Curious, what is this fascination with members on trying to get HE at legit spas?
Doesn't this cause problems with the spa?
Doesn't this cause problems with the spa?
Legit spas
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As someone who has a salon & spa background YES
In schooling they actually go over this a lot and have specific training on what to do if someone tries
you have to remember to someone not in the industry it’s beyond jarring being asked for more. When I was a manager do you know how many men I had to kick out who would turn over in a massage hard & make the staff beyond uncomfortable. Or try to ask during a facial if they could get more.
To me it is beyond unprofessional & acceptable. If you want more go to the places that the girls knowingly are offering it, that they made the choice to join the industry. Please do no go to legit business and try this
I know many girls in the aesthetic world who actually quit their careers bc of this, even after all the schooling bc they were so uncomfortable.
What are you referring to when you say fascination? I check TERB almost daily and haven’t seen any recent threads about trying to weasel into non-erotic spas. At most I saw a thread listing spas that were a bit more ambiguously advertised with guys looking to confirm (presumably to decide if they should visit). What am I missing? What spawned this curiosity of yours?
Ps: I agree with the sentiment that doing so is wrong. When I go to my “legit” places for nails, hair, or RMT, I cannot imagine how trashy and traumatizing it’d be to harass them. I just don’t see evidence that there’s any overt obsession on the forum of this negative behaviour
Ps: I agree with the sentiment that doing so is wrong. When I go to my “legit” places for nails, hair, or RMT, I cannot imagine how trashy and traumatizing it’d be to harass them. I just don’t see evidence that there’s any overt obsession on the forum of this negative behaviour
For me personally whenever I go to a spa I always go in not expecting anything except a great massage. I never ask for HE or try to get one. The thrill is the unknown, when a masseuse grazes your private parts and sees if there is a response. 99 times out of 100 they grazed it for a reason and then eventually the question comes, do you want more? Sometimes I am extremely surprised when it happens especially at the more legit spas but it does rarely happen at the legit places.
Hi Nadia,
I completely agree with your sentiment. I chat with a lot of the masseuses and I am always curious and ask what the strangest thing they’ve had happen to them in this profession and 100 % of the time it’s is when guys come in and ask or even expect more than a massage.
It’s is really too bad as I really respect what they can do and how they can help relieve pain and stress which is truly what they believe people are coming to them for.
Always a few bad apples
They're correct there was a thread about a spa or two positively identified as legit, even specifivally saying so in ads, and some commenters implied or inferred they'd try anyway. I like a normal looking place right down to other customers getting typical services, but i wouldnt go to a place or person i was nt sure was okay with that and wanted tips. there was a place in BC like that that i frequented years ago, it was traffic they wanted, but you had to play it cool b/c also a real spa.
going someplace legit and "trying" i dont see how that could happen and it not be harrassment
This sounds like Time Foot Spa on Hunt Club near T&T. So many legit clients coming and going, but you never know what can possible happen, if you get a rogue masseuse.
I guess I will need to try again time foot bar, I went there once left not happy, but the massage was good
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