Limitations with submissives and dommes.

[lewd]

I realize some dungeons in the city offer no sexual gratification and cater to the true art of BSDM.

But others do but I'm wondering to what extent. What is the protocol? For example, is it common to "command" a submissive to give you a BJ?

 

[Jade4u]

I would imagine it would be alright if it is on the menu and agreed upon prior.

 

[stinkynuts]

I realize some dungeons in the city offer no sexual gratification and cater to the true art of BSDM.

But others do but I'm wondering to what extent. What is the protocol? For example, is it common to "command" a submissive to give you a BJ?

Yes, that is the entire purpose of a submissive: taking orders.

 

[Edifice]

So, whose the submissive and dom between Bush and Dick?

 

[Cute In A Kilt]

the true art of BSDM.

I don't think "no-sex" = "true art of BDSM" ... like really, I didn't get that memo and I've been in the scene since I was 19. Just because one "puts out" doesn't mean they don't know how to weld a flogger or tie your ass up good. As a sub, the Dom takes what s/he wants when they want and if they want, one's job as a sub is to please the Mistress/Master.... As a Dom, I get what I want when I want it or you get turfed, more where you came from.

Personally if your the top and you want a goddamn BJ, you just fucking order your bitch to do it, a good bitch listens

And Edifice, I think it makes sense for Dick to tell Bush what to do....

 

[lewd]

I don't think "no-sex" = "true art of BDSM" ... like really, I didn't get that memo and I've been in the scene since I was 19. Just because one "puts out" doesn't mean they don't know how to weld a flogger or tie your ass up good. As a sub, the Dom takes what s/he wants when they want and if they want, one's job as a sub is to please the Mistress/Master.... As a Dom, I get what I want when I want it or you get turfed, more where you came from.

Personally if your the top and you want a goddamn BJ, you just fucking order your bitch to do it, a good bitch listens

And Edifice, I think it makes sense for Dick to tell Bush what to do....

No, there was no memo. However, correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't BDSM more about power, control and a mind f*ck?
I suppose part of that could certainly involve a BJ or more sexual activities.

I just thought that would simply be an escort type service with a bit of kink on the side.