ago (not related to mongering or infidelity) and I have no SO ...
1. If my employer found out, there's a good chance I'd get fired. If not immediately, then as soon as they needed a convenient excuse.
2. My friends, co-workers, neighbors, etc., think I'm an upstanding guy (I believe I am), and my reputation would take a hit.
3. Wouldn't want to be viewed as a deviant or pervert and some guys might think I'm going to hit on their wives, GFs, etc.
4. They might think me and everyone else that does this has STDs.
It will always remain my little secret.
I like boards like Terb because it provides an outlet and offers advice from like-minded individuals who understand what we do and why we do it. All anonymously.
1. If my employer found out, there's a good chance I'd get fired. If not immediately, then as soon as they needed a convenient excuse.
2. My friends, co-workers, neighbors, etc., think I'm an upstanding guy (I believe I am), and my reputation would take a hit.
3. Wouldn't want to be viewed as a deviant or pervert and some guys might think I'm going to hit on their wives, GFs, etc.
4. They might think me and everyone else that does this has STDs.
It will always remain my little secret.
I like boards like Terb because it provides an outlet and offers advice from like-minded individuals who understand what we do and why we do it. All anonymously.
I’m self-employed, I’m single, my friends know and think it’s cool (and I have dirt on all of them, so they can’t rat me out!), my parents suspect, but I doubt they care. They used to be hippies, they’re cool. Actually got a couple of my buddies into the hobby. I don’t really care a whole ton if people know what I do. I’ve never liked people much, and I’ve never cared much what they think about me. If a girl refuses to date me because she finds out I’ve seen SPs, she’s not the sort of person I want to be involved with anyway.
Only a few friends know I've had some fun, but they know about my sexless marriage situation as well. No-one knows how much fun or what type. Not even you TERB fuckers!!!
The people that know, know that I know what they've done too.
The people that know, know that I know what they've done too.
Same could go for telling squares about being an entertainer. I've tried both, since I'm a proud SW. I've had lots of support, and others completely stop talking to me. So just determine if you're willing to risk the friendship, or think they're chill enough to handle it.
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OnTheWayOut
Sometimes I need to explain the silly grin on my face after leaving an SP. A few close friends are in the know.
See, to me, that’s a good litmus test of whether someone is worth having in your life. You tell them, if they’re an uptight, judgmental jackass who’s gonna make a big deal of it and cut you out of their life, good. You’re rid of a toxic person. I only want to be friends with the sort of person who’s chill and open minded about life anyway. It’s a good way to filter out the assholes and the prudes.
Hmmm he's single but he doesn't seem to date...must have been devastated by the marriage breakup a few years ago....lol..
I have a handful of buddies that know. Out of those buddies, a few of them are in the game so no big deal.
