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MPA hobbying or Escort Hobbying?

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On another forum, a question is being debated about which is more cost effective/safer/enjoyable as a hobbying theme: MPA or escorts.

I wonder what the views are in the Terb universe?

First of all it is probably very personal and they both co-exist becasue it a question of "different strokes for different folks". I have my preferences that incline me toward MPAs, but sometime look at threads for the courtesans and escorts out there and wonder what I am missing out on by not immersing myself in escort hobbying.

I would say over the last 7 yrs of indulgence, about 80-90 percent of visits have been to MPs. I have long since abandoned the SC hobby for several reasons and don't consider it in the same league.

I have tried both and had great experiences in both. I have had share of disappointment in both as well. To get the most out of each, I probably see costs as about equal. If I deduct the cost of massage fee only and only count the amount for extras, then MPAs are a much better deal for my tastes. For example, escort for one hour is at least 200. With MPA, 60-65 for massage fee and then 40-120 for extras depending how far you want to go a la carte.

The only way to feel reasonably confident with an escort is to go for a well reviewed "courtesan" escort that usually charge a higher price. The experience is usually well defined before hand, but as always chemistry, attitude and hygeine etc can make your encounter a bit more or less than expected. If you look for full service, these reliable but slightly more expensive (over 200 per hour) escorts are a good time. Some courtesan escorts charge a lot of money and are only aiming for high rollers or guys like me who save up and splurge once in a long while for high priced girls. Generally, I get more overall enjoyment from two visits to a nice 200+ escort than one visit to a 400+ escort.

For MPAs, I insist firstly to go to place where girls know how to massage (both to work out kinks and be sensual /erotic at same time). That way, whether I get extras or not that day, I paid for and got a nice massage. On first visits you can't be sure if, or how well a MPA will provide extras. I actually like that part of the encounter: the game to see if and how much will be available and to what degree a good rapport with masseuse will improve services and overall experience. Sometimes it takes a few visits to get into a comfy situation with lots of mileage. Some MPAs are too mechanical so I pay the bill and don't return to her. In the end I may have spent 40 on an uninspired release that day but it was worth a shot to see if she could be a gem.
 

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shortstuff said:
........ The only way to feel reasonably confident with an escort is to go for a well reviewed "courtesan" escort that usually charge a higher price.
I agree wholeheartedly with the above comment.

As in most areas of business, we rarely get what we pay for. However, if we're prepared to pay for what we WANT then we will usually be much happier. On Craigslist, for example, you will find many titillating "unrestricted" ladies who promise the world but who deliver far far less, e.g., ladies who fail to deliver the services that they advertise, ladies who repeatedly answer their phones in your presence, and ladies who operate a "revolving door" business and want you out of the door as soon as possible.

Conversely, if you go to the local VIP ladies and the VIP ladies who travel across the country, and especially if you make it worth their while, then all of your dreams will usually come true. It's like taking your car into a cut-price no-name local garage, they'll certainly get you back on the road but you'll be back there again very soon. It all comes down to quality versus quantity in my opinion, although I didn't always think that way.

For example, consider the hypothetical case of one visit per month for a year to a Craigslist SP at $200 per visit (total expenditure of $2,400), and assume that 8 of those visits were disappointing in some way and only 4 were mind-blowing and memorable. That works out to $600 per mind-blowing visit! Thus, why not pay $300-$400 to a VIP courtesan escort for a guaranteed mind-blowing visit right off the bat and receive the full unrestricted package with everything else that goes along with that? I've learned my lesson the "hard" way, i.e., that there are no real bargains in this industry. You have to pay for what you WANT! If I were an SP myself I certainly wouldn't be selling the good stuff at garage sale prices!
 
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therecklesswanderer

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Tip-Drill said:
I agree wholeheartedly with the above comment.

As in most areas of business, we rarely get what we pay for. However, if we're prepared to pay for what we WANT then we will usually be much happier. On Craigslist, for example, you will find many titillating "unrestricted" ladies who promise the world but who deliver far far less, e.g., ladies who fail to deliver the services that they advertise, ladies who repeatedly answer their phones in your presence, and ladies who operate a "revolving door" business and want you out of the door as soon as possible.

Conversely, if you go to the local VIP ladies and the VIP ladies who travel across the country, and especially if you make it worth their while, then all of your dreams will usually come true. It's like taking your car into a cut-price no-name local garage, they'll certainly get you back on the road but you'll be back there again very soon. It all comes down to quality versus quantity in my opinion, although I didn't always think that way.

For example, consider the hypothetical case of one visit per month for a year to a Craigslist SP at $200 per visit (total expenditure of $2,400), and assume that 8 of those visits were disappointing in some way and only 4 were mind-blowing and memorable. That works out to $600 per mind-blowing visit! Thus, why not pay $300-$400 to a VIP courtesan escort for a guaranteed mind-blowing visit right off the bat and receive the full unrestricted package with everything else that goes along with that? I've learned my lesson the "hard" way, i.e., that there are no real bargains in this industry. You have to pay for what you WANT! If I were an SP myself I certainly wouldn't be selling the good stuff at garage sale prices!
Can't argue the math or the philosophy on the above.

I think for some people, the thrill of the chase plays a large part of the adventure. A YMMV where you get the M is much more satisfying than the services provided. I think that is where the SC scene comes into things, and maybe the MP as well.

Finding a gem in the rough, or a hidden gem can be one of the most satisfying things for me, and new is always better than previously experienced.

For my money, the SP is a better bet, and I never sample until a good look through the Terb to see what I can expect.
 

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therecklesswanderer said:
.................. I think for some people, the thrill of the chase plays a large part of the adventure. ........... Finding a gem in the rough, or a hidden gem can be one of the most satisfying things for me, and new is always better than previously experienced.
It's impossible to argue with the above comments, human nature being what it is. As Mr. Spock once said in an early Star Trek episode, "Having is not so pleasing as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true."

http://www.marketaz.co.uk/StarTrek/Vulcan/Spock.html

It's no wonder that marriage sex goes south very very quickly .... although, to be fair, sex is not the only important thing in marriage.

If you read the book "The Family, Sex and Marriage In England 1500-1800" by Lawrence Stone (1979), you'll realize that absolutely nothing regarding extra-marital and illicit sex has changed since those early days. It may not be logical, but it is true! In fact, the eminent diarist and author Samuel Boswell (1740-1795) was a pre-TERB hobbyist of the first degree! Here's a quotation from Stone's book:

"Boswell became a habitual drunken lecher, a familiar figure staggering through the less reputable streets of London. Despite increasing urethric trouble, once causing total stricture necessitating surgical intervention, his sexual virility remained unimpaired -- in June 1789 he visited a new girl three times in the course of a day -- but he became more and more reckless, and the attacks of gonorrhoea became more frequent ...."

If Samuel Boswell were alive today and living in Ottawa you'd probably find him trolling the streets in Vanier ..... lol![/I] At least we're in good company!
 

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Tip-Drill said:
If Samuel Boswell were alive today and living in Ottawa you'd probably find him trolling the streets in Vanier ..... lol![/I] At least we're in good company!
Good company indeed.

I think that's why I like strip bars so much. It's just the chase. You don't win very often, but when you do, it's a victory (or is it???)
 
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